It's only Monday, and already I have my 2nd "Married, but honest." email from a married man this week. 
I do believe these words can and do go together and they should, but when I get emails from some loser saying "I'm married, but honest....let's get together...etc" it really chaps my hide. Before they go out to cheat, do they say to their kids or their wives "I'll be back later, I'm going to have an affair now and probably ruin your lives" That would be honest. Do they say, "Hey honey, I'm going to go catch VD from a stranger now and infect you later" That would be honest. Or how about "Sorry kids, I can't come to your game, I'll be too busy banging my mistress". That would be honest. Somehow I think they have a different idea of what honesty is than I do. 
Oh and I love it when they add "Intelligent". "Honest and intelligent". I might believe that if they'd bothered to read the part of my profile that says "if you're married don't contact me, you're not that special." 
Married men looking to cheat, get a grip. If you were an "honest" man as you allege, you wouldn't be cheating. And I know it's been said many times before, but I repeat: MD is not AMD, take that BS over there.
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OceanTravler
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May 14 @ 9:47PM
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Sounds like some jerk that thinks just because a woman is looking, she will take any dog on the street. I wonder if his wife knows? Maybe someone should tell her about Mr. Jackass. Hope you roasted his hard drive.
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RomanticLibra106
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May 14 @ 9:53PM
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I agree with you 100%!
They think we're stupid and they think we're desperate like they are. If they weren't desperate, they wouldn't be chasing after single women on here and if they weren't losers, they'd be happy with the woman they have.
You should play these married guys along until you get their phone # and call it until their wife answers. Then tell them what their lovely hubby is up to. That would fry him alright.
Sooner or later he WILL get caught though - it's just a matter of time.
ATTENTION MARRIED JERKOFFS - IF YOU'RE THAT UNHAPPY, DIVORCE YOUR WIFE - OTHERWISE TALLBLONDE IS RIGHT - TAKE IT TO AMD AND LEAVE US ALONE!
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hoftner
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May 14 @ 9:55PM
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behonestaboutlove
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May 14 @ 9:59PM
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I take it you have a VD?
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caffie1
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May 14 @ 9:59PM
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 i so agree Tall......it happens to me alot to....If i wanted a FB i would advertise it.....I am with you...take it to AMD.....honest....yea he speaking with his main hormone...... 
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behonestaboutlove
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May 14 @ 10:06PM
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so nice to know that there are so many judgemental close minded people here in MD and people who are comfortable with who they are, are suddenly not welcome here and told to go elsewhere, good job! is it in the rules somewhere that we can't be here because we are different?
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TallBlonde1
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May 14 @ 10:07PM
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All married men stupid enough to write to me get ripped a new one, along with a good dose of guilt. Those that give me their phone numbers might find them posted around West Hollywood.
Behonest I was waiting for someone to ask that...somehow I thought it would be Skydoggie... No, I don't have VD, it was just an example
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TallBlonde1
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May 14 @ 10:10PM
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Behonest I think you're mis-understanding. It clearly says in my profile I'm not interested in married men. And I think married people that cheat that don't tell their spouse aren't honest. That's all I'm saying.
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caffie1
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May 14 @ 10:12PM
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behonest.....where did you get the idea Tall or anyone was judging anyone?
She stated that she didn't appreciate married men who cheat....and the VD thing was what the asshole married man was going to say to his wife...please read before u judge...thanks 
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behonestaboutlove
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May 14 @ 10:20PM
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I wasn't judging.. I just seem to be seeing an increase in bashing of different people that are here and them being called names or told to leave.  I am like starting to feel like I have to be on the defensive around here.
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caffie1
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May 14 @ 10:24PM
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Well then if you feel that way then think to yourself....not outloud to make an ASSumption.....thats not nice.....why are you so defensive? if someone wronged you then take it up with them....she has a point and her right to her own opinion....and if you or anyone else doesnt like it ...then don't comment...go to another blog....ok im done lessoned taught and learned i hope....good bloggie Tall.....
