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Gaining weight and dating

posted 7/13/2007 10:16:40 PM |

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LivinProof

I have 2 girlfriends that have men from their past that want to see them, each are too afraid to see them again because they are afraid that he will be disappointed because they have gained a little weight (and I mean a little). Is this what dating has come to? Why???

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The_Boy_Next_Door	Jul 13 @ 10:22PM
	If you don't like yourself you won't like anyone else. They will be so busy with their own insecurities, they won't have time to move ahead. JMO

UnicornLover1962	Jul 13 @ 10:23PM
	most people want to be remembered as they were, not as they are. in my instance, i've lost weight, so i have some body problems, and will have for a time to come...yes they can be embarassing if i let them, but in a way, i'm proud of it. they're testament of how far i've come in life. your friends need to realize that life goes on and the body does it's thing. if they've only gained a little body weight, it seems like they've gained a ton of emotional/mental weight, which is harder to shed. hopefully, they'll realize it and take the chance and go for the gold. they're lucky to have a friend like you who cares. huggles mel

joygirl4u	Jul 14 @ 12:11AM
	Just help them realize that although they might have gained bodily weight, they have also gained human substance!!! experience and maturity don't come cheap in life!!! and if the price is a few extra pounds (always refer to them as "a few"), welcome them! what a person gains in experience, wisdom and maturity, is far more valuable than the physical changes. Help them see how they became better persons, and how that will enrich any potential relationship they get into. You have the opportunity to be the point of balance since you have seen he change gradually, and they don't see you as a critical party.

mojorisin	Jul 15 @ 11:15AM
	sometimes it's a good thing...to gain weight that is. i've known some girls that i've liked better with a little more weight on them.

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