You're walking down a street. It's a sunny day and you're feeling good. No worries, no responsibilities -- you were simply going to spend a few hours window shopping on a lazy Sunday afternoon. A man (woman) walks up to you. He (She) says:
"Excuse me, I was on the other side of the street and noticed you. I found myself immensely attracted to you -- you're really gorgeous. I know this is ... "unorthodox", but if you had nothing to do this afternoon, would you want to get a room with me and have sex for a few hours?"
You look at the person. He (she) is dressed nicely, is well groomed, and ... well ... delicious looking. Nice hair, good bod, yummy butt, good teeth. The attraction is definitely mutual. There's a reasonable motel a block away and you see the faint outline of a condom in the person's front pocket (indicating they practice responsible safe sex).
Question:
Do you say "yes" or "no"?
Some ground rules.
1. If you're married or in a relationship, pretend you're single for the purposes of answering the question.
2. A relationship down the road is not out of the question (if that's what you want). But right now, he (she) is asking if you want to have sex. Nothing more.
3. Don't feel obligated to say "why" if you don't want to. I'm just curious about the answer.
4. The gender/sex of the person is anything you want it to be.
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BandTMom
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Sep 13 @ 8:36PM
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I would have to say no. I believe sex belongs in a relationship, not off the street.
But I'm not saying I wouldn't be tempted. 
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MaggieMay64
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Sep 13 @ 8:38PM
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I would have to say no. Just too old fashioned, I guess.
Its all about respect, and I think it would be disrespectful to myself.
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LJRite
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Sep 13 @ 8:40PM
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Hmmmm.............would depend on if there was a mutual *CONNECTION*..and if so I would suggest maybe getting a drink and seeing where it goes from there and gender doesnt matter........its all good...... 
and hey, I thought questions werent allowed on blogs??? just a question.... 
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xoSweetAngelxo
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Sep 13 @ 8:41PM
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I would say no, as I do not believe in meaningless sex.
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warrior674
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Sep 13 @ 8:42PM
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...What bandtmom said... 
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koyaanisqatsi
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Sep 13 @ 8:42PM
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I would. 
Oh, I also would ask that people try not to make harsh value judgements. The last thing I want is for someone to not answer (or answer untruthfully) because of harsh language that a previous respondent used. Thanks!
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Tunes4u
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Sep 13 @ 8:43PM
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I would say Thank you very much........maybe go have a drink or dinner.....a walk in the park....but.......no sex......probably just keep walking after thanking her..... ...... ..... I'm outta there.
I understand the "mystic".......however.....there are rules in my book I guess.....faith requires action.
The more we take, the less we become.
Hi Koy!
Cheers Bra!
Tunes
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wandaful123
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Sep 13 @ 8:44PM
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ahhhh... what street is it on? and... just whats been going on in my life up to this point?
So many questions....
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Tunes4u
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Sep 13 @ 8:46PM
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Besides...anyone who does end up having sex with me, no matter how well she thinks she knows me....IS having sex with a stranger.......
They don't come any stranger than me...... 
Do they? 
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koyaanisqatsi
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Sep 13 @ 8:47PM
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Wandaful -- Pick your own scenario: It's the street of your choosing, with whatever life events you choose. Nothing too out of the ordinary, but other than that, you get to choose the scenario.
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Fender
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Sep 13 @ 8:55PM
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I tried to imagine it. I just don't think I could. I wouldn't feel right about it. Maybe if I really wanted to it would be hard to say no. But I would though, cause I would regret it later on. I couldn't do it.
...Interesting blog though. 
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JimNastics
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Sep 13 @ 8:56PM
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Well, since you never state that I don't already know the woman (and that's my fantasy circumstances, that I do  ), I say YES !!!! 
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koyaanisqatsi
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Sep 13 @ 8:58PM
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JimNastics, the intent (as per the title of the blog) is that this person is most definitely a stranger. You've never seen her before. That's absolute.
Would that change your answer?
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ladykay488
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Sep 13 @ 9:00PM
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I would have to go along with bandtmom. 
