For the longest time, it has been a "rule" amongst my friends that you should wear "granny panties" and that you shouldn't shave your legs if you are newly dating someone (especially the first date.) The theory is that you aren't likely to get undressed in front of someone new if you are wearing hideously large/ugly panties and have stubbly legs. I'm wondering if anyone else uses these little personal psychs/mental notations/and purely icky mental pictures for the sake of the proverbial first date "Should I or shouldn't I ????" dilemma. 
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Mellajenn
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Oct 22 @ 11:11PM
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Funny you should mention it...I just recently started doing that!  Glad I am not the only one! 
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Wolf36
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Oct 22 @ 11:15PM
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Nope, I don't recall ever using that technique:)))lol j/k 
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observed50
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Oct 22 @ 11:16PM
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I sure don't...but now that I know this thought process, it helps me know what kind of conversation to have towards the close of an evening...
"So...is this a granny pantie/stubbly leg affair?"
If they look bewildered and lost...they have no idea of what I am talking about, then everything is still up for grabs...so to speak. 
If they look aghast, like they've been discovered hiding the cookie jar, then I know they have taken steps to prevent themselves from succumbing. Then ya just ask em to head off to the restroom to de-panty, so they won't be embarrassed, and let em know yer an old hippy who loves hairy women. 
I mean...if ya have to take self-deterrent behaviors, doesn't that mean that one is living on the edge...of succumbing to temptation?? 
If they give ya a smoldering look and raise an eyebrow, then ya just know that no matter how many threads are in the sheets...they're burning tonight! 
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Skydognc
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Oct 22 @ 11:19PM
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well,
I wear the granny pannies,
but I shave my legs !
this would be for certain..no matter what.........
a positive way, to make sure.........
I will never seek sex, for about........ uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh,
(how long does it take for hair to grow back?)
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JimNastics
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Oct 22 @ 11:21PM
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I NEVER shave my legs. 
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LipGlossQueen9
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Oct 22 @ 11:24PM
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my theory is that if a man can undress you and not care that you have stubbly legs and granny panties, he's into you.
shaving=stupid, btw
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GiggleAddiction
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Oct 22 @ 11:25PM
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Not long ago I ran into a man that I had some ... ummm .... intimate knowledge about. We women do locker-room talk from time to time (I know, hard to believe!!) He had recently dated a friend of mine, who told all. Well, the only thing in my mind was to say, "Hey Joe ~ hear ya' got the ole' grannies off finally." It took every ounce of restraint in me ~ I so wanted to ask if she was wearing those damn grannies. Because she did ritually ~ I still can't look him in the eye without a smirk on my face. I'll bet he wonders if I'm off my lithium or maybe on it.  Poor guy ~ I'm probably giving him a complex. Maybe I should just say, "Hey Joe ~ hear you let the boss and co-workers out of the office the other night. How'd that go?" 
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aniana
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Oct 22 @ 11:28PM
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Not really but I think this should compenstate at least: I'm always willing myself not and thinkin' "no won't give in"- that is, unless I do if I do.
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babydoll1970
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Oct 22 @ 11:33PM
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Ya know what... I never thought about that but it is a good idea !!!!! Next first date I have is gonna be granny gutchies and big foot legs.. 
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bardnsage
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Oct 22 @ 11:51PM
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OH gee......what will you wonderful ladies think of next. Time after time, some sceme to keep from sleeping with men on the first date.
If you are that worried, save yourself much stress and confusion, and just sleep with him before the date. Then if he is disgusting, a poor performer, just nasty, too kinky, too perverted, too tall, too short, too big, too small, etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc.........you don't have to have dinner with him, and you can go back to watching reruns of Friends on Friday night without investing too much of your valuable time or resources on him. Save yourself tons of heartache from having your expectations unfulfilled, time and time again. Do him, do him well, and tell him to get out and not to ever call again. He'll follow you around like a whipped dog for months!
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GiggleAddiction
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Oct 23 @ 12:05AM
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When I first came to MD ~ an old friend of mine from elsewhere found me here and explained something to me: in blogging vs. forums ~ I'm the Moderator if I choose to be. Well, because I have a theory that all people should have their say ~ I am posting everything that comes my direction from others. Not that I feel all is appropriate, but I do believe everyone has a right to whatever it is they think or wish to state. Keeping that in mind:
bardnsage ~ I'm leaving that hate/nastiness for one reason....there is "one" in every bushel. This was nothing more than silliness, supposed to be fun, light-hearted and maybe even giggle inducing. I'm sorry that the bitterness you feel about women spilled over into my blog ~ but I think it's rather valuable. For someone to write something so nasty to something so silly ~ well ~ it speaks volumes.
