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posted 9/13/2007 5:38:41 AM |
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  Horde

I've ran across alot of people while on this site who know very little and some who know alot.I myself do not know all the ins and outs on this practice.But i tried to get something for everyone to learn what BDSM is and what it isn't you will have your on thoughts on this topic before and after reading this but please don't make yourself look like a total jackass by not reading it then talking shit.

wikipedia said:

Many of the specific practices in BDSM are those which, if performed in nonconsensual contexts, could be considered unpleasant, undesirable or abusive. For example, while pain, physical restraint and servitude are traditionally inflicted on persons, in BDSM, these activities are engaged in with the mutual consent of the participants, and typically for mutual enjoyment.

This emphasis on informed consent and safety is also known as SSC (safe, sane and consensual), though others prefer the term RACK (risk-aware consensual kink), believing that it places more emphasis on acknowledging the fact that all activities are potentially risky. There is discussion and dispute about the meaning or intent of the terms,[citation needed] but in essence, both terms refer to all participants acknowledging and accepting some level of risk.

BDSM may or may not involve sex of any kind.
BDSM may or may not involve sexual roleplaying.
How dominant or submissive a person may be in their regular life does not necessarily indicate which role they will play in a scene.
Some BDSM players are polyamorous or sexually monogamous but engage in non-sexual play with others.
A couple may engage in BDSM sexuality with an otherwise non-Dominant/submissive relationship dynamic

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Comments:
maggiemae684

Sep 13 @ 7:33AM  
I am curious.....is this going to become a blogger bashing in the comments because the poster dared to write about a more controversial subject? Is it fear or ignorance that prompts people to jump on the bandwagon and attempt to quash that which strays from the 'norm'?
Kandykammy

Sep 13 @ 7:47AM  
I would like to learn more about bondage and why people are into it. It is not for me, but I would like to know why others prefer it. .
Kat_luvr

Sep 13 @ 12:55PM  
All I have to say to those into this....To each his own. Whatever floats the boat and makes you happy.
whatagal

Sep 13 @ 9:32PM  
What about spankin's?
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Bdsm & ect Part: 1