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Martin666
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Sep 13 @ 9:01PM
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Maybe. But I would have more questions, and no matter how many questions I asked I'm not sure my guard would ever go down. I did this once in Koza, Okinawa, and got my head beat in.
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Tunes4u
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Sep 13 @ 9:04PM
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AhhhSo!
Dad! Is that you????
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Fender
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Sep 13 @ 9:09PM
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Laughing at Tunes^
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alivenwell351
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Sep 13 @ 9:15PM
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Tunes..  ...playing hard to get...all right!!!!!
You know, since I believe strongly that whatever 2 consenting adults want to do privately is nobodies business but theirs, assuming both know exactly what's going on with this, then absolutely...YES....
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KUPUNA
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Sep 13 @ 9:23PM
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immensely attracted
yes
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Jankia
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Sep 13 @ 9:28PM
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Like Martin said..more questions would have to be asked.Of course the STD question would come first.
Are you married?
Questions to ourselves too.
Where can I hide my wallet? 
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koyaanisqatsi
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Sep 13 @ 9:31PM
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Hi Jankia, I was hoping that seeing the condom would indicate responsible safe sex. But if you're truly worried about it, she explicitly says she has a condom and would never consider any kind of sexual contact without using it.
As for being married, she says she's not married. You don't see a ring or even an imprint of a ring on her finger.
How would that change your answer?
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Martin666
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Sep 13 @ 9:53PM
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JUNIOR!!!!
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Cynbaby
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Sep 13 @ 10:00PM
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Absolutely, positively NO WAY
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honeybear285
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Sep 13 @ 10:07PM
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No....I would need to have some sort of relationship with the man, sex would only come into that relationship at a later date if we both want...and felt the time was right
Just my opinion
Peace and Love
Honeybear
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whatagal
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Sep 13 @ 10:21PM
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Depends on how much they are willing to pay me!
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JimNastics
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Sep 13 @ 10:32PM
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cyn - if it was a rabbit, would that change your answer ?
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Jankia
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Sep 13 @ 10:45PM
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How would that change your answer? Hi koyaanisqatsi
This is different but true.Years ago a lady I knew that in all honesty, I and probaly yourself would have chosen her over Farrah Faucett.(I picked somebody from that time)...anyway it was getting late and she asked me if I wanted to come over to her house for breakfast.
I declined.Why? Her husband and I were friends,not close but we knew each other.
It wasnt fear of him, it was respect.
If you're married or in a relationship, pretend you're single for the purposes of answering the question The gal I'm in a relationship with is from this site but she allready knows my honesty is pure.
Yes
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ChipP
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Sep 13 @ 11:18PM
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Nope..
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kallie_ko
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Sep 13 @ 11:28PM
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I'd say no.. no... no
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Kandykammy
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Sep 13 @ 11:33PM
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I'd say yes. (if he had a mustache)
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sjdw44055
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Sep 14 @ 12:19AM
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Total stranger? No, I think I'd have to pass on the 'grab and go'. Sex is something that takes practice and trust. Couldn't just do it with a stranger.....
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youaremissed
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Sep 14 @ 1:19AM
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Hmmm I would never just have sex...I prefer to make love and that takes time to know the person
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Angel1964
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Sep 14 @ 2:27AM
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I’d have to say no..
Not knowing the person.. You don’t know what kind of person they are really…
You can be very nice looking, well dressed, very polite, and still be some kind of killer or something!
I’m not saying I wouldn’t’ be tempted… It’s kind of an erotic fantasy… However, deep down I’d be too afraid something bad would happen….
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honeybee849
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Sep 14 @ 4:55AM
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id say no and wack him with my handbag 
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steveemac
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Sep 14 @ 6:54AM
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There was a time in my life that I would have said, "Hell Yeah!" But at this point, I would probably decline the offer(even though it's been a long time since the last time)...if she was willing to spend an hour or so at a motel, would she be willing to spend an hour or so having coffee and getting to know each other better?
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Cynbaby
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Sep 14 @ 9:32AM
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You know I was thinking about this last night...you know those HBO 1/2 hour fantasy shows, this sort of thing always happens on screen....BUT... guys get REAL...this is not happening in REAL life. So just sit back and put HBO on and get out the emotion lotion AND DREAM ON, because NO delicious looking. Nice hair, good bod, yummy butt, good teeth, gorgeous women is ever going to look your way on the streets and run off and have wild, wicked sex....least not for FREE!!!!
