Dealin with heart break posted 1/1/2008 10:37:38 PM | 5 kudos what's this?     report abuse

jaybird777

I really think that a broken heart is just bout the most devastatin thing we ever go through. At one time or another, we all get a taste of it

When the reality sets in that, fer whatever reason, the person that you fixated on, jest don't want you. Most time we panick. We do/say somethin stupid. We end up alienatin the person we were hopin to win back, and we end up losin our self respect over our own behavior. More sadness an misery heaped on top a the pain we already got,

Here's the advice from the ole bird.

First, the thing, ya tend ta forget, that what yer goin through it is abnormal circumstances. If yer frustrated bout how damn firckin stoopid and childish ya been behavin Don't be. Lightin up on yerself. Lots a other folks have done the same thing. If you ain't shot nobody then it could be worse. If ya wanta do somethin positive, then promise yerself yer not gonna behave that way anymore, then when do the same damn thing again, make the same promise again. After a few tries it'll stick, and you'll' get it together.

Second thing is, let em go. Don't keep callin and writin them. There ain't no words gonna come outta yer mouth that's gonna fix it. Sorry, yer facin a no-winner. Ya can do promises and I'm sorry's ta the moon and trust me, it ain't gonna help. Just stop. Stop alla it. Don't even drive past the house. It ain't bout wether or not some else seen ya go by, it's bout doin some house cleanin in yer own head. If thet person wants ta contact ya, (don't get yer hopes up) they know where ta find you. Breakin off contact on yer side is a tall order, but the sooner ya can do it, the better off you'll be.

Third, be patient with the healin process. Try ta nurture the healin. Don't sit around the house and mope. Get yer arse out and around, an try to meet people and have some fun. Early on yer gonna think "That damn bird don't have a clue, I'm jest as miserable as I was, I'm goin home to sulk" Don't do it!!!!!! Give yerself a little time dammit!!!! Whether yer feelin it yer er not, yer doin yerself some good, and yer lettin yer brain heal, so jest let it, despite how miserable yer feelin. When you get a spear through yer chest, it's liable ta be sore fer a while, but that don't mean it ain't healin.

Last, be good ta yeself. Spend a little money on yerself er somethin. Give yerself a pat on the back fer comin through a hard spot, and look forward to things gettin better. You survived, and better days are comin.

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