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posted 1/19/2008 3:50:37 PM |
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  beckyiv42000

I often wonder how some people have been brought up.. in caves .. sheltered from the world...without human contact .. as royalty?? Maybe spoiled as children?? Never having to clean up after themselves so they do not learn to not create the mess in the first place .Some obviously without any repercussions for their actions...they think they can do or say what they will without someone standing up and telling them they cannot do that or have gone past common decency . Yet these same people get their knickers in a bunch when someone else treats them the same way they treat others. Proclaiming to be nice or sweet or well mannered ,yet all the time they walk about with muddy hands from all the mud they sling .. usually at others who have had no prior contact with them.. and more times than not it is because of who the person is friends with. Maybe it's a lack of breeding or a lack friends in their own lives (offline) that makes them lash out repeatedly at innocents .. makes them feel .. I don't know... um...important (or is that impotent? ) either way, their unprovoked attacks are actually a God send.. it lets others know of their true selves without actually having to interact with the person.. ...

Then we have those with muddy hands who try to wipe it from their hands onto others and shift blame for their actions..."look my hands are clean!!" they scream ... but all you have to do is look closely ... . under the fingernails ...and yep you can see who truly picked up the first glob of mud to be slung .. tis caked there along with other forms of filth ..

Now having said that and bracing for the barrage of rebuttals and more mud slingin ..I have to say a few things..

1) when ya sling the mud .. take careful aim I played catcher position for many years and can catch it and toss it back faster than you could recover

2) Yes I have been known to sling mud myself at those who would start with me (see 1) and am not saying Im an innocent but I do not HIDE my dirty hands I OWN UP TO ANY posts I have made ... and if I have stepped beyond and am truly sorry for my actions I do apologize not because others THINK I should but because I truly feel sorry about my actions and in my heart I choose NOT to commit the offense again.

3) I do like to play in the mud .. its a hold over from being a kid ..but I choose to create with it make mud pies and castles and army men bunkers etc with my kids
but I WILL use one of them finely crafted mud pies as ammo in an all out war

Just a question .. would you rather see a persons MUDDY HANDS and know what they are capable of or have to peer closely under their nails to find the mud??
Me I like not having to get THAT close to find out how someone really is ... thank you to all those who walk about with their muddy hands in pain sight and to those who try to hide them ..psst it aint working

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Comments:
BandTMom

Jan 19 @ 3:55PM  
Great analogy!

Skydognc

Jan 19 @ 3:58PM  
email me, when its time to wrestle!


unionman154

Jan 19 @ 4:23PM  
Right on Becky. I admire how you handle those with muddy hands.
whatagal

Jan 19 @ 4:23PM  
I had a mud puddle I played in as a kid. I still like to make mud pies. Dang, why is it so much fun?

Not TOO many years ago, my son and I made a mud "slip and slide" in the yard. Yes, I got my fat a**out there in the pouring rain with my bathing suit on and tore up the yard...slippin' and a slidin'

God that was so much fun but I'm sure this isn't the type of "mud" you are talking about.
oceanlover734

Jan 19 @ 4:23PM  
Now this is just damn smart! Love it.
Just a question .. would you rather see a persons MUDDY HANDS and know what they are capable of or have to peer closely under their nails to find the mud??
Me I like not having to get THAT close to find out how someone really is ... thank you to all those who walk about with their muddy hands in pain sight and to those who try to hide them ..psst it aint working


sciurusniger

Jan 19 @ 4:29PM  
When one grows up, it's often called "gardening".

daisy315

Jan 19 @ 4:30PM  
thank you Beckster !.. Great Blog darlin...
Angel1964

Jan 19 @ 4:44PM  
redtigr

Jan 19 @ 4:46PM  

I washed my hands in muddy water
Washed my hands, but they didn't come clean
Tried to do what my daddy told me
But I must have washed my hands in a muddy stream

- lyrics by Elvis Presley




I'm done...
robodad

Jan 19 @ 4:54PM  
This blog makes me want to wash my hands!
PullMyFinger

Jan 19 @ 5:18PM  
Earth, muck, clay, loam,
dirt, mud, dust
by whatever name I call it,
it comes up the same.

Breeding ground for larvae;
needed meals for worms;
snack time for children;
hiding spots for germs.

Where killers plant their nasty deeds,
where flowers fight with vicious weeds;
where sunshine never sets its beam,
where things just ain't what they seem.

Now they're playing in the dirt,
the muck, clay, loam, and mud;
under guise of observation,
understanding and instruction.

Yet hear me tell you far and wide,
don't listen to them or their aside,
they're only PLAYING in the dirt,
they're only PLAYING in the mud;
they're only PLAYING in the muck,
the earth, the dust, the loam, the "yuk".

They're only PLAYING, I tell you,
they're just dopey -- dopey, it's true.
And while they play they'll pretend
to observe, conserve, instruct and then:

They'll go home muddy, dirty and tired,
telling their tale of how hard they aspired:
to understand the dirt, the dust,
the earth, the muck, and even the rust.

Stolen from James Montgomery & tweaked a bit....

Sorry James....no I'm not, yes I am, no I'm not, yes I am....no I'm....ahhh fk it all.

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Chickapea

Jan 19 @ 6:16PM  

I have always been a calm , peaceloving person. But at 58 I find myself becoming very outspoken, and I refuse to take waht I once did from people.
I have no problem facing the trouble makers and taking them on. Or defending someone who is being picked on by these TERRIBLE people that have the nerve to call themselves HUMAN BEINGS.
I told my Neighbor that I don,t know what is happening to me and she said YOUR BEING HONEST . YOUR FINALLY PUTTING PEOPLE IN THEIR PLACE. Heck I was ready to call the Dr and say Ya better commit me LOL.
My Mouth just has a mind of its own, and people who know me just have the strnagest look on their face.
I am told I am the sweetest , generous person and my comment is HEY HEY HEY DON,T GIVE ME A REPUTATION LIKE THAT. It took me a long time to learn to be mean.
But I do have a soft side , When I,m with my cat and she has taught me that only special , and I mean very special people actually get to scratch her underbelly.
Maybe we are like cats, If we show our sensitive side , How can we be sure we can trust the other person.
Life is such a learning process , But its fun learning and like I said in another blog , WE HURT AND WE GET HURT .
And being REAL isn,t all that hard to be. People just are afraid to be REAL
Sorry so long , Just got carried away LOL


Palomino

Jan 19 @ 6:18PM  


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Loreli

Jan 20 @ 1:50PM  
Yep!
I know when I do it (bad day, something struck me wrong-never with malice intended beforehand.) I write to apologize or explain.
Some people think they're "all that and a (dirt)bag of chips"
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