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  Tunes4u

Hate:1 a: intense hostility and aversion usually deriving from fear, anger, or sense of injury.

Definition taken from :

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hate


" Fear or sense of injury"

In other words, it is all about "self."

A perceived notion of "self preservation."


Look at our world!
Take the Planet Earth.....from a distance, one would never expect to find so much hate and greed on it's beautiful surface. From a distance, it is so serene and calm. It's appearance is an icon of peace and beauty when seen from a distance.

Only a small handful of earth's passengers have actually seen it from a distance. The rest of us have seen pictures of it. Probably does not have the same effect.

And yet....upon closer inspection.....the reality of just how small the "thinking" being exercised by the planet's inhabitants really is, becomes clear. Self destruction can be the only result of the behavior being demonstrated by the world's visitors. After all....we are just visitors are we not?

No matter how hard we try.....there is always someone who is so small minded, they can not see the inevitable outcome of being stubborn and full of fear.

Greed......power......control......= self. No matter what the supposed subject matter is....religion, power, greed, energy.....or insulting words.....doesn't matter.
Peace is impossible.

When one "hates", the perception is that one needs to "defend.".....That he is being attacked and is threatened, which can afflict his ego with a sense of injury. Which calls for counter-attacks to insure a continuance of his objectives, what ever they may be. Which then leads the attacked to defend...which leads to another attack.....see where this is going children? It is endless.

It is totally unproductive, unnecessary, pointless, a waste of resources and talent. It also damages the spirit within each participant. And those around them.
Those who join in or join sides also become unwitting participants. Which damages those spirits and those around them, slowly spreading like a cancer.

It is universal, comes from the same source, and self propagates itself. Like a cancer.

When I see someone who perceives he is being attacked, and then he attacks back his perceived attacker, in any part of the world, I see the ingredients of every conflict known to man since the dawn of time. I see the endlessness and hopelessness of it all.

I hear all the time from so called "peacemakers" that they will be willing to stop their attacks, IF the attacks against them would stop.

That is NOT how it works my Brothers and Sisters. Which should be painfully obvious by just observing the state our own planet is in.

Not to mention what goes on in these tiny little blank boxes that seems to so easily fill up with hate, fear, anger, and injury. A mico-planet...right here.....and we can do nothing to stop the bickering. Which is the very essence and first ingredient of Hate.

I am not going to try to explain how to stop the violence. Like I said, it is hopeless. There are far too few real peacemakers on our planet. Far too few people who can think in terms of compassion, generosity, courage, and love.

We have all heard that old saying "Love is a verb." It is what you DO....not what you say, that defines your love.

I believe "Peace" has it's own version of that saying.

Peace is a verb......it is what you actually DO that makes the peace.....not what you say.

The only way to stop the hate......is to stop.
Leave it right where it sits.....and move on to bigger and better things.
Hate will disappear when left alone. It REQUIRES PARTICIPATION from you to exist.

Doesn't matter if you are the President of Palestine, or a member of a dating site.

In other words....Hate is a verb......it is what you do that defines your hate, your fear, your anger.....

Just take away all it's power over you by letting it go, no matter what.
No matter who is "right"....
No matter if you appear "weak".....

Let it stop.....if we can't do anything else we can stop it here, in our beloved blogland....in the forums.....and in your lives.
Be leaders.....repair your spirits and those around you will do the same eventually.
Lead by example.
The "weak" shall inherit the earth....remember?

The world is lost.....if we can't even stop it here.

Stay Tuned

I do


Tunes







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Comments:
Victory1940

Feb 8 @ 1:14PM  
Excellent blog my friend.....

Peace in the world starts with peace within yourself.... if they can't learn that then I'm afraid there's no hope for them...

I am SO glad I learned that lesson before it was too late!!!!! Amazing how well one's life will go if they learn how to let go... fix what needs to be fixed in them and stop blaming others.


B~
loreal

Feb 8 @ 1:15PM  
Thank you Tunes...Very nice Blog...I love to Read your Blogs...I Love to read! lol...so, I am hoping that I don't have to continue reading on this same topic, over and over again...Got any more pics of your puppy to make me smile?
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redtigr

Feb 8 @ 1:21PM  


Tunes, you are a true peacemaker... You've stated the case for peace so eloquently - and yet simply enough for anyone to understand.

Let's hope for understanding... comprehension... and peace.
HighlandsLass

Feb 8 @ 1:27PM  
The only way to stop the hate......is to stop.

I know only one thing big enough to absorb hatred: love.

