Go figure posted 9/8/2007 12:28:23 AM | 1 kudo what's this?     report abuse

chatty

He called tonight and told me he couldn't find the pully for the dryer then he let me know that he is not going to keep helping on the bills and is cutting me down to the $750.00 a month he wants to give me. I haven't gotten a full check and even then I only make $7.00 an hour. how does he expect me to take over the paying of the bills when I can't even make the $275.00 electric bill in one check? He had hot checks ( that i won't miss) and I couldn't even pay the car payment. Then he gets nasty and say I guess you will just have to go to DHS. Ok... I am mad now.
He said I can't keep taking care of two households. I didn't know he had two households to take care of.
Well, I have news for him. He chose to leave, and he knew I was a stay at home mom for the whole marriage. He knows I do not have a after highschool education and can't make big bucks like him. I am supposed to feel sorry for him? He has two children to take care of , children he helped make that have his blood in them. No child or children by another man and the woman he replaces me with can take their place. He is a man that only cares about himself. Any woman he gets with will find out down the line she has married a man that is selfish and emotionally abusive. I am thinking I am well rid of him and the woman he left me for did me a favor. I hope she doesn't have children. He can act so much like a child you think he is good father material but any man that can let his children starve to buy videos and when his three month old baby needs formula buy himself a pair of inline skates instead of formula is not good father material. Plus he will spank and lose his temper and spank to hard if she turns her back on him. My daughters can tell her how momma would have to stop him when he was getting so mad he was close to spanking while to angry to control himself. I am just sorry it took me all these years to realize just how much we did without so he could have his wants. He is the type to do anything to get the woman, go to church ,seem like he is the nicest man on earth, lie, he will be her perfect man and she will think she has struck gold. He will tell her how the woman before her abused him and make her think she is saving him. There are three women that fell for it and we lived to tell about it. Run huny it isn't real.
The say distance makes the heart grow fonder. In this case distance gave me time to see him for what he is. A man who will treat you like a queen as long as he gets his way and you never buck up against him or tell him he is wrong but as soon as you realize you have lost yourself due to his emotional abuse and you are just his little puppet he is out the door and on to the next woman. He did it to his first wife, he did it to his second wife, he did it to me, and she is next. Funny thing I should be going nanny nanny boo boo the jokes on you, but I kind of feel sorry for her.

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