First, you have to get the person to admit that they ever wanted a relationship or even know your name! lol
Mostly, however, it's that little things do mean a lot. Little things such as rings, pendants, brooches, children, pets, kitchen utensils; or, as in my case, artwork!
There are many poems I wrote to, about, for, this man. As there are many drawings, paintings, sketches, renderings, of this man and many photos of him that he sent me (mostly he did) in times past.
I am trying to get a straight answer out of him as to what he wants done with them as I would prefer not to destroy them, and yet, I would prefer not to get sued later or have what was done in friendship smeared with the lies that are being spread and have it be called "proof of stalking".
Hint for you people ( the ones stalking me right now and reading this): If a man is willingly in contact with the same woman, who is willingly in contact with him, for over 4 years, it is not stalking. Apparently, it is also not friendship or even fairly truthful at some point in the day on the one side, but it is definitely not stalking!
Also, you have all gone decidedly paranoid to a degree that borders on psychosis. Angelxxx writes and acts like I broke into her house last night: news flash: I'm roughly 6,000 - 7,000 miles from her house I don't drive, I don't fly planes, and they do check ID at the airport so good luck proving that one! I have eye witnesses that saw me here last night and I was at work today. So screw anyone who thinks they can prove I was vandalising a residence in Scotland yesterday or today. Idiots!
Vicki aka DG aka ducatigirl writes and tells people that they are me and she's banning them from her forum for it. This is greatly amusing to me as they are not me but they are now convinced that I am the one who was telling the truth the whole time in regards to whom was attacking whom.
*sigh*
I just want a good, secure answer in regards to what I created and then I'd have no reason to hear or be heard from again as regards the various misanthropic female, and quasi-male, personages of the motorbike forum or the motorcycle news forum.
*ahem* That doesn't include those four or five people who were actually very very cool!
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adams_box
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Sep 22 @ 3:58PM
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What you refer to is relationship bagage, and it doesn't end with those tangible objects that occupy space.
The bagage that is not tangible is much harder to get rid of. How do you tell a radio station not to play a certain song, or what happens when you visit a place you once fondly remember going to with your ex.
I wish you luck with those items you wish to release but don't forget about the ones that are not easily let go.
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HopelesslyHopeful
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Sep 22 @ 5:14PM
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Too true .. only, these are not items I wish to release and that's sort of the point. Because you hit the nail on the head on both counts, but these are things that remind me of him - yes - but also things that I created and that I did, in part, sort of in honor/homage to him I guess you could say.
So, if it was a ring or a necklace, it would be mostly physical, somewhat emotional right? But when it's a poem you wrote, a painting you created, it is physical and mental and emotional .. and more than one kind of emotional.
Because to artists, all of their creations are, to some extent, alive .. you know? If you want to break their hearts, destroy their arts.
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