If we must do something about hatred, I hope to return blessings, not curses; kindness, not grudges; softness, not harshness; healing, not hurt.
teddybearagain

Feb 8 @ 1:28PM  
debe2u99

Feb 8 @ 1:47PM  
Peace!

Great blog Tunes...I agree...love to see actual pictures of your new puppy!! AND....what name did you decide on??
luvshorses644

Feb 8 @ 2:09PM  
Tunes... this is a perfect blog.. you have stated what each individual should have already learned in life and done it with words that brought a sense of harmony and peace to me while I was reading them.

This, this is a true blog worthy of a read by all, and if EVERYONE that continues to keep the hatred going doesn't see that this is the way they should govern themselves.. there is little hope they ever will.

Excellent, excellent blog!!!

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TroutFishing

Feb 8 @ 2:17PM  
( insert some positive yet unrelated comment here

designed to take our minds far afield and enjoy the

wonder of the planet and the intriguing people upon it)




EmmeS61

Feb 8 @ 3:36PM  
Wonderful, inspirational writing as always.

This, this is a true blog worthy of a read by all

I couldn't agree more.
EternalFlame

Feb 8 @ 3:50PM  


~*~

'Nuff said
ceecee1952

Feb 8 @ 3:56PM  
yep
SallyF

Feb 8 @ 4:26PM  
Even not having been to outer space, the photos of our little blue planet inspire awe and a sense of wanting to nurture peace and tranquility. 'It' is a living thing :-) Thank you, Tunes, for this thoughtful blog.
Skydognc

Feb 8 @ 4:29PM  
but dammit.....

I hate everyone !




now ya want me to stop?

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beckyiv42000

Feb 8 @ 5:03PM  
<( *v* )><( *v* )><( *v* )><( *v* )>
PullMyFinger

Feb 8 @ 5:09PM  
As usual....

~*~

It was directed at me, wasn't it....fess up...tell it to me straight, hit me with your best shot...shoot me like you shot the sheriff.....

ehhh....

Tunes4u

Feb 8 @ 5:29PM  
Yeah well...

I shot the Sherrif
But I did not shoot no Deputy .....



I think that was Doggie.....he did it.....I saw him....


poeticcougar

Feb 8 @ 7:05PM  
WOW!!!!!!!!! This should be the MD blog mission statement. Shoot, the President, Prime Minister, Priests, etc should all read this blog and live by it! Without a doubt the BEST blog written to describe the state of this place lately.

Why not name the Puppy, Peace? Afterall, he'll be filled with it with a master like you!
sciurusniger

Feb 8 @ 7:24PM  
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whatagal

Feb 8 @ 9:22PM  
Tommy Tunes for President!!
blkfoot1954

Feb 9 @ 2:17AM  

This is one of the best that says it all.

Excellent blog..

Hugsssssssss
kallie_ko

Feb 9 @ 9:54AM  
Tommy gets my vote!

Wonderful blog as usual Tunes, kudo to you.

Name the puppy Bonsai... You can at least find inner peace when you are with him.
PullMyFinger

Feb 9 @ 10:01AM  
A president who can twirl a guitar...

I'm in.

Fender

Feb 9 @ 5:33PM  
Your blog was insightful, intelligent and an excellent read. Thank you very much.
honeybear285

Feb 10 @ 4:29PM  
In this world there are many things we can do alone.....watch TV, go shopping, listen to music, etc......and there are many things that take two people to do....kissing, hugging, making love.....and there are some things that must involve two or more people, among those things is FIGHTING....

One person, standing alone, cannot fight......that person may try to start a fight...by saying or doing things against another,.....but unless the other person reacts......there is no fight.

One person, standing alone or with someone.....can choose who they want as friends, or who they choose to dislike.....that is OK....it is a big world out there....you cannot possibly like every person in it......the problem though, is when one person chooses to start a campaign against another, then that person chooses to retaliate ...... sides are taken.....other people choose to join the fighting and mud-slinging......and it escalates.....then it starts to involve us all in one way or another.....some of our friends are now at odds with each other and now we have a choice to make.....do we choose sides?.....or do we choose not to choose one friend over another and do our best to stay neutral......

I remember a lesson I learned as a child....friends were fighting....I chose a side, even though I liked both my friends.....when the arguing was over, the friends made up.....but then were mad at me....why, because I chose one over the other....innocent people are being caught in the middle...good people, people who before have chosen to keep quiet and not interfere....

lets not let this happen here.....it is time to hold out the olive branch in peace.....time to look for the good in the other person and not what you don't like.....time to stop the little veiled digs back and forth and time to stop trying to gather your armies.

IT IS TIME FOR PEACE........IT IS ALL ABOUT CHOICES


Peace and Love
Honeybear
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