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sweettie
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Sep 14 @ 3:53PM
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TheWytch
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Sep 15 @ 6:36AM
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It would be nice to not be in control; to be spontaneous and just live for the moment! Yes! 
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koyaanisqatsi
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Sep 15 @ 1:18PM
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Tallying results.
My intention is to delete this blog and post descriptive statistics describing the results of this little experiment.
I hope to post some interesting statistical information this weekend.
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Americanflirt
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Sep 15 @ 1:39PM
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 I'd say yes. Sex is one of the most natural things in the world and doesn't deserve the bad reputation religions and prudes have tried to forceon it over the las few millenia.
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misschoos
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Sep 15 @ 1:44PM
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I would say ''yes please,I was just about to ask you the same thing.
I have a room we could use, in fact, I live just on the corner.''
Then I would tell him the conditions.
He would have to get me the ring from the virtual shop.
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sharlotteohara
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Sep 15 @ 2:17PM
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beachnutRU
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Sep 15 @ 2:52PM
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Yep...... another fantasy off the list...... 
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beckyiv42000
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Sep 15 @ 3:06PM
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Hmm wow it would REALLY depend on my mood at the moment... (close your mouths peeps sheesh !) if I was really attracted and was sure he wasn't married etc and disease free?? I think I might.. ya never know what can happen after
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lacyvsq
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Sep 15 @ 7:37PM
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Actually, I have had experiences (yes plural) not too far off from that described, and I probably went for them about 50% of the time -- the difference being how I felt about myself at the time -- feeling good about myself meant that I went for it and never looked back -- except to smile at the memories...
There was always a little time for me to make an evaluation though -- generally over a drink (alcoholic to cloud my judgement.)
Most of those experiences were when I was in my mid-to-late 20's -- along about 1978-1981. There was one with whom I never exchanged names and another whose name I got, but who never got mine. Would I have sex with a stranger today? I think I'd still need about 15-20 minutes to make up my mind about any particular man.
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KnittinKitten
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Sep 15 @ 11:39PM
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Nope...It would not take a moments thought to decline.
KnittinKitten
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TallBlonde1
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Sep 16 @ 1:53AM
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Them must be some tight pants.
Very tempting, but no. Too much fear of the unknown.
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definitelydi
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Sep 16 @ 11:24AM
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Hmm...it would depend if my legs were shaved or not.
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RomanticLibra106
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Sep 16 @ 4:18PM
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I would DEFINITELY say NOOOOOOOO. I am with everyone that said making love in the context of a RELATIONSHIP is the ONLY way I'd make love. That takes time. To me it is part of a loving, healthy, monogamous relationship with mutual caring; sharing; love; respect and commitment. Anything else is cheap and tawdry. To each their own, but it's not my style and never has been.
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axlrose2502
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Sep 16 @ 6:23PM
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i would say yes
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LolaLicksLife
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Sep 27 @ 10:11PM
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Sex is one of the most natural things in the world and doesn't deserve the bad reputation religions and prudes have tried to force on it over the last few millenia.
 Right on, brother. I know I'm late getting in on this little experiment, but better late than...
Well, yes, yes, and yes. I guess I'm just a proponent of free love, per Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young. Don't hate me for my hippie philosophy...
Love the One You're With
If you're down and confused
And you don't remember who you're talkin' to
Concentration slip away
Cause your baby is so far away.
Well, there's a rose in a fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
Don't be angry, don't be sad,
Don't sit cryin' over good things you've had,
There's a girl right next to you
And she's just waiting for something you do.
Well, there's a rose in a fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
Turn your heartache right into joy
She's a girl and you're a boy,
Get it together; make it nice
Ain't gonna need any more advice.
Well, there's a rose in a fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love
Love the one you're with
Love the one you're with
(And don't forget the dits...)
Dit dit dit dit dit dit dit dit, dit dit dit dit dit dit dit dit, dit dit dit dit dit dit dit dit, dit dit dit, dit dit dit.
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