I don't get it...I really don't. You post your blogs saying how everybody should respect each other, and then bash others in your comments on the blog. You bitch and moan and complain about how some people think they're better than others, then you prop yourself up on your holier-than-thou pedestals and look down on those you condemn.
Do you really think it's important? In the big picture, tell me, how effing important is a goddamn KUDO?
You know what's important? REAL LIFE.
I found out today that my father is in the hospital. He lay down to take a nap and when he woke up, he couldn't move his left leg. An MRI showed he's got a tumor on his brain, and a bleeder. The tumor is effectively blocking the motor control to the leg. There's also something in 'the adrenal area' whatever the fck that means.
Tomorrow morning I'm making the drive to visit my father.
THAT is important.
So take your blog war and shove it right up your ass.
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sciurusniger
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May 5 @ 1:19AM
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You aren't the only one who sees the "shear" hypocrisy in action. 
I'm so sorry about your father. Sending prayers and positive energies to all of you.
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burnslikethesun
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May 5 @ 1:21AM
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Hey babbbbbbbbbbby wanna neck?
Sorry I was stairing at your spots.
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Redwicket
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May 5 @ 1:31AM
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I too am sorry that you are going through this...I will send positive energy as well.
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gunn12fan
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May 5 @ 2:29AM
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Im saying a prayer for your father i gave up on posting anything because people bitch to much i just stay quiet and watch the world go by
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beckyiv42000
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May 5 @ 4:14AM
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EF my prayers are there for your father and for you I know you need them too right now Love ya lots GF  sometimes people just dont see what is REALLY important in life till its too late .. I know you KNOW what is important big huggs hon and many prayers 
psst um just IGGY THE TWITS 
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needa
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May 5 @ 5:35AM
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EF,
I hope your dad is ok. My cousin had a similar tumor. They got it with surgery, and she's fine now.
When something like this happens to one of your parents, the world levels out - I've been there. Think positive, and forget the BS that flies on the internet.
Hugs to you!
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teddybearagain
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May 5 @ 6:08AM
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In the big scheme of life, you are so correct about what is truly
important.
Hoping your dad will be ok, and you be safe.
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misschoos
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May 5 @ 6:30AM
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I am so sorry i hope he has a speedy recovery. Xxx The adrenals are glands on both kidneys.
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oceanlover734
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May 5 @ 6:52AM
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I am so sorry about your dad hugs and prayers.
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theblessedone
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May 5 @ 6:56AM
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Gentle thoughts to you, your father, and your family.
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LaughTillYaPuke
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May 5 @ 7:20AM
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Cripes what a month your having. 
But yeah, I get it. I really, really do. The battles, the wars, the attempts to make others bleed. What for?
You know what? I just want to write. I NEED to write. It's cheep freaking therapy. And I don't need others apporval or accolades to do it. But it's always nice not to get kicked in the teeth too.
And yeah, I left the site for a while because I just couldn't fathom the hatred twords one another. And i find myself going to post a blog....getting it al ready...and then not clicking the "post' button. I don't even want to share anymore.
It's this. This here. Right in front of me. My home, my family, my child and my friends....this is where my happiness lies. And I find myself wondering if it's those things that have made people so unhappy that they must bring their anger here.
You have a point, (many actually) and I think I will got to approval only as well for all of my blogs. I have always tried to have an open mind to others thoughts, but it shouldn't have to be to my own detriment. I'm sick of being REAL only to have people tell me that I can't see the big picture.
Whatever. You get a kudo. And my thoughts and love. Know that I am thinking of you. And I and some others will continue to write and seek out the postaive in life.
~*~ (and that's me slipping you the tongue) 
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whatagal
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May 5 @ 7:20AM
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I've missed all the in fighting again. Some people just don't get it!
