This was inspired by another blog… It started me thinking about trust and trusting people… I won’t say who’s blog it was… so Shhhh I’ll never tell!
I’ve been told I’m too trusting.. I trust someone till they give me a reason not too… No, that doesn’t’ mean I’m about to divulge every facet of my life all at once… or that I’m not going to remember what is told so when I’m later told something else I can’t say.. Hummmm??? What’s that about??? That would be the reason to hold back trust.. The red flag so to speak… However someone once told me” Your too trusting.” I asked if it was a good thing or a bad thing… They told me… well, not so good.. I asked why? I was then told.. Your going to get your heart stomped on a lot… I said no not me!!! Yeah, Right! Truth is.. This person was right… but what would be the answer? To not trust anyone? So, I’ll keep putting my heart out there.. Someday I hope someone will see it, and will want to hold it, and never stomp on it…
I think if you want trust you have to know how to give trust… If you don’t have the ability to trust, you shouldn’t expect to be trusted… However that’s my opinion..
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openmindedguy

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Jan 14 @ 3:52AM
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What can I say about trust. My last attempt at love has nearly destroyed my ability to trust. And a recent person I thought to be a friend accused me of lies and being a player. It's not that I want to be a person who doesnt trust, but I think from now on trust will really be something that is earned. I used to believe that you trust people till the give reason to lose that trust. I cant do it now. It will take work from now on for me and whoever I might be with to earn trust.
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NCLADYNRED

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Jan 14 @ 4:23AM
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openminded...been there done that, and it is so so hard isnt it? Angel has the right idea, just dont put it out there too soon, and hey protect yourself!
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TheClockmaker

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Jan 14 @ 5:00AM
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Good blog Angel, IMHO I think you have the right idea...trust until you're given a reason not to and you'll be fine.
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anutosh

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Mar 9 @ 5:04AM
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your recent blog on dreams attracted my attention to this blog; it is a matter of suspention of disbelief; all people are innocent in my book until proven guilty; at the same time i measure my capacity to recover lost ground if as usual i have to pay the price for my foolhardiness. does that clarify your issue at all;?
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misschoos

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Apr 4 @ 3:11PM
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