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Zen and Dating II -- Working Hard

posted 11/24/2007 8:36:55 PM |
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  MsLani


A student seeking enlightenment went to his teacher and said,
"I an devoted to studying Zen. How long will it take me to become a Master."

The teacher replied quietly, "Ten years."

Impatiently the student said, " But I want to master it faster than that. I will work very hard.
I will practice everyday, ten or more hours a day if I have to. If I do all of this, how long will it take then?"

The teacher thought for just a moment and said, "20 years."


How badly do you want to find your perfect mate? Are you "working hard"
to find him or her?

Maybe we are all working a little too hard.
Too many requirements, lists, etc.

Maybe stepping back and relaxing, just talking and having fun will
make things happen faster or at least make the process more fun.

Maybe.




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Comments:
Angel603

Nov 24 @ 8:56PM  


Mellajenn

Nov 24 @ 9:00PM  
Very good advice!

~Not even gonna try to top the Angel... We'll be putting her on top of the tree soon enough
RVerwolf

Nov 24 @ 9:30PM  
Yep...I agree totally, as well!
SunBabe

Nov 24 @ 9:33PM  
Maybe stepping back and relaxing, just talking and having fun will
make things happen faster or at least make the process more fun.

Absolutely, positively no "maybe" about it. And this is a view from a long-term semi-professional "I'm not looking" window shopper with that same attitude who has made not only dozens of wonderful friends but has found several serious "romatic interests" -- just no official "dates" yet, lol.
Bluetic1966

Nov 25 @ 7:58PM  
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