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GenuineHarleyGirl
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May 5 @ 7:31AM
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I agree....My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your father...Put's it all in perspective ..doesn't it..how people get all caught up on this site..Don't get me wrong..I enjoy reading the blogs..talking to friends I have made here..But I have a very busy life away from the keyboard...Md doesn't rule ..just a form of entertainment..interest so to speak..I too sentd positive vibrations and well wishes your way...
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iceagehottie
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May 5 @ 7:36AM
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Sorry to hear about your dad...Ill say a little prayer for you and your family...I hope things get better....
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chatillion
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May 5 @ 7:51AM
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Best wishes for your dad... 
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LoveME10der2005
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May 5 @ 7:57AM
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Sorry to hear about your father...
...as for here...don't let the 'dumb stuff' bug ya... ...it's not important. 
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fenderchick
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May 5 @ 8:28AM
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I hope he get's better,xoxox.
...I still don't get it, I remember back in the day all the fun laughing over kudo's. It's not really a big deal, I think alot are losing sight of the bigger picture. Which is fun. Fun,fun,fun.
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sherwithme
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May 5 @ 8:41AM
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Your and yours are in my prayers.
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American_Woman
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May 5 @ 9:07AM
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Truer words have never been spoken. I'm so sorry about your dad.
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JimNastics
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May 5 @ 9:55AM
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Good luck regarding your dad.
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EternalFlame
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May 5 @ 9:58AM
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Thank you all that have commented.
I find it very telling, reading the comments here and seeing who commented. It says a lot about character, and yes, even QUALITY. When it's time to show respect....oh nevermind, I really don't care anymore.
I'll leave you with this to ponder.
204 of you have viewed this blog. 204 of you know that a man is in the hospital with a brain tumor...a father, a grandfather, an uncle, a brother, a SON. And of those 204 people, only 19 people have bothered to send well-wishes with RESPECT.
Think about it. Then step off your fcking pedestals and stop thinking you're so much better than me and my friends. 
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EternalFlame
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May 5 @ 10:08AM
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Make that 20 people. Jim's comment hadn't hit my mailbox yet when I was typing that comment.
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blkfoot1954
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May 5 @ 10:09AM
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EF...hugsssssssss my friend..Prayers for you and your Dad..I hope he will be ok..
Lots of love coming your way
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PullMyFinger
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May 5 @ 10:31AM
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Certainly hope all is well with your family and your father has a rapid recovery.
Now, for the rest of the stuff, come on, it's important to them because it's the only life they have, they're parked behind a monitor, cackling, deleting friends (sic) from their lists and fighting depression over their advanced age, realizing they have absolutely no hope of regaining youth, doomed to a life of cyber-sex with smelly old men in dirty underwear or smelly old men posing as women in dirty underwear.
They're hypocrites, plain and simple...no fancy definition, just hypocrites. They'll do stupid shit, get a lot of support from the other water buffalo, have their blog or comment removed by admin or by their own hand and claim innocence. It's fun, come on. I especially enjoy the barnyard psychologists.
All I gotta say is look at some of the more recent blogs, they can take more than one blog war up the ol' poopchute and most likely have, repeatedly. Respect isn't something their used to, they rarely get a chance to earn it, except maybe to quell someone's sexual perversion...."Oh sure, I respect you, now bark like the bad chihuahua you are".....
Again, hope all is well with you family.
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dallas1995
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May 5 @ 10:59AM
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my dad passed a while ago yet his memory lives...may you experience the peace of his love
Life is a treasure hunt, love is the treasure.
Rosicrucian
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EmmeS61
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May 5 @ 10:59AM
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Sorry to hear about your father. Sending positive energy your way and wishing all the best to you and yours.
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aFriendlyBlogger
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May 5 @ 11:34AM
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I wrote a blog on Respect . And, I have always followed through what I say ( and write ). I don't like to bash others. Because, NOT all of us can be like everyone . We have our own unique blend of writing . Yes, there are alot that are better than me . But it's how I want to show the world ... what I am capable of writing . It's not how I can be better than someone else . Because, I know I can better much better than myself . When I put the effort into it .
