Ok so I get a text message today from someone I used to let's say we had relations..ok. Well he goes on to tell me he is getting married and then asks if I am intrested in being his last fling?!??
Crazy first off I will never be a fling of any kind for anyone and second if you found the person you are prepared to spend your life with is this a necessary evil? If you are looking for something like this are you settling for the right person or just settling.
I am truly baffled and speechless which is rare for me...I mean I have heard of the last hurrah aka the bachlor/bachlorette party but does anyone actually have good bye to my single life ..sex? I mean if you are doing this now what are the chances that you will be faithful in the marriage...I just don't know.
Have I mentioned he was dead serious about this not even saying it in jest!
I would love to hear thoughts on this!!
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Palomino
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Apr 6 @ 5:00AM
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No...I seriously doubt he'll remain faithful during his marriage. If he's so in love and committed to getting married, he shouldn't even be thinking about another woman. Aauurrgghh!!! This just pisses me off!! Kudos to you for rejecting him! 
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PROVIDENCE_BOSTON
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Apr 6 @ 5:45AM
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I would contact his soon to be wife and give her a heads up on what her man is up to and all about . 
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needa
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Apr 6 @ 6:33AM
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you should count your lucky stars that you're not the poor soul marrying this guy.
how crass of him to make you that offer! whatever you had with him certainly wasn't respectful on his part.
i would have told him to start saving up for his divorce, and to lose my phone number.
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ragtopcookie
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Apr 6 @ 7:25AM
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i remember my ex girlfriend of ten years last summer calling me and telling me that she found somebody to marry her.....after about seven months of dating.....she said she was tired of waiting around on me to make up my mind.....so she was gonna marry him......so i asked her if he knew he was second choice?........cookie
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debe2u99
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Apr 6 @ 8:53AM
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show the 'almost new wife' the text... ...and call it a early wedding present! 
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samclaunts
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Apr 6 @ 9:25AM
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go ahead and give the poor guy a fling,,his new wife to be want care, after all,,look at the world we live in today 
 just joking,,tell his wife to be
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chek1678
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Apr 6 @ 10:02AM
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I tend to go along with the majority here. Make his day by send her a copy of the mail. Even tho she may not want to beleive it, I would send it any ways. 
You know come to think about this, I would be more inclined to take a copy to the church the day of the wedding.  Thank your lucky star you are not her.   
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pantyinspector
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Apr 6 @ 10:15AM
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go play hide the sausage its doiung no harm and thinkabout it hes got the rest of his life with the same bird... 6 months down the line shes not gunna be interested in hot steaming sex , most married couples aint ,reality has kicked in ...... no harm in a session before in my eyes ... you go for it in my eyes ... nothing adventured nothing gained
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JChic515
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Apr 6 @ 10:17AM
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Unfortunate but I am still friends with the fiance from hell. Seriously I don't think its my place to tell her..this guy is a good friend but boyfriend material he is not...I can't even imagine them making it to the big day.
For this guy I think he may bed women for sport..he has so many notches in his bedpost its a toothpick!!!
I feel for the girl but if she just uses her intuition she should figure this out ..I stongly believe when women get that feeling something has gone wrong with their men they are usually right!!
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cabanaboy4u
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Apr 6 @ 10:45AM
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"I feel for the girl but if she just uses her intuition she should figure this out .."
Unless you are good friends with this person, I don't think you owe her anything and all that may be created is a pissed off woman who thinks you're just jealous.
"For this guy I think he may bed women for sport.."
That would be his own inadequacy problem and everyone who is involved with him.
"Unfortunate but I am still friends with the fiance from hell. Seriously I don't think its my place to tell her..this guy is a good friend but boyfriend material he is not..."
You may be kidding yourself here. 
You cannot possibly include this peson as a friend if he lies, cheats and basically has no redeeming qualities that qualify or quantify friendship. 
I'm sure you can find a better criteria for friendship, deep 6 this guy as a friend and look for someone with integrity. to call friend.
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SouthernGator
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Apr 6 @ 11:07AM
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Think about it this way.....If you were the female fiance would you want somebody to warn you?
Then you will have your answer.
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Godless
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Apr 6 @ 11:41AM
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How are you positive he wasn't kidding?
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JChic515
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Apr 6 @ 12:04PM
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I know him well enough to know this was not a joke!!
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