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behonestaboutlove
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May 14 @ 10:29PM
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caffie1 to you I say  its a free world and we are all entitled to our thoughts and opinions and I will post my thoughts and feelings on whatever damn blog I want, just like you do. why am I so defensive, 75 percent of the blogs around here are bashing people for their beliefs, whatever they may be and people are being chased off and i am sick of it. I may be an Ass but i am proud of it and you people are not chasing me off.
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honesty2laughter
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May 14 @ 10:34PM
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 YES i so agree with you all the way
so nice to know that there are so many judgemental close minded people here in MD and people who are comfortable with who they are, are suddenly not welcome here and told to go elsewhere, good job! is it in the rules somewhere that we can't be here because we are different? . >>
Iam far from close minded i also dont like prople who cheat lie hurt others i can and do accept many people but never will i accept someone who LIES to get by.I see you as a very nice person.As i wish everyone all the best in friendship and esp Love
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RomanticLibra106
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May 14 @ 10:45PM
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TallBlonde has a right to express her views about married cheating men and I agree with her 100%. She wasn't bashing anybody.
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caffie1
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May 14 @ 10:51PM
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ok ok behonest...truce..here look i know you have a right...so did Tall.....if you read the blog a lil better you would have retracted what you wrote....
So i am done!!!! end........
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katlea07
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May 14 @ 10:59PM
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Agree with you 110%!!!!! I just would have uses stronger words then you did if I was the one to post a blog like this - only because I feel they insult our intelligence AND are on the wrong dating site! . Thanks for sharing!
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LGTEYES
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May 14 @ 11:01PM
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Hurray for you and some kudos too!!   
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ForumMod
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May 14 @ 11:02PM
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behonestaboutlove said:
is it in the rules somewhere that we can't be here because we are different?
absolutely not! individuals and independent thinkers and people from all walks and thoughts of life are much appreciated, as is honesty. that "married but looking" thing is always a touchy subject, but probably better to know upfront than to be surprised. 
I take it you have a VD?
personally i took that as a deadpan (straight-faced) joke and not a "slam" but then, as we've seen time and again, not everyone "gets" dry humor.
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katlea07
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May 14 @ 11:03PM
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Agree with you 110%!!!!! I just would have uses stronger words then you did if I was the one to post a blog like this - only because I feel they insult our intelligence AND are on the wrong dating site! . Thanks for sharing!
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behonestaboutlove
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May 14 @ 11:09PM
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I take it you have a VD?
personally i took that as a deadpan (straight-faced) joke and not a "slam" but then, as we've seen time and again, not everyone "gets" dry humor.
it was a joke and I do tend to have a dry sense of humor at times..
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TallBlonde1
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May 14 @ 11:28PM
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I have no problem admitting I'm judging married men who cheat, lie, and contact women who aren't interested in them. That's exactly what I'm doing.
I am not judging those couples with alternative lifestyles as they have nothing to do with this blog. That's not the topic, it's clear to me Behonest simply misunderstood. And as evidenced by my around my 1st repsonse to her I thought she was joking. We're all good.
Back to the topic....
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behonestaboutlove
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May 14 @ 11:37PM
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it's clear to me Behonest simply misunderstood. And as evidenced by my around my 1st repsonse to her I thought she was joking. We're all good. yep!
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babydoll6
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May 14 @ 11:48PM
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I totally agree with you. It gets old telling these a-holes to stop bugging me because I don't date married men for any reason. I wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of an affair let alone be the "other woman." I even told a friend once that her husband was on a date site and gave her my info to check it out for herself. He lost everything in their divorce and I mean everything. I feel bad for her but if the shoe was on the other foot I would want someone to tell me. I was there for her and she came out of it pretty good. He was basically there for her money but didn't get a plug nickel because of his fooling around. We have to stick together and let these jerks know we will not tolerate their little games.. Honest and sincere my a**.
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itechman63
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May 17 @ 9:56PM
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