Be prepared to read a novel...sorry..just have to get this off my chest... 
Well..I am not sure how many may have read earlier blogs regarding a family that is a bit down the road from me, but if not..ya may wanna to get a feel for them. So on that note I will right this..(o and you can read firefairy911's blogs..she wrote a few about this lol)...well anyway..we have been battling this problem with the 11yr old of that family..she has been bullying my daughter for a year now and I have tried everything..I have talked nicely with the little girl (for some reason this child stopped by my house without my daughter being home) and asked her if she liked my daughter anymore and she said no, so I told her then to stay away from her and go about her own business and that would be that for the both of them. Well things only got worse..this child one day rode a mini bike back and forth by my house, not going up and down the road..just in front of my house..and would stare into my windows..so I had my kids come in at that point and closed the blinds...well the next thing I hear is her older brother coming down and yelling at the top of his lungs that she needs to get her a** home..mom said so..well she pushed the bike home and I told my kids that they could go back out and then I hear a woman start to scream at my kids...not good or gonna happen..I went out there and she changed her attitude when I came out and asked if there was a problem and that she is not to ever yell at my kids again..if there is a problem to come to me...well she stated that her daughter came home and said that my kids were down here throwing rocks at her and calling her names and so on..I stopped her right there and said that she is lying because my kids were in the house and that there was no one out there at the time only here daughter...and that I heard no yelling until her son came down to get her. The mom walked back home and that was the last of that moment. Well then my daughter starts coming home crying and telling me that this kid has been yelling at her on the bus and calling her names and doing this crap at school as well...she would also stare at my daughter with a look of hate. The next big incident was just around Halloween when this little girl and her neighbor walked by (at dusk) my house (my kids were inside and I was sitting on the couch and the front door was open, so I could see them walk by) and once they passed my front door..they screamed like they were being attacked..because at the same time that also got my neighbor's dog's barking, so I jumped up to see if everything was ok and they were running and laughing..well then not more than 5 mins later...they walked by again and then went home..this time it was dark enough that if a car were to come by..they could have been hit...too dark for anyone..especially kids to be walking...well when they did this..my neighbor across the street was in his garage with the light on and the door open and heard everything. Next thing I know I have a knock at my door and it is the girl's mom telling me that her daughter came home and said that I was outside screaming, cussing and flipping this kid off..I told her that her daughter was lying and explained what had happened and then she left. Well my daughter has still come home crying about this girl bullying her, then I find out that the oldest son of this lady tried the same thing with my son and I had her come to my house and my mom was there as a witness to the conversation, but I explained to her what her son did and had my son give his side of the story and her boy (he was sitting on a mini bike at the time) keep yelling saying he never did that and then he lept up as if to attack myself, mom and son and I told him to just sit back down because that would be a big mistake...well her daughter came down and I then was able to confront the girl in front of her mom and she never could look me in the eyes..the lil girl that is.....well then the other daughter started down and the mom yelled at them to go home..she had to do this several times before she actually listened and then she sent all the kids home and then I told her that if it doesnt stop that I will get the law involved and she said "do whatever you have to do".....Well I did..I had a sheriff go down there and talk with them and that just gave the kid more ammo against my daughter...I have been to the school 3 times now and Tuesday I went and spoke with an attorney..got some advice and then went to the court house and filed a P/O on this kid..well we go to court on 12/17..my daughter is absoulety frightened about this and is worried as well as I that this little girl will get physical. I have also had to talk with one of her other sons about doing this crap to my daughter as well..he did it in my home, my parents home and on the bus and outside of our house..(he used to be friends with my son) I stopped him on that as well as my mom said something to him at her house and then I confronted the mom about it as well....
I think bullies are a bigger problem than people think and it can be more than physical..it can be emotional and verbal and much more. This is what sometimes leads to the school shootings...because they felt that this was the only way to stop it and that is sad. I feel that more people should take this more seriously , but that is JMHO.
Wish me luck on this court date....
Sorry for the book, but I just had to get it off my chest.
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