I am fairly new at writing blogs on here. I like writing blogs that I feel are either inspirational or informative. Some readers agree with my writings and some do not. One thing I do not do is pick fights with my blogs. I feel that I would be defeating my own purpose if I were to turn being negative. For the most part I do not read blogs on here. I have read some, especially the ones written about me. It is kind of weird to read someone elses thought about you but I never ask anyone to take those blogs about me down. Although I do not read most blogs on here, I do read the titles and the first few sentences of some blogs that appear on the main page.
Now there are some silly blogs, political blogs, serious blogs, religious blogs, informational blogs, and all other kind of blogs. But then there is the fighting blogs, or as I like to call them, the BLOG WARS. You have all seen them. Bloggers on here writing about other bloggers in a unflattery way. Why people on here are picking fights with other people on here is silly to me. Afterall, how many of you people who are fighting have met the person you are fighting with? It is probably safe to say that almost all of you have never met one another which then begs the question, WHY ARE YOU WRITING NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE THAT YOU ONLY KNOW FROM WORDS ON A COMPUTER SCREEN?
Life is fun and you should love one another. It is fine to disagree, but can't we disagree like adults? Some of the fights I see on here seem petty, downright childish. I get the sense that it is a ego thing. It just seems like such a waste of energy and time to me to fight on a computer.
If there is a blogger on here you don't like, ignore that blogger. If you don't like a blogs subject, ignore it. That is another thing, how many of you are complaining that this is a dating site and only dating blogs belong on here? That is just plain silly to me also. like I wrote before, if you don't like the topic, ignore the blog. It won't kill you. No one will think less of you.
Just understand that there are lots of different people on here with lots of different points of view who blog about a lot of different subjects. You either accept this fact or you waste your time complaining. Less fighting and more love is what I say. Kudos to the people who are not fighting.
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read more blogs!
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loreal
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Feb 2 @ 9:52PM
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Kudos to everyone tonight! 
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kweenzrike
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Feb 2 @ 9:56PM
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It seems like alot of the bickering has subsided here lately.... hopefully it won't start up again like it got so bad there for a while... I agree with loreal.... kudso to everyone...including this bloggers.....
just say yeah 7 times   
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kweenzrike
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Feb 2 @ 9:56PM
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And while we're at it! KUDOS to everyone too! ooops!! 
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bamastyle
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Feb 2 @ 10:02PM
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Is verbal kudos the same as green kudos? 
I agree...and I wont blog a reprimand again 
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enigmasrook
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Feb 2 @ 10:12PM
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 No!!!!!!!!
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SpiritOrnery
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Feb 2 @ 11:40PM
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I actually like seeing people saying so called 'nasty' things in their blogs. They are basically telling the whole world what their personality type is. Sort of a show and tell sort of thing. Saves everyone that is not attracted to that type from spending lots of time getting to know them and feeling aghast when they find this out.
And of course, some people actually like that type of personality and the extreme honesty of their blogs also advertises who they are to those people that truly do enjoy that type of personality.
After all, this really is JUST my opinion. What is 'nasty' to me, is no doubt sexy and exciting to someone else. And I for one am so glad they are being that honest in public. Because you know they will not hide it behind your back if they have something they wish to say to you about a conflict they have with you. No, instead, they will definitely share it with you. 
That is SO much better than letting it stew inside of them and then they go behind your back to hurt you. Or they hold it til they blow up in your face! Instead, they are open and honest about it.
Just my outlook on it. 
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padreroyalataol
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Feb 3 @ 2:01AM
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WHY ARE YOU WRITING NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE THAT YOU ONLY KNOW FROM WORDS ON A COMPUTER SCREEN? ?????????????
 
richard
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blkfoot1954
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Feb 3 @ 8:01AM
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Spirit..so much of what you say is true..
If people only took the time to really look at what they are writing and how others perceive them..They may stop but then I doubt it..It is human nature for many to lash out at others because they don't know how to talk to others..this is how they deal with life..
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Selena123
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Feb 3 @ 9:28AM
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This is just another of my opinions, which I'm sure most could care a cow patty about, but if people would stop writing about "blog wars" and keep that going, you know maybe just maybe it wouldn't continue all the time.
If you don't like the fighting, arguing or whatever then by all means don't blog about it.
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