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I recently had a niece and also a good friend who's husband was caught cheating on them, online!
Not to mention the other people I know that also have gotten a divorce from cheating on dating sites!
What's with that anyway?
It will make a person like me really think twice about going out with someone online!
Haven't they ever heard "The Grass Is NOT Always Greener On The Other Side"!
I'd love to think if I found someone online, they would at least not cheat on me the sane way they found me, online!
So you people out there that are seriously married and want to stay that way, I'd suggest you keep it in your pants and stay offline!
You will get caught and loose everything you love. . . eventually!
IT IS the same as cheating offline!!! [/B]
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KAOS2007
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Oct 26 @ 3:15AM
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sucks... but unfortunately is a reality 
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aniana
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Oct 26 @ 3:27AM
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Amen sista'! 
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PROVIDENCE_BOSTON
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Oct 26 @ 3:29AM
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Yes,it is cheating for sure and very sad.
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frankbarks
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Oct 26 @ 3:41AM
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one f**king email and it's called cheating? lol. It's a pun, sorry.
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ShieldofHonor
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Oct 26 @ 4:32AM
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I don't get it either.
Of course, I'm a card-carrying monogamist.
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alwaysgentleman73
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Oct 26 @ 4:48AM
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Yes I have tried to get the message across.
That if a person is married that they shouldn't be on-line talking to other people.
Some people just don't think it does anything wrong.
I feel the same as you.
I have seen marriages get ruined because of talking on line.
Great blog
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italoghetto
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Oct 26 @ 5:20AM
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Cheating is cheating no matter in what form it occurs. Unfortunately, man isn't traditionally a monagamous species. I think as a race we are never satisfied, always fixated on what we don't have, therefore, we tend to overlook what we do have. At least one should have the decency to be forthcoming and honest. Marriage shouldn't be treated as a safety net when other desires aren't being met. Treat your spouse as the primary focus never the secondary.
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roadqueenx2
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Oct 26 @ 6:19AM
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I have a freind whose husband admits he stays up late at night looking at women's profiles online.  He said he only does it for entertainment, but I think he definitely thinks the grass might be greener, but it still needs mowed.  And, some guys admit they are married on the singles sites.  What is up with that? 
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Vanillagurl_1973
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Oct 26 @ 6:23AM
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Yes...it isnt always greener on the other side.... I just couldnt imagine doing that to my bf.....I guess if you arent truly happy you will go looking.....so if you arent happy...try to work it out instead of looking online for some fun....
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suthunsweet
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Oct 26 @ 6:42AM
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I went out with one a few years ago once who was really still married. He was "separated" by miles that is. Well, out the door I went and I have really tried to be careful since, but you never really know do you? Very few places screen these things that well.
You are right on....it is a good way to lose everything and cheating is cheating period!
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nirvanachick
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Oct 26 @ 7:02AM
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i causght my ex cheating online 
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Kentuck
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Oct 26 @ 7:21AM
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The cheating is about the fabric that the relationship/marriage/dating is made of.
Marriage for the wrong reason--sex, money, etc
dating--sex, importance, social standing etc
The let down after the words--yes I do.
A relationship is like a job, both have to work at it.
The old statement--I have him/her now----well what are you going to do to keep him/her and be sure it is not a one way street.
Again, it is poor selection of a partner and the failure to work at a relationship.
A man should always be trying to spoil his lady and she should also be trying to spoil him. The time for other people just does not exist--this is a failure point.
Not tonight honey--just does not work
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WSOR
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Oct 26 @ 7:44AM
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I agree.. which is why I stress when I meet someone that I have no expectations, & that I feel chemistry can take time to develop. You're right.. the grass is NOT always greener.
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Sheryll861
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Oct 26 @ 7:50AM
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It is what it is....... slimey, skanky, cheaters..... doing what they do.... CHEAT!
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kksweetpea16
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Oct 26 @ 8:03AM
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That's how I I got to be divorced !
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azgirl701
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Oct 26 @ 8:29AM
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SHE RIGHT
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justme836
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Oct 26 @ 9:11AM
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A cheater will cheat off line that same as they will on line. The difference it thay don't have to go through the BS of actually leaving their home to search for the one person who doesn't mind being a part of ruining their families lives. Just post a profile and they come to you.
Sick but true.
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RomanticLibra106
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Oct 26 @ 9:36AM
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Statistics claim that 55% of all divorces now are caused by people cheating on the internet. That's a high percentage given the amount of reasons for marital breakups.
I agree with you 100% but it won't stop because these people will cheat no matter where they are. I just LOVE these guys who go into romance chat rooms and/or dating sites such as this looking for someone. A lot won't even admit they're married but some will boldly say, "married but looking". Looking for what?! They have what they need at HOME but most that do that will say they have a right to and flirting and/or dating someone they met on the net is NOT cheating.   I want to know what's up with that?! Getting romantic and sexual satisfaction from someone else isn't cheating??????!!!!!!!!!! Come on folks - admit you're a lying, cheating sleazeball male W* * * * and be done with it. Leave decent women alone.
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Kandykammy
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Oct 26 @ 11:27AM
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Cheating on line is a way of life. I know of a lot of divorses here where I live because of the cheating. It is mostly the women who "find" a new lover on line and divorce their husbands to marry the other man.
Most do realize that the grass is NOT greener on the other side, but too late. The husbands would not take them back.
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MusicDesign
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Oct 28 @ 12:02AM
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One bad thing the dating sites allow, hidden profiles. How easy is that!!!! Now you can cheat and stay hidden the entire time. Personally, I refuse to communicate with a guy who does not have a photo showing.
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Palomino
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Jan 30 @ 1:19AM
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It's so sad, but true. Good blog!
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