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Can Ya Hear Me Now? (Again)

posted 3/1/2008 12:52:00 AM |
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  SpiritEnergy

I took myself off the search for a relationship due to the fact that my relationship picker is broke. I tend to pick men that are not mate material for me. I mean, really! I realized that if they tend to be fun and attractive, then I go for them even tho they do not suit my requirements. ????
So, do I whine there are no good men out there? HELL, no. I know who it is. It isn't them, it is me! I am the problem. I literally attract men that...

Can't hear what I am saying, literally...
Can't hear what I am saying...by what I mean...
Refuse to at least TRY to consider MY feelings in any situation and therefore try to understand where I am coming from...
Don't respect me enough to try...etc and last but not least....
Don't fkn care enough about me or women to fight their baser instincts.

What is it? Why on God's green Earth, do I attract this into my life? Ok, I am not asking you to tell me this, ok? I am JUST bitching..... VENT!!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
GO AWAY! JUST GO AWAY! Let me play, please? I just want to play and have fun. I do NOT want to be in a relationship because it would be a ball and chain around my ankle. No, I take that back, around my NECK!
I don't want any comments, ok? Because I really just want to act like the men I am attracting. I don't want to listen and I do NOT want to understand. I just want to FORCE everyone else to just fkn accept me pissy and a pain in da ass! JUST LIKE THEM! SO THERE!

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Comments:
madamegeek

Mar 2 @ 5:59PM  
Spirit, love..that was really good! Keep it up and next time, I bet you find it a bit easier to tell us how you REALLY feel!

(Be aware that I am gonna keep this close at hand for the next time I get REALLY torqued at some of the antics I read here.)

Good going, girl!

Sugar_Lee

Mar 2 @ 6:41PM  
Okay , I'm not saying anything! Oops.. that was not me laughing!
loisday

Mar 2 @ 7:12PM  
SE.....
Love ya.

It's a good thing about these dating sites.....we've made a lot of great FEMALE friends...........
Sugar_Lee

Mar 2 @ 7:51PM  
I still can't hear you?
SpiritEnergy

Mar 2 @ 7:56PM  
Lois, you got that right, sweetie! And you other ladies, I certainly hear ya!
SpiritEnergy

Mar 2 @ 10:07PM  
Yeah, well, I talked to my sister today and she said they did a study in Europe and if a woman tells a man something, most men hear almost the opposite of what the woman says but if a man tells a man something, men can hear it. I think I may go gay! I KNOW not all men are that way. Finding men that can hear you if you are a woman is real hard tho. Like I said, I quit looking.
pamdemonium

Mar 7 @ 5:04PM  
misschoos

Mar 7 @ 5:19PM  
Men don't listen.

Look at couples when you are out,
the woman is often talking, and he is most definitely NOT listening.


You might meet a man who is attentive in the beginning of a relationship.

This type of man is clever, because he makes you believe that he is listening,
when he is only really being attentive.

Later on in the relationship, he stops being attentive toward you.

Then you go and believe he has stopped listening,
when he has NEVER EVER listened to you.





Super1000x

May 26 @ 9:37AM  
Sometimes your actions are speaking so loud we can't hear what you are saying.....
imlost2

May 26 @ 3:38PM  
Gosh do I know what you mean, I bought three stud finders at Ace Hardware and none of them work. lol, tc Lost
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