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posted 7/8/2007 3:15:44 PM |
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B.B.W. You know what that stands for? Well, I'll give you a clue! It's not 'Big Breasted Women'. So if your mammary glands, or the boughten facsimiles you own, are the only big things about your body then you are not a B.B.W.

It stands for ' Big Beautiful Women'. This is a distinct category that requires all three to be self-evident.

Now, bigness, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder and as such it's fairly subjective. Yet, if you can buy your clothes in the 'Misses' or 'Junior' section of a store, per the usual standard of things you simply do not qualify as the sort of 'Big' that is required for this category. You may be a Medium-Sized or Small Beautiful Woman or a Normal-sized Beautiful Woman but you are not a Big Beautiful Woman because, darling, you aren't Big if you are wearing a size 14 or under; unless, maybe, you are under 5 foot tall!

Now, let's discuss beauty and it's relation to the 'B.B.W.' entitlement. Yes, beauty is subjective, and perhaps you may not find certain people who others feel qualify, to be beautiful. Yet, there are some people that an overwhelming majority would agree are "pretty for a fat chick" or "gorgeous, too bad about the weight" or " friggin perfect: don't care if she isn't a toothpick; she shouldn't change a thing.".

Kirstie Alley is abeautiful woman whether big or small. Pity she doesn't spend more time realizing that for herself as she is most definitely, in my opinion, someone who would qualify as a Big Beautiful Woman when she is big and as a beautiful woman all the time.

Rosie O'Donnell, however, would not, in my opinion, qualify as a Big Beautiful Woman and so I find it offensive when people say she's a 'B.B.W.' . Just because a person is fat, doesn't mean that they are as beautiful as any and all other fat people; in exactly the same way that just being thin doesn't automatically make you model hot.

Now, don't get me wrong. I do not think she's ugly or offensive looking; I think she's gotten better looking with age, in fact; and sometimes she is just as cute as cute can be, looks wise, but beautiful? Not to me. Not to anyone I ever asked.

However, she's not that big of a problem for me as looks wise, I could see where someone could think she's beautiful. It's just that there are so many larger women who absolutely are not beautiful and it cheapens us all to insist that they should be called so.

Remember the pictures I posted of my Ex's wife? She's fat, you know? So people call her a B.B.W. and then she objects to being called big. Now, we can all see that she's a bit big, but, honestly, are any of us likely to think, based on her appearance, that she's beautiful?

Please think before you label! Fat is not beautiful; thin is not beautiful: beautiful is beautiful. So if your claim to being a Big Beautiful Woman lays in being fat and possessing a vagina, then you probably should not be calling yourself a Big Beautiful Woman. You may be beautiful inside, sure, but I think we all know the label is in reference to the outside.

If you were born with a penis, as in actually with a full-on male body, then it doesn't matter how pretty you look in a skirt: you may be big, you may be beautiful, but you are not a woman and any good geneticist could prove it. So go and be a Big Beautiful Tranny, if you like, but leave being labeled as a woman to actual women. Thank you.

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Comments:
albertafire

Jul 8 @ 3:20PM  

thank you.
needmorecoffee

Jul 8 @ 5:06PM  

Love your blog!
fenderchick

Jul 8 @ 7:02PM  
I think everyone should just be refferred to as beautiful. We all see each other differently. To those who love us we are not a size whatever when they look at us. We are just us and they see our beauty. Good blog
MissSherriLou

Jul 8 @ 7:56PM  
Cool blog! You go girl!!!
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Jul 17 @ 8:14PM  
HopelesslyHopeful

Jul 18 @ 12:29AM  
Ahhhh now all is right: you know my day isn't complete without getting the clap from Miss Choos



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