hey i was told to do this i'm telling you all a bit differently than i was told since i doubt many of you have any wiccan beliefs if you do however please contact me and i will give you the original way
now you all need to get a notebook and make 2 lists
1 all the things you want in a mate :don't put a spacific person put qualities
2 all the things you don't want in a mate
now get another piece of paper for each list and right them down in order of most importance
now you may need to trade off a bad for a good but your top 3 or 4 should never be compromised everytime you meet a potential mate look at your lists and figure out if they fit if they don't than don't bother it's just a waste of time they will never be what you want and you may miss out on other opportunities with someone really great by being w/ someone that isn't for you this doesn't mean not to be friends w/ that person though who knows they may introduce you to the mate of your dreams 
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| hey guys great idea i heard to help in our quest for the right mate |
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babydoll1970
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Jan 6 @ 9:03PM
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Pretty good suggestion.. 
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Kentuck
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Jan 6 @ 9:05PM
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I am sorry dear, that does not work. In my selection of a wife I listed all the negative and positive things of the women that I considered marrying.
What I selected turned out to be one hell of a nightmare.
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BaNiNBoston
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Jan 6 @ 9:13PM
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I put it on my to do list!!!!
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openmindedguy
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Jan 6 @ 9:15PM
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Interesting Concept. I may try that. To be honest there is really only one thing that I find truly has to be in there and that is honesty. But when you find a woman who is everything you want and in the end you find she isnt honest and really isnt anything you thought she was, well that just hurts.
Thanks for the thought Ill look into trying that the next time around....
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ChipP
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Jan 6 @ 9:19PM
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So my ex Victoria's Secret Model who now has her PhD is out of the question huh... 
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Sheryll861
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Jan 6 @ 9:24PM
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Sounds like a positive plan and a good plan.
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Sugar_Lee
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Jan 6 @ 9:31PM
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Helen, That would be great but none even come close....Handsome, Rich, Non smokers..I don't understand...    
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fenderchick
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Jan 6 @ 10:38PM
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Good idea, I want to hear if it works!!!
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edthepoet
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Jan 7 @ 4:49AM
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Well, The American wiccans are mostly bi or lesbians women as a whole as compare to the rest of the world. I have many friends who are and have study a little bit about it.
They are very close to nature and refuse to place neg energy onto others.
The concept can't work in theory because, how does one compare apples to apples when it comes to qualities people have. For example, He might be the most polite ,caring and giving guy in the world, but he never take a bath or brushes his teeth.
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helen77
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Jan 7 @ 5:26AM
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first of all not all of us are bi or lesbians ed  shame on you but it's more as to use as a guide i know for myself atleast that i frequently get caught up in the hey someone is paying attention to me thing than to actually step back and access the situation this is just a way to help us remember what we really are looking for and to help us from having to waste each other's time in something we know will never work
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edthepoet
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Jan 7 @ 6:23AM
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I wrote the word mostly, not all when I made my statement about the American version of Wiccans and I also said the pos core of what they believe.
Nowhere did I say you are either bi or lesbian.
Now, if what you wrote works for you and others, then I am glad that the system you choose is a good one. I choose to look at it from a logical point of view.
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helen77
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Jan 7 @ 7:27AM
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ed i know what you ment i was just messin w/ ya
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MarkAndy
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Jan 7 @ 8:10AM
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You could try to get your closest friends to do this exercise. They know you better than you know yourself usually. Here is hoping you do have some close friends!
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mystery2u888
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Mar 27 @ 11:50PM
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 Helen.......hmmm..........sounds interesting alright......... 
 xoxo
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kjac
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Mar 28 @ 12:04AM
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now you may need to trade off a bad for a good but your top 3 or 4 should never be compromised
Too true. Some things have to be learned the hard way.
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misschoos
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Mar 28 @ 4:56PM
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Not sure a piece of paper would be enough for each. 
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lacyvsq
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Mar 29 @ 12:47PM
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Hmmm....just curious as to how your soulmate measures up...and find it interesting that you are writing of a soulmate so soon after writing (and doing?) this. All the best!
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