His mom called and gripped me out over $35.00 we owe her. Her grand kids had no food in the house and I haven't even received my first paycheck and she says where is the $35.00 you owe me. The neighbor across the street gave us some food. It is so good to see food in my fridge. I will not miss his mother. I enjoyed cooking last night the neighbor gave us some chicken breasts and I cut them up and made a nice sauce and we had baked potatoes and corn. The girls loved it. I am going to miss them so much this weekend the only time we have been away from each other is when they have been in school. They don't want to go. They want to see daddy, but they hate to go to nana's because dad's brother and his wife smoke around them. Their dad is smoking again so I wonder if he will smoke around them to. I have the next five days off today for a Dr.s appt and tomorrow for a follow up appointment. At this point for today my got to have him back or die is changed to all I care about is my girls, keeping a job and finding someone that can come over eat dinner with us and help me with the things around the house I can't do. A companion is what I need, because I know better than to have the rebound relationship. Well I am headed to the city. Hope your day is a good one.
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RomanticLibra106

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Aug 30 @ 9:28AM
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I'm 100% sure his mother does NOT need the $35,000 instantly and is just harassing you. The woman needs to get a life. You can only do what you can do. Some people are just erratic; unrealistic and downright mean. I know. I had the mother-in-law from hell and my mother isn't the greatest most of the time either! Do what you need to do for yourself and your kids. She will survive.
I wouldn't want MY kids inhaling second hand smoke. It injures and kills people. You know the dangers I'm sure. You can't tell people what to do in their own homes, but I'd be sure that they knew I didn't like my kids inhaling their smoke. jmo.
I wish the best to you. It isn't easy for a single Mom and yes, you're right. You don't need a relationship yet - you need to heal from this one and you will find the right man when the time is right. Many blessings.
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Kat_luvr

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Aug 30 @ 9:39AM
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Hang in there... it is bound to get better. Have a hug and feel better... ( been there)
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BrendaNoklahoma

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Aug 30 @ 10:30AM
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If your EX isnt contributing financially, get your butt over to social services, and apply for assistance ASAP. They will then attach his paycheck for reimbursement no matter where he is working. lol. You dont have to be divorced to do this. He helped to make these kids, and he's as financially responsible for them as you are.
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Fender

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Aug 30 @ 12:51PM
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Some people like to kick you when you are already down, she sounds like someone like that. She should ask him for the money. I pray that things will get better for you and your girls, I have been in a similar situation before and I know how hard it is. Best of luck. xo Fender.
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