in mind for the guy I’m seeking. Ok, so I learned something yesterday about catchy blog titles. Hopefully mine will catch your mind in a good way.
I’m not talking about size but of personality, traits and values. I’m looking forward to finding my Mr.-Perfect-For-Me, so here goes.
Must haves:
A man who likes himself
A man who loves being outdoors
A man who is honest and stands behind his words
A man who’ll want to build trust by the effort of our commitment to one another
A man with a sense of humor that I can get. Not one that’s too dry
A man who’s willing to spend time around my family (I’ll warn you, there’s a lot of us *G* and we do enjoy some time together)
A man who loves a bit of adventure, let’s pack up a picnic today and head to the Sierra’s or the ocean or let’s find a little corner grocery and put our picnic together on the way.
A man who’s not persnickety about how the house looks ALL the time (unless he’s the one keeping it that way). *G* Leave the door open for an occasionally lazy day of cuddling.
A man who wouldn’t go to sleep unless the kitchen was clean (no, I’m not contradicting myself, I’m just not persnickety about every thing looking like a magazine layout… but the kitchen HAS to be clean.
A man who likes to cook with me and cleans up after. Let’s try some new recipes.
A man who is willing to blend the lives of two adults so that we have one great life together.
A man who can see that the lawn needs to be mowed then does it. The last thing I want is for us to start making chore lists for each other.
A man who doesn’t care if some times I go into my work room and don’t come out most of the day. He’s got his own stuff to do too.
A man with a good sense of balance in his love, work and life.
A man who isn’t afraid of romance. My guy is going to know that a bit of romance from him is going to come back 10 fold from me. I love small surprises
A man who likes animals. One of the biggest factors in how I perceive a guy is how he treats animals.
A man who can communicate about big stuff as well as little stuff. I’d like to get the whole money etc. things on the table so we can really hear what each other needs and wants.
A man who knows his own spirituality and is comfortable with mine.
A man with a love of life and curiosity to explore what’s out there.
Negotiable:
Moving
Snoring
Has kids
Dogs
Cat
Horses
Housework (if you don’t want to do some of it, be ready to have your share hired out *G*)
How many books we have (a lot I hope)
Non-negotiable:
Non smoker
No alcoholics
No bigots
Must have enough income to support himself
No angry/mean people
Faithful
Must love to flirt with me most of all.
That’s it for now… come out come out wherever you are. (Say, if you feel inclinded to comment, I'd be interested in hearing what values I've forgotten to think about... what can I say, it's early! *G*)
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burdinep
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Nov 18 @ 10:31AM
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love the post and wish you the best of luck..there are some great guys out there and im sure youll find the one your looking for.....you sound like a great person.
And here wishing you a great holiday
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Lovinheart445
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Nov 18 @ 10:36AM
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I don't wish to put myself out here as the perfect man, as we all have some character defects. I will have to say that I do meet almost all you're criteria except fo the smoking part. I smoke, and won't lie about it. I'm also trying very hard to quite. I hope I can
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Kat_luvr
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Nov 18 @ 10:47AM
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When you find him, send his brother my way, OK?
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iglooo101
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Nov 18 @ 10:52AM
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Must haves:
A man who likes himself
#Narcisist
A man who loves being outdoors
#stung by bees most of the time
A man who is honest and stands behind his words
#currently in prison, for lying under oath
A man who’ll want to build trust by the effort of our commitment to one another
#never show up on moving day
A man with a sense of humor that I can get. Not one that’s too dry
#hey, what is the phone number of your friend
A man who’s willing to spend time around my family (I’ll warn you, there’s a lot of us *G* and we do enjoy some time together)
#just hiding, after breaking out of jail
A man who loves a bit of adventure, let’s pack up a picnic today and head to the Sierra’s or the ocean or let’s find a little corner grocery and put our picnic together on the way.
#what do you think the police is in the white or the black car?
A man who’s not persnickety about how the house looks ALL the time (unless he’s the one keeping it that way). *G* Leave the door open for an occasionally lazy day of cuddling.
#hey, got 5 bucks, need to run to the liquor store
A man who wouldn’t go to sleep unless the kitchen was clean (no, I’m not contradicting myself, I’m just not persnickety about every thing looking like a magazine layout… but the kitchen HAS to be clean.
