i wrote this a while back but is important for everyone to see posted 5/9/2007 4:10:15 PM | 4 kudos what's this?     report abuse tagged: abuse, men, women, dating, relationships

helen77

anyone that tries to swoop in and be your knight in shining armour BEWARE ....... anyone that doesn't want you to work or be able to support yourself w/out him/her wants you to be dependent on them so you CAN'T leave him/her ........... when a person will not ALLOW you to have friends or family around regularly is trying to dismantle your support system so you have no one if you want to leave them ...................anyone that shows alot of insecurity such as.... constant gloating ... wanting you to shower them w/ praise for every little thing .... looking for some one much younger than them ..............constantly accusing you of cheating ...... calling you 24/7 to see where you are and what you are doing and who you are with .... these people will make you so unsure of yourself that you will question your own sanity ...they will tell you that you didn't see something you did see ......... they will make you think that you can't survive w/out them .... they try to buy your love at first then try to strip you down so you have nothing .... they are very good at what they do and look for people that have been emotionally neglected and are in need of attention ..... they use your issues against you instead of helping you through them ...... this is mostly men looking for women that have already been abused in one way or another ......and at first they come off as oh you poor thing i will take care of it FOR you instead of them helping you learn how to do it yourself ......remember follow your gut if you think something is fishy then you are probably right ........... i have learned that you are not ready for a relationship until you have your life in order and realize that you don't NEED one to be happy ...... then and only then will you be able to see the good from the bad ...... get some friends get your own place or a room mate and have some fun ....... it has taken me 5 years to get to this point and i still have a few things to work on but i am right there any other signs you may have and all comments are welcome i never pick and choose

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