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Siblings...........My thoughts

posted 4/6/2008 9:28:44 AM |
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My siblings and I used to be so close, now we have drifted farther and farther apart, each with our seperate lives and families. What I cant understand is where is all the love and laughter that we used to share as children. Now there is just turmoil and back-stabbing, lies and deceit. and the sad part is, it has reached our children. I have tried reasoning with them to no avail, I guess we have no one to blame but ourselves if we allow this to happen to our family. When we are together we pretend to be one BIG happy family, but when we leave it is back to being disrepectful to the others....I am not saying that I partake in this behavior at all, I am the one that tries to fix this broken family I have,I been holding this inside for so long it is tearing me up and many sleepless nights I have had, my only wish is that somewhere deep inside all of them they come to realize that if you cant love your siblings then how can you expect our children to love one another, they follow only what they have been subjected to and have witnessed.

To the siblings out there cherish the times you have shared and the many wonderful times that you will share in the future............The older we get the shorter the time we have with each other...........

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Comments:
ragtopcookie

Apr 6 @ 2:22PM  
lucky...you are one of a kind......a good mother......provider......and a great friend to me......so chin up my friend.....if your family cant see you for what you are.....your family on here sure does......cookie
cartay25

Apr 6 @ 3:59PM  
You so just wrote about my family Lucky. I at least take some comfort in knowing that if we really need to be we are there for each other......otherwise it's everyone for themselves. I have put too much energy into trying to fix the rift's in the family so I just spend as little time with them as possible........it reduces the stress in my life.
lisa46

Apr 6 @ 5:16PM  
now we were opposite as kids we fussed and fought like tigers now I'm the youngest almost 48 and we are soooo close! They still try and tell me what to do Hey lucky I'll claim ya as my sister!!! we get along just fine!!
missliss78

Apr 6 @ 5:39PM  
You brought thoughts of me & my sister to mind.
Though there are 6 years between us, we were very close in our younger years.
The truth of the matter is, however, that we grew apart & changed.
We pass & repass, probably for the sake of our Mother, but otherwise, we have nothing in common to bring us together.
And so life goes.......

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