Oh so sorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry some of you didn't like it. I didn't do it for YOU, I did it for ME. I did it to to talk to my FRIENDS...yes REAL ones. I did it because I was afraid people would ask questions that I didn't think were fair to the other person. I did it because I needed to hide away. Is that such a bad thing?
Each story has 2 sides but I didn't think it was right to air any of that laundry on the site that embraced us both as a couple so I kept it hush. Unfortunately someone else thought the world should know. I didn't think it should be broadcast. Unfortunately someone else did.
You know what? Breakups hurt... no matter who did what and why. Think the other person is the only one who cried...think again.
You want to laugh and cut me down.... grow up! You butt your nose in because your b/f did....wow maybe he should bungee without a cord. This was between US and I thought it would remain this way on here but he had to air to it.
and so frickin sorry I didn't know the promise was only to be kept if we were together.
wow....maybe if some of you had balls to say what you thought to me instead of flocking to the barnyard, I wouldn't have to be a bitch. then again, soem of you DON'T have balls to stand up for anything unless your puppet master pulls your strings.
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blkfoot1954
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Apr 26 @ 1:19AM
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Sweetie.....
You know I have adopted you as one of my daughters,I am so sorry that this all has to be aired here.It should be private but I think that some are not happy unless they are involved in the hurtful things that go on in here.YOU are correct,it should have been between the two of you and not the whole world to see.I know the two fo you have friends here,if they are his friends or your friends,tehy should be supporting the two of you during this time and not taking sides.It takes two to make and break a relationship.If they don't know the whole story then they should keep their comments to themselves.Maybe they should think back to when ever they had to break up with someone,Did they really want others to make hurtful comments to them?The old rule should really be in effect at times like this..
Nothing nice to say,THEN say nothing...Be there to comfort your friends BUT stay out of it.
 
Hugssssssssss and love my daughter
Mom
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scorpiogirl36
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Apr 26 @ 1:26AM
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Hey girl..just vent and stay strong. I'm so sorry to hear this happened. 
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lostinmesaaz
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Apr 26 @ 1:55AM
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I'm sorry your having to go through a hard time right now and some are putting their noses where it should not belong. I hope tomorrow will be a brighter day for you. Ta Ta for now.
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Mission_Impossible139
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Apr 26 @ 2:07AM
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Of course I knew nothing about what had happened but it sounds like an interesting story. Aren't these internet dating relationships breaking new ground? Please, tell us the real story. I'm sure all would like to know.
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cartay25
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Apr 26 @ 2:21AM
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The Cougar is back with claws bared. 
Sorry that so many think they have to choose sides or play favorites. You are correct that some things should have been left private. As Feetz said it takes two to make or break a relationship, so there is no need to point fingers. 
Welcome back Cougz. CartCart missed you.
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john33142
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Apr 26 @ 2:40AM
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 .. even my cat hates me
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cancun1999
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Apr 26 @ 8:17AM
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Welcome back my dear friend. .sorry about what happened to you.. Some people can be so mean and aren't happy unless they are causing trouble..I just want you to know you have a friend in me and always will..
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sloriver
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Apr 26 @ 10:11AM
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I don't have a clue what this is all about but on a scale of one to ten, I give that venting a nine. You GO girl! 
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EternalFlame
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Apr 26 @ 10:16AM
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Coug, you did what you needed to do and it was nobody's business except the people you chose to talk to about it.
Too many busybodies on this site. It's like living next door to Gladys Kravitz. 
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Tiramisu4u
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Apr 26 @ 10:47AM
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Cougs, hun....I can only guess at whats happened...but I truely dont feel its any of our biz.
All we should concern ourselves here is that a friend (or friends) are hurting, and we will be here to offer warm hugs and support when you need it.
Anything else we should know is up to YOU to inform us...no one else should take that right away from you.
Sooo...here is my hug...I care...
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PentatonicPunk
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Apr 26 @ 10:50AM
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JimNastics
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Apr 26 @ 11:03AM
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Sorry things did not work out as planned.
Hang in there and have fun getting to know someone new. 
The truth will set you free
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SunBabe
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Apr 26 @ 11:04AM
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 This, too, shall pass, dear lady.
As I said elsewhere, it's not our business. And we still luvs ya...and missed the "regular" PC.
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Kat_luvr
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Apr 26 @ 2:44PM
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 .....HMMMMM Dont have a clue ( as Usual) but I gathered you split with someone and they aired the laundry.........SO Sorry.........Vent away, you will feel better...........Oh the other ID thing? Yea been there done that.............Sometimes A girl gotta do what she gotta do! .............Feel better Sis.
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lizardlicks
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Apr 26 @ 5:39PM
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What
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teddybearagain
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Apr 26 @ 6:12PM
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Love ya Cougz
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Godless
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Apr 26 @ 9:39PM
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As usual, I missed the drama... well, that is, except for this. Other than that, I'm clueless.
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missliss78
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Apr 26 @ 10:12PM
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I didn't know what happened.
I still don't know what happened.
And more importantly, I don't want to know what happened.
It appeared to me a 3rd party made it HER business to discuss what may have happened.
I don't know why you came back under an alias nic....frankly, I don't want to know that either.....but, really, isn't it better just being "you?"
Frankly, I have missed seeing both of y'all here & would be happy that both of you returned.
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fenderchick
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Apr 26 @ 11:01PM
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I love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm still denying your a hermit 
..Better you let the truth out there than have people make up stuff.
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Sugar_Lee
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Apr 27 @ 6:14PM
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This third party loves you...and you know I think the world of both of you, as you ask me to announce the engagement and to stay at the house for the reception! But there are people that can't wait to get there talons into me... At least he made it as right as he could on the forum... The Captain gave you both permission to Wed..now I am giving you back the personal invitation. You know I promised you I would not write to him..but I did tell him what I thought and well you know the rest. I am sorry I will not be coming and I'm sorry Z and I will not get to dance. I do hope the two of you in time will try and be friends...
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Cynbaby
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Apr 27 @ 6:27PM
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Hoping you will feel better soon
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jadedbtch
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Apr 28 @ 12:15AM
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Have you ever heard the song "who knew" by pink? If you have not listen to it. It speaks wonders of the unknown 
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Sugar_Lee
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Apr 29 @ 4:25PM
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You are to beautiful to be a Hermit! You do make a great pirate though! 
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prettyprncess560
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May 1 @ 11:44AM
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Welcome back!
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