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posted 1/15/2008 1:00:43 AM |
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  HopelesslyHopeful

But, this is not a forum thing, as all the questions are situational, can be taken as rhetorical, etc.

Here is the situation. I'm on another site, where matches are made. Unlike the progressive MD, the way the other site is set up, you can have no interaction with the person until you are matched with them, though.

Today, I happened to find that a person requested a match with me. The picture on their profile was of a woman sort of hanging onto, rather passionately, a man's back. The man's back is dominant, takes up the most space in the picture, but the woman shows her face, so in that way she is more dominant, within the picture, too.

The profile says that this person, behind such a picture, is a woman. It also, however, says that the person is a very foreign woman. Many foreign persons get "he" and "she" , "him" and "her" confused when trying to speak English . I know this as I have had to do some fast talking to stop bar fights from breaking out over a badly timed "she" having been said about the wrong man.

This person, after I matched with them (oh but I had to, to see what this foreign woman wanted with me, after all), sent me a note. The notes for that site are prefabricated choices that you can mix and match. It said something about me being sexy and how they cannot wait to talk to me, and how they think the gentleman should pay.

I have, since receiving that note, been thinking lightly about these things. Wondering the same few questions:

1) Does this mean it is a "he" and not a "she" and "he" is going to get a membership?

2) Does this mean it is a "she" and not a "he" and that "she" thinks I am a man?

3) Or does "she" think that if we were together I'd simply be the more manly one of us?

4) Or vice versa?

5) Or did "he" also get that bit confused and is thinking "he" told me that I, the woman, should pay?
6) Or is this some sort of hermaphroditic, transexual, and/or transvestite thing going on here?

7)Or is that what they are wondering about me?

I am waiting, impatiently, to see if they do, indeed, end up with a paid membership. For then I may know the answer to at least one or two of these questions. *sigh*

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Comments:
Sweetheart83446

Jan 15 @ 1:35AM  
Good luck...sheeshhh, that all sees so confusing, lol.

Maybe they will be the one who pays and you won't have too...
HopelesslyHopeful

Jan 15 @ 1:38AM  
Thank you!

Well, I'm not going to pay, regardless, because I can't. I just don't want to find out that means I'm not a gentleman! lol
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