He came over yesterday to fix the dryer. I drove to sears, and we picked the belt up. My sis payed for the part. When we got back to the house, He put the belt on the dryer wrong and took off.
About five minutes after I started drying a load of pants I smelled burnt rubber. I had a load in the washer wet. I had a load in the dryer and when I called his moms at 8:42 PM to tell him about it his mom told me , him and his dad had went toward Yukon oh no correction they went the other way toward stillwater to get a part for the tractor. When I said I didn't think anything was open this late she said well they left earlier. She stuttered a lot.
I called at 8:00 this morning and she said" he isn't home and I have no idea where he is, he left right after him and his dad got back." Yesterday he yelled at me "Your still married", when I asked him what i should have put on my papers for work.
Yet he is out doing Lord knows what. I think he is doing the same thing he did when we met. He will find a woman with her own place and then he will start staying with her and only returning to his moms to get fresh clothes. I feel so darn mad. He can go take a flying leap into the deepest , darkest, hottest place on earth for all I care.
Check this out:
I needed a pair of T shoes for work and I asked him if he would buy them for me. He had to charge them at Dillards. I have a nice pair of shoes at least. My oldest needed a bra so I went to see if they had gotten a new shipment in. The last time he tried to buy her one they were out of her size.
He decided to buy the girls shirts. My sister has been buying the girls clothes and they didn't need shirts. They needed pantys, socks, pants and shorts. He ignored me when I tried to tell him that. He bought the oldest a pink shirt. She says is pretty but it is that silky saten type material and the threads pull in them real quick. He tried to get Sarah a black shirt that was so not her. She was afraid of making him mad so she kept saying it was to long and she was a midget. I finally told him that her excuses meant she didn't like the shirt. He gave me the mean I want to cuss you out but I won't look. He then picked out a white shirt for her. This is my tom boy baby. She goes through clothes like crazy because she will get down in the dirt and chase frogs in them.
He paid 26.00 for each shirt. I kept thinking how crazy it was to spend so much on a shirt that will be gone the first time they wear them. He bought four candy bars,
and took them with him. I guess they are for his other woman.
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minky
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Aug 26 @ 12:40PM
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If he can change a dryer belt so can you. You have a computer, look it up.
The more you learn to for yourself the better of you and your children will be.
Screw him!
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xoSweetAngelxo
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Aug 26 @ 12:57PM
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I am sorry to hear that, I have a friend a little bit older than me that is going through a tough time too, and although it is hard for her. You need to do what is best for your family. I wish you luck ! If you ever want to chat, I can listen.
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Josuha
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Aug 26 @ 1:01PM
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Although alot of these blogs are 'pity parties' and some 'man bashing"
Well..I think he's screwing with you. (I'm a man..) and your emotions.
Ask around and see if there is a guy around to show you how to do repairs.
There's lots of them and not looking for 'sex'.
Alot will fix simple things for a meal (I'm not kidding..again..I'm a man.)
As one poster suggested, also look on the net.
If it's just a separation, then call once in awhile.
If things can be patched up, then try.
If, on the other hand, he's with someone else, the more you call, the more he is going to 'distance' himself.
If he has a lover, your also going to have to break emotionally from this.
That means no contact unless it's busienss. (Repairs are not business..)
Or you'll find yourself in a never ending circle of calling, hurt, calling, hurt.
Wish you the best.
Josh
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