I have noticed that some women have mostly men on their list and some mostly women. I have mostly women because I will be chatting with a woman on a certain subject and we find we have things in common so we request them to be on our friends list. I don't just send a request to any man or women to be on my friends list, although I have had people send me requests without even sending me a e-mail to get acquainted first, those I reject.
I have noticed if a woman has provocative photo's she will have a BOAT LOAD of men on her list ... sorry guys I keep that for my special man! 
How do you decide who are your friends?
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kallamis
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Jul 1 @ 8:05AM
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I allow only a few myself. Usually there is an isue we both agre on, or sometimes start out arguing, and then learn more of each other in private emails, that we end up as friends. Who knows really. It's all kind of a gut thing with me, you know. But you will find that i am on very few lists of friends. and as for the certain dresed women. That is why they do that. It is an insecurity isue with them, and the guys want there so that they can fel good about themselves. It makes them "feel" like a man. Silliness really. But they are just humans. LAter
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Missy_21484
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Jul 1 @ 8:14AM
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I'm a little carefree with my friendslist... as long as their profile seems alright and they arent asses or overly cocky.... I like real people who seem to have some sense! If they stop talking to me or I don't hear from them, on blog or email, they get cut! lol 
Melissa
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CJayWright
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Jul 1 @ 8:33AM
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I have 49 on my friends list, all of them women. Of course it might be because I've been here for almost 8 years and made many friends. As for my favorites list, I've got around 200. Don't be shocked, when I meet someone online in chat or see someone I would lke to make friends with or they are just too pretty to let get away, I add them.
No, I'm no Don Juan, player or stalker, I just appreciate a good person and/or a pretty girl. I'm a man, what can I say! lol P.S. you are on there too lol Oh, another thing, I actually read the profiles, I only add those ladies who I determine worthy, heh.
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UnicornLover1962
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Jul 1 @ 8:33AM
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i normally don't accept until after i've talked to a person a few times.
though when i first started here, it was accept, accept and accept. now, i'm more choosy
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Proud2bBiPolar
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Jul 1 @ 8:34AM
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I get along better with men than women, here and in real life...I have both men and women on my list, mostly those in whome I respect and enjoy communicating with.
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luvshorses644
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Jul 1 @ 8:53AM
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I take my friends list very seriously as "friend" actually means just that to me, not acquaintance or someone I would like to "be more with". I have been on this site (well actually on and off) for a year and one-half and have less than 30 friends so that is indicitive of how much they mean to me. I think I have a handful of men friends simply because I don't chat with them in the same manner I do women. I enjoy being able to simply "spill my guts" about my feelings and desires and I find it very much easier to do so to my gal pals because they can relate.
This is just my opinion, to everyone that is gonna get upset, this is not a law, mandate or carved in any type of stone or psychology book under behavioral patterns: I have often wonder if either gender (man/woman) has mainly the opposite gender (man has mostly women - woman has mostly men) on their friends list how serious can they be about finding a committed relationship as it seems / appears / is perceived if you will as they are enjoying their newly-found ability to test the waters and flirt, sorta like a kid in a candy store feeling. And again, my own opinion, if that is the case when one of the men emails me and asks to get to know me better, I am very leary.
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The_Boy_Next_Door
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Jul 1 @ 9:18AM
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My friends have all come from blogland, They are eaither very entertaining, some are cute and funny, Yes I have few male friends also. I don't send invites to people I never chatted with, nor do I ever allow a Skank to be my friend.
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jamminjerry
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Jul 1 @ 9:33AM
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i am a bit odd with this specific point. there isn't anyone on my friends list. neither of my friends belong to M D and so until they do, my friends list will remain empty. oops, the odd part is i use a bible verse to help me decide who my friends are. we be jammin
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illusion790
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Jul 1 @ 9:37AM
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The friends on my list are people I have emailed with. We seem to have something in common, and have had a few laughs here in blogland!  I have even met a few in person!
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RainSongSpirit
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Jul 1 @ 9:47AM
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i have both and for the reasons as above.......if i find someone interesting i will request ......its a good feature jmo 
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Johnny1951
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Jul 1 @ 9:52AM
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I have one formula only........If they, in my humble opinion have a brain that I can relate to and know how to use it, I find that I would like to be their friend.....I have a little of both on my list.... 
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Injuneer
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Jul 1 @ 10:31AM
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Funny that came up .... I was just looking at my "friends" list and noticeing those that have never so much as written since they declaired their "friendship". I'm sure it means something different for everyone, but for me I consider it a person that maintains a certain amount of regular contact. Kind of goes back to being able to walk the walk and I've got a few that have stumbled........guess it's time to tidy up the old list!
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Sweetheart83446
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Jul 1 @ 10:54AM
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We have a friends list?
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luneib
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Jul 1 @ 3:09PM
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I don't discriminate, if a person wants to be my friend, then they can be on my list. But....alot of the people on my list never write me, I only have a few I write to regularly. Really, who has time to write to over 100 people? lol
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