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I've Decided.....Only Happy Blogs

posted 12/15/2007 4:02:03 PM |
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  MsLani

Yep, I decided today that from now on I am only reading the happy blogs on MD!
Yeah, I know, some of y'all are saying "And why do we want to know this?"

You may not want or even need to know but I just Loooooove to share!

See, I like to read and not just books. Reading the blogs here has been fun, interesting and even informative. But there are so many unhappy blogs. No not ones where folks have sad things happen to them but the ones that seem just to be full of negativity (oooo, now I'm sounding all new agey). And if the topic itself isn't negative, folks seem to bring the negative in with comments. Or keep it going and growing with comments. Admittedly, I myself have fallen into this trap. And I know better.

The more you fight against somethings(especially with words) the stronger they seem to grow.

So I have decided to stop fighting the negative. Instead I am focusing on and encouraging the positive, the happy,the positive, the joyful,the silly, the helpful, the peaceful, the ones that make you laugh........y'all get the idea

What you resist, persists.
Carl Jung
This is much, maybe even overly, quoted but I like it.
I will no longer actively fight against the negative, I will instead encourage the positive.

Love, Laughter, Peace and Blessings!
La

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A Cautionary Tale (from Aesop)
Alternatives - The Third Sex (random thoughts)
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Comments:
SallyF

Dec 15 @ 4:07PM  
Welcome to the 'choir'---lol. It's difficult to pass by some of those negative ones, though, especially the ones from folks who write well. Happy blogging (and reading) to you, MsLani.
chris549547

Dec 15 @ 4:26PM  
aniana

Dec 15 @ 4:49PM  
La where were you and this blog when everyone tried to gang up on me like a pack of hyeanas and plunder me with negative comments- not even for a blog I wrote but a comment! ..
A_TRAMP

Dec 15 @ 5:09PM  
HOW DO YOU KNOW THEY ARE HAPPY BLOGS UNLES YOU READ THEM ?????????
Skydognc

Dec 15 @ 5:17PM  
^^^^

we all ganged up on her .......... but we were happy about doing it, does that count?



>>>>>>> is thinkin up a happy blog..... jus fer you ! <<<<<<<<<<<<
MsLani

Dec 15 @ 5:43PM  
Aniana, No one can control your happiness, ignore the comments of others, works for me

Tramp, I'm psychic and I have a happy meter

Skydog, PLAY NICE!! Looking forward to the happy blog!!

Alright y'all!! I said PEACE (damn it!) now everyone be good and I'll read you a bedtime story!
aniana

Dec 15 @ 6:18PM  
Sky please drop it and leave me alone....
Sugar_Lee

Dec 15 @ 6:29PM  
That is the attitude! You go girl! And don't let anyone trash your blogs!
Santo007

Dec 15 @ 6:39PM  
Happy Happy People

Happy is Healthy!

Santo007

Dec 15 @ 6:45PM  
no

no bedtime story lani

ladies and gentlemen
mr duane harden!



http://videos.matchdoctor.com/14927/What_U_Need_by_Powerhouse_w_Duane_Harden.html

get up and boogie!

MsLani

Dec 15 @ 6:46PM  
HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
Happy Happy Joy Joy!!!!
No more angry statements or Mommy will SPANK!!!! or something equally painful
Take it to email children!
Now I want Happy and I want it NOW!!!
DON'T MAKE ME PUSH THE BUTTON......
MsLani

Dec 15 @ 6:56PM  
Happy Happy Joy Joy!!- from Ren&Stimpy
cartay25

Dec 15 @ 6:58PM  
Way to go MsLani, you keep them in line and we can all enjoy the blogs again.
missliss78

Dec 15 @ 7:23PM  

It has been my practice for quite some time now.
And if I inadvertantly read something less than positive, I back out as quickly as possilbe & NEVER leave a comment....atleast I try my best.
JimNastics

Dec 15 @ 8:08PM  
Happy blogs are here again,
The comments below are clear again,
So let's do a dance of cheer again,
Happy blogs are here again.

All together, shout it now!
There's no one who can doubt it now.
So let's tell MatchDoctor about it now,
Happy blogs are here again.

Your cares and troubles are gone,
There'll be no more from now on !
Happy blogs are here again !
MsLani

Dec 15 @ 8:30PM  

Jim, I LOVE it!!
Dang! Wonder if we can make it the official MD Blog song
We could get a Judy Garland impersonator to sing it

Get Happy - Judy Garland

Happy Days are Here Again/Come on Get Happy - Judy & Barbra
justlkn853

Dec 15 @ 8:40PM  
If it's not happy, I don't read it...and by the way...my name is Joy..
RVerwolf

Dec 17 @ 12:44AM  
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