As people, we only get one chance at life. Every moment that passes gets us one step closer to the end of this life. So what we do with those moments make us who we are. Some things in life we can control, others we can not. When we can control things and they go our way, we are usually happy. The true test of ones character is how that person reacts when something happens that can't be controlled and goes wrong.
If someone intentionally does something wrong to you without caring what will happen to you from the result of it, chances are that person does not have love in their heart for you. Now, you could get mad and start hating that person too, but I believe the best way to react is to show love for that person. I know, you are probably asking yourself, 'is he crazy?' Well, maybe I am. But I would forgive this person even though it would be hard. My reasoning is that what happened is not going to change, but I will only compound the problem by reacting hatefully. That person will have to live what he/she did to me, but I get to live my life happy and not with all this built up hate or frustration. Besides, if you show forgivness, you just might get the offender to regret what he/she did to you.
There is lots of hate in the world today. But the only way we are going to overcome this hate is by not letting it bother us. Hate is never conquered by hate. Hate is conquered by love. And people need all the love they can get. So the next time someone does you wrong, try to forgive and love that person, see how that reaction makes you feel. It has to be better then hating. It is much better to spend your moments loving then spending your moments hating.
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