Generically, men are not MEN in any good sense of the following security (having or giving it) compassion tenderness understanding (of anything but satisfying personal emotional needs) """ Sometimes they learn what to give to get but not usually balanced """.
Wisdom, Ability to love altruistically, Knowldege of God, Love and truth.
Most want most to fit in with their percieved peers for acceptance. Some worship various forms of success including money, power, women and fame. Sex is representation of the above in narcistic self-satisyfing motive with little concern for the other except as it fulfills self with less hassel, committment or cost. Reason, motive, and action is ruled by selfish motives rather than altruistism.
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The very rare REAL man cries unashamedly, Loves others with sensitivity of caring, Knows and Speaks only Truth Chooses tenderness, embarrasment, some personal pain, rather than hurting others.
Sex is not self gratification but pleasure in pleasuring the other of his affection. Sometimes that may come from compassion but never from taking advantage. Usually such an idea of "compassion" is more likely self-delusion.
Fears and Loves only GOD. He expresses a pure heart, compassion and ethics as inspired by the spirit God in him. Sadly, and especially since "feminism" became vogue.
More women have achieved less freedom by copying the worst of mens characteristics of exploitation and insincerity.
"The only true freedom anyone has, is to do what he ought to, because he WANTS to."
Even doing it because he is forced or supposed to, is not freedom but bondage.
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jayej
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Nov 14 @ 11:07PM
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I won't even hazard an attempt to define Men vs Women, but I will give you a kudo for this much......
More women have achieved less freedom by copying the worst of mens characteristics of exploitation and insincerity.
"The only true freedom anyone has, is to do what he ought to, because he WANTS to."
Even doing it because he is forced or supposed to, is not freedom but bondage.
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RogueSailor
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Nov 14 @ 11:19PM
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"Someday, after mastering the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness for God the energies of love, and then, for a second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin"
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baldy855
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Nov 14 @ 11:43PM
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The motivation of man's actions and feelings will give insight to his soul. It will allow insight to his character. This can only be seen through observation and conversation with the understanding actions are louder than words. Jumping into bed at the first opportunity seems to prevent this from happening.
The real freedom (rare) , I believe, comes from knowing God's love and having confidence in it.
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burnslikethesun
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Nov 15 @ 12:49AM
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always live outside of the box.
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Journeyhawk
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Nov 15 @ 10:48AM
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Your blog was very interesting. Especially, this comment jumped out at me:
Sex is not self gratification but pleasure in pleasuring the other of his affection. I have found that very few men have understood this concept. My ex-husband of 13 years told me that it took him many years to figure this one out. Some men NEVER learn this. It is a very loving and unselfish act when a man can learn to put a woman's needs before his own and make sure she is satisfied.
I just wanted to say my piece and thank the men who are intelligent enough to know the difference. Thanks, guys!   
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HopelesslyHopeful
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Jan 24 @ 10:21PM
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"The only true freedom anyone has, is to do what he ought to, because he WANTS to."
Lovely!
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