For some people writing their profile is easy, and they come off lighthearted with their info, makes you want to write them! Some of us struggle with it! (myself) So, many times what we have written comes off putting us in a somewhat negative light. When you start putting what you hate in there it can be a big turn off to people. Yes, you have every right to say what you want, but what does what you say, say about you? Remember you are dealing with a complete stranger that doesn't know all those cool things about you like your friends do! I'm one of those interesting people who don't conform, like to walk out of step, think outside of the box etc lol So, I wonder do we really need to put that we are seeking someone, honest, or faithful, isn't that a given? Have you gotten an email reply saying "Well I'm exactly everything you listed in your profile, height, weight, age, hair and eye color, like all the same things you do, but this won't work because I'm dishonest!" I've never met a person in my life that admitted they were dishonest. A liar doesn't think they are a liar! So when we emphasize honesty are we making ourselves a target, saying I've been lied too enough etc, does that not say to someone that you may be an easy mark? You can put all the stuff you want about the type of people you don't want contacting you, but that won't stop them. So why not just keep it light and simple, and give people a good impression of you! If you don't want people from certain areas, certian ages, orientation, and gender contacting you use the Block Feature here! Just go to 'account settings" and then "mail settings & filter" and set it up! It won't stop every annoying email, but it sure cuts them down!
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