Sense of humor ~ much more valuable than a striking appearance, a Bill Gates mind or all of Donald's cash. And for what it's worth ~ Friend's is old news, we watch Sex and the City and I personally, am Family Guy junkie ~ everyone should have a Stewie. But mostly ~ everyone should giggle like Lois.
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AvalancheBlonde
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Oct 23 @ 12:24AM
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GA:
How funny you should write about this. I didn't date for a long time, and NOW find myself out in the world looking at hundreds of pairs of thongs going, "WHY DO WE DO THIS TO OURSELVES, AGAIN???"
and hoping one of my GRRL POWER grrlz will come by and tell me, I am middle aged ya know, and for the life of ME, I do not know what boyz see in grrlz wearing thongs....
I am HOWEVER a southern belle, and shave MY legs at least twice a day, and sometimes MORE....a grrl can NOT feel tooooo sexy
xoxo
Sherr
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bardnsage
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Oct 23 @ 12:28AM
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Dang,,,, sorry about that. Not bitter about anything, just tired. I thought the post was an interesting twist, ie. sleep with him before the date, (is that possible)...
But after reading your comment, I can certainly understand how it could be read as being mean and nasty. Sorry to everyone who blogged in and thought it mean.
I'm new to this blogging stuff, and I don't think I've been mean to anyone yet, and certainly don't intend to start. It is not my usual style. 
Just a lesson to me that some people may be in a different position, and take things differently than intended.
For the record, I admire your position to post everything blogged in even when you don't agree with the content. Good blog, me bad blogger. 
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GiggleAddiction
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Oct 23 @ 12:32AM
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^^^^Oh dear ~ no sir. I think I was 36 (my Mother would have been 56) when she wanted a tattoo. So off we went. Imagine my surprise when Ms. Perky straddled the chair in her leopard skin thong for a tattoo on her backside.  Dear me, I was more amazed that she wore thongs than the fact she was getting a rather large tatt back there. After that, I will admit, I was hooked on the dreaded things ~ Now back to you ~ you shave more than once a day???  You are the new I-Ching of smooth.
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GiggleAddiction
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Oct 23 @ 12:48AM
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^^^^^^It's a testament of character to apologize in a public venue ~ thank you. A testament of self is much better than a giggle (more often than not.)
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perhapsluv
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Oct 23 @ 10:58AM
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Lay off the granny panties (no pun intended) please. Not that they are all that attractive I grant you, "butt" I for one, have no interest whatsoever in wearing butt floss, ew, ick, what a thought. But the worst thought is the obesity numbers in this country and allllll of that extra flab being even further exposed to the rest of us who have to watch it jiggle, bounce, sway from side to side because it has nothing helping to hold it in place. Don't mean to be mean but some of us need as much restraint back there as possible and butt floss just won't do it  As for shaving on a first date, yeah, why don't men get it that we want to look at a nicely shaved face, not the stubble left over from morning j/k
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GiggleAddiction
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Oct 23 @ 2:32PM
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LMAO ~ "Does this thong make my butt look big????" Oh dear ~ that is such a horrific picture in my mind ~ not sure if everyone has received that forward, but dear me, I have to agree ~ some thongs just shouldn't be built (yes, that one was BUILT!!)
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perhapsluv
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Oct 23 @ 8:45PM
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Seeee, gives us a whole new reason to hold on to those beloved granny panties, now doesn't it (other than keeping our unshaved legs closed on a 1st date)teee heeee 
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sexyeyes755
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Oct 30 @ 7:28PM
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LMAO  ,this is soooooooooooooooo funny! I never wore panties(ok,thongs just to tease,occasionally),but,MY stubble stays DARNIT!
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Kat_luvr
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Dec 10 @ 6:45PM
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never thought about it.............but now that you mention it...........something to good to NOT pass on to my daughters.
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jamoke59
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Jun 29 @ 5:56PM
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If i was on a date and found out she was wearing full cut/aka granny panties if they were real silky? I would be extremely turned on,I have always felt those type panties were sexy. 
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