A person can sense desperation from body language, behavior, words, low expectations and tolerance of bad behavior.
A good man (or woman) who really cares and respects you would not take advantage of you. If you are wearing the perfume of desperation, a dog (bitch) can smell it. Unfortunately, he/she will misuse your body, time, money and heart.
Being needy, naive, desperate and having low expectations will surely cause you heartache and pain. In the movies falling in love = marriage. In real life, falling love or a long term relationship does not always result in marriage.
When pain and loss happen in your life, you can either choose to suffer and feel like a victim or you choose to learn the lessons of life and love. Learning and maturing from each life lesson gives you a secret strength.
Let it go & boo hoo, so your heart and spirit can heal.
Don't dial those digits. Don't circle his/her house. Don't blow up his /her pager all day with desperate messages.
Don't play those sad songs. Don't put your life on hold. Don't neglect yourself, your family, your dreams, your goals or your faith.
No one person is responsible for your happiness.
You don't ever want to give someone that much power!!
Experience has taught me that sometimes what we think is rejection, is really God's protection pointing us in a new direction.
Open your eyes and see your real worth and beauty in the mirror.
Get balance in your life. Get help from the wise women in your life. Pour all that misguided and untapped passion into your goals and dreams.
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