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posted 2/4/2008 9:00:00 PM |
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  fightnfire29

I was sitting back and reading some of these blogs and, well...honestly, all I could do is just shake my head..."drama, drama and yep you guest it...drama"...ok, so they like to focus on that, no problem...so, I thought to myself how I could maybe help the one's that have a tough time staying of the "Drama Train"... or maybe there not getting the right cards dealt to them...or...nothing seems to be going the right way and ect!

Well, you know...no body's perfect. We all have our ups and downs! But, it is up to you on how you deal with it all! So, I wanted to try to or at least guide some of you in a hopeful manner...and here's what I came up with...


*Focus on those things you can change and not on things you can't...

*Overcome helplessness by setting new, achievable goals...

*Forgive. When you do so repeatedly and consistently, you expel the bitterness that remains...

*Acknowledge and let go of anger appropriately. Anger is a letter short of Danger!

*Success comes in cans not cant's...

*Reach out. Kindness is something you can never give away. It always comes back.

*Rebuild trust by confiding in others. Only that which is mentionable is manageable. You cannot not-communicate. What you don't say says volumes.

*Life is a balancing act between emotion and reason...

*Life isn't fair...To live is to suffer...To survive is to find meaning to suffering (Viktor Frankl).

So...hopefully some will get something out of this and other's...well...Good Luck...The next "Train" is due in!!




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Comments:
daisy315

Feb 4 @ 9:24PM  
good blog !
cancun1999

Feb 4 @ 9:32PM  
Great blog and very well put..
Journeyhawk

Feb 4 @ 9:57PM  
Excellent blog !
TheClockmaker

Feb 4 @ 10:01PM  
Good job...hope you put the fire out!
bamastyle

Feb 4 @ 10:22PM  
Fightnfire29 for President....got my vote!
missliss78

Feb 4 @ 11:20PM  
Great blog!
Thanks for sharing!~
Blondino

Feb 5 @ 5:27AM  
Great blog it wont get many comments because its not controversial or dramatic shame
Tunes4u

Feb 5 @ 12:06PM  
The more we take.....the less we become......


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