THE RIGHT SELECTION I have a pet rule that states “”Do not blame other people for my in ability to achieve””. So, I have been looking at my dating very seriously and I have come to the conclusion that one cannot really blame work. For work is what pays the bills, buys the car, clothes, that prime rib dinner etc. However, one should know the difference between being on the job and entertaining a nice and honest lady.
So, I decided it was that time to be honest with myself and examine what I am doing. First, I decided to examine my process of selection. As I set in the airport and in a shopping mall, I graded myself in how I make a selection. Looks—nice breast, hips, legs, height, complexion, walk and etc. To my surprise, it was neither. It was facial expression (the smile, or lack of), and then more of the face becomes clear. Up to and including the type of hairstyle. Next came the height and yes—figure.
I just viewed the women and their dressing--wearing tops that were so tight that one could clearly see the imprints of their nipples or most of the breast. Then pants so tight you could see the lobs of the virgina, pants so tight that they have to hurt to walk in. Is this advertising, or just a great feel to wear.
But I see the MINI-SKIRT is in full return-
No I did not and will not object to this great show--if you got it and want to share it--then please do so.
So, I ask myself are women afraid of men that smile and seem happy?? Or does the old statement-Women do not want good men—really true.
Of course, I went on to rate my process of selection—medium size breast, nice hips, sexy groin area, legs, and yes shoes. Women that wear these flops or so called sandals are a turn off. Just do not look clean. (Probable a health safety thing for never going barefooted, always wear shower shoes etc).
Then when I arrived home, I decided to see just what age group was searching or advertising the most for a mate. Surprisingly it was the 21 to 35 year olds. This is the prime time of their life and they are still searching and there are more of them than the 35 and above.
So I concluded that there was a flaw in my selections process and there was nothing wrong with me and my way of life. It is just you have to be at the right place at the right time.
Also, Remember—people will judge you more harshly by your facial expression.
As they say –smile and the world smiles with you.
Frown and you frown alone
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Kandykammy

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Jan 12 @ 8:36PM
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Women that wear these flops or so called sandals are a turn off. Just do not look clean. I guess that leaves me out them. I just paid $130 a pair for a gold and a silver pair of flip flops from Paris.
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Kandykammy

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Jan 12 @ 8:42PM
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Oops I meant then and not them. Hey these are not dollar store flip flops. These have class.
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whatagal

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Jan 12 @ 8:45PM
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Kandy, you go girl. I'll settle for the dollar store flip flops anyday...never know what you might step into!
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teddybearagain

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Jan 12 @ 9:00PM
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you could see the lobs of the virgina I "think" that's vagina, .not sure though
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katydid438

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Jan 12 @ 9:09PM
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My father(now deceased) at 80 years of age said to me "men still call the shots in women's fashion" and I believe that to be true. Men love to look at all the exposing fashion of the day. But, in the long run, they prefer that as a private gift..JMHO
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openmindedguy

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Jan 12 @ 9:20PM
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I "think" that's vagina, .not sure though Virgina, West Virgina, maybe its all in where ya live....
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ragtopcookie

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Jan 12 @ 9:36PM
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was that chuck conners?.......or was he the rifleman....confusion sets in here....cookie
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Kandykammy

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Jan 12 @ 9:58PM
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Kandy, you go girl. I'll settle for the dollar store flip flops anyday...never know what you might step into! You have to learn how to step over the cow patties and not in them. Now the dog poop in Paris is a different ball game. It winds up on the shoes no matter what kind you are wearing.
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Kentuck

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Jan 12 @ 10:28PM
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Well Kandy the next time I am in Paris, I will get you a pair--where do I send them
On the real side--I see that every one missed the point--the facial look
Every one was more impressed in my spelling of VAGINA. Yes, that is an important piece of property. also the Flip-Flops
If you notice many reasturants will not let you enter in flip flops.
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nicetomeetyou519

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Jan 13 @ 12:45AM
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130.00 for sandals
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