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Tunes4u
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May 5 @ 11:47AM
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Hi EF,
I am sorry to hear about your Dad. I wish him well, and you all the best. I hope for his speedy recovery as well.
Somehow I always seem to miss all the bickering and fighting that apparently goes on in here. I have seen a little, but for the most part, somehow I must just be mindlessly strolling around, enjoying the blogs I want to read, and ignoring the rest. Sometimes it is good to be oblivious.  A man without a clue.
Anyway, I do know there are any number of igits who make their own days by hurting others. But in the end, they are the ones who are suffering the deepest.
Don't let 'em get to ya Sweetie.
Again, I hope all this works out the way you would have it.....
Tunes
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mailorderannie
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May 5 @ 11:55AM
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I'd like to say that I'm one of the 204 readers that passed by without a comment, and I apologize.
Our paths haven't crossed that much here, and I felt a comment at this time would just be, well wrong. Almost like I'm jumping in to be counted among the respectful people here. I'm sure others have felt the same way.
I'm sorry for all you've been through, and hope that the prognosis for your father is a good one.
And you're right...in the whole big picture of life, MD blog games just don't matter.
Hugs...
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wandaful123
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May 5 @ 12:14PM
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*wishing you strength and peace*
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Blueschic
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May 5 @ 2:06PM
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It's almost 2 pm and I just signed on. I would like to wish a full recovery to your father. Hopefully it isn't as bad as it sounds.
I can empathasize with you as I have gone through a lot family crisis such as what you're experiencing now. I have prayed for miracles and seen them happen and am not ashamed to say so. I will say a prayer for your father.
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Pete73052
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May 5 @ 2:19PM
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 Hon, hang tough. Wishing your dad a speedy recovery. I'm sorry you are having to go through this. I have a shoulder for you if you need it.
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cartay25
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May 5 @ 3:24PM
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Aw EF, I will keep your Dad and family in my prayers and send up special thoughts to give you the strength to keep going.
Hugs to you gf for all you have been going thru.
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lazareth
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May 5 @ 6:23PM
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hugs and prayers EF,
dont let the arsewipes here get to you, it aint worth it
Sometimes ya just gotta step away for a while
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TallBlonde1
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May 5 @ 6:25PM
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Just found this blog hun, I hope your Father is doing better today. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep us posted, please.
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meanjolene
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May 5 @ 6:36PM
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Hugs for you, dear, and prayers.
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misschoos
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May 5 @ 6:48PM
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Hope all is well gf.
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caffie1
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May 5 @ 6:49PM
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EF..... to your DAD......
and  to your blog......
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missliss78
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May 5 @ 7:33PM
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In the grand scheme of it all, this one is over my head! Thank goodness.
As for your father...I hope you had a nice visit with him today & that his diagnosis is promising. Special thoughts are with you in hopes that he has a speedy & successful recovery.
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LipGlossQueen9
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May 5 @ 8:42PM
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EF...I am so truly sorry to hear about your father and he will be in my prayers.
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wvbluebaby
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May 5 @ 9:52PM
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ef...i am so sorry to hear about your dad...i know it has to be a tough situation to handle, but you seem to be a strong person and i know you can do it...hugs to you and your daughter and prayers are on their way
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redtigr
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May 5 @ 10:24PM
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It's been a tough spell for you and your family.
I'm so sad to hear of your father. All my best wishes and thoughts go out to him - and to you, EF. I'm sorry I didn't know till tonight.
As for that other stuff... just sanctimonious self-righteous crap.
~*~
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Sweetheart83446
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May 6 @ 12:20AM
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Man, Ohh man, why do I keep picking the blogs that are sad and bad news?
You just can't catch a break can ya?
Sorry you are having a rough time and he is in my prayers.
Hugs
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mystery2u888
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May 6 @ 12:44AM
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Prayers for you and your family............