#hey, did not spit on the floor today.
A man who likes to cook with me and cleans up after. Let’s try some new recipes.
#kfc
A man who is willing to blend the lives of two adults so that we have one great life together.
#they are out of coors,molson ok
A man who can see that the lawn needs to be mowed then does it. The last thing I want is for us to start making chore lists for each other.
#mower broke again
A man who doesn’t care if some times I go into my work room and don’t come out most of the day. He’s got his own stuff to do too.
#playboy chasnnel is great
A man with a good sense of balance in his love, work and life.
#gun shot wounds on both sides of body
A man who isn’t afraid of romance. My guy is going to know that a bit of romance from him is going to come back 10 fold from me. I love small surprises
#nah, they are not FBI
A man who likes animals. One of the biggest factors in how I perceive a guy is how he treats animals.
#cat is missing for 10 days
A man who can communicate about big stuff as well as little stuff. I’d like to get the whole money etc. things on the table so we can really hear what each other needs and wants.
#pawn shop not far
A man who knows his own spirituality and is comfortable with mine.
##$%%^^&&*****((^%$$
A man with a love of life and curiosity to explore what’s out there.
#your purse is empty, need 5 bucks, be back in like 10
Negotiable:
Moving
#all pawned
Snoring
#cops knocking on door
Has kids
#nah, just under house arrest
Dogs
#waiting til the owner posts a reward
Cat
#missing
Horses
#to bet on
Housework (if you don’t want to do some of it, be ready to have your share hired out *G*)
#have the right to choose how she looks like
How many books we have (a lot I hope)
#break and entry laws , all 10 volumes
Non-negotiable:
Non smoker
#no worries, have a pack somewhere
No alcoholics
#beer not alcohol, daniels iz
No bigots
#ACLU is %^&&*^&^&*^*&^&^
Must have enough income to support himself
#latest heist was not bad
No angry/mean people
#*&(*^&*^&*^&*^&*^
Faithful
#where is that phone number
Must love to flirt with me most of all.
#your purse is empty, 5 bucks puhleeeeseeeezzzzz
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Karing
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Nov 18 @ 11:10AM
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Great blog. I wish this man for you.
Although, you may want to add one more:
* a man who knows when it's time to get the oil change.
I think if you find him, you'll have a pretty perfect man. 
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ragtopcookie
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Nov 18 @ 11:22AM
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well that frog head always did it for me......makes me hoppy...heheheheh...cookie
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Sugar_Lee
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Nov 18 @ 11:37AM
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Good list Lady... I think we match! except for in the bedroom.  The part about the house, Kitchen and all...
Can I steal your list, You did such a good job with it I'm going to post it on my mirror and wish everyday. Probably get me as many guys as I get on here..
Dang and your smart to, we would never run out of things to talk about, (lightbulb) and you've got a brother! But you will not give him up...maybe I do need to come for the holiday and visit family with you! Now there is an idea!!!!! 
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Sugar_Lee
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Nov 18 @ 11:39AM
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Oh I saw igloo and I remember, I have been know to snore but not loudly... 
That igloo does spend time on his answers. To funny. I melted his igloo last night!
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Philosopher8659
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Nov 18 @ 12:03PM
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A set can be constructed in only one of two ways, enumeration and definition.
One can enumerate, and actually end up with a novel longer than War and Peace.
One can define and make it short.
" I want a good -------" fill in blank.
Learn what the good is, hey, your home free, and the one you are looking for does not fall asleep reading War and Peace.
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bpgjohn
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Nov 18 @ 12:05PM
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well that narrows it down to a few good men anyway,good luck
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estoyaqui
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Nov 18 @ 2:32PM
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Its a shame your 20 years older than me and 3000 miles away...
It makes me wonder though... While I am not perfect, I would like to think I am a good catch. Your wants list as concurred by other females even says I must be an all right guy.... So I wonder why I spend more time being single than I do in a relationship.
-sigh-
Well if it wasnt for the fact my older brother is nothing like me I would of sent him your way.
Good luck in your pursuits, they are not unreasonable at all!
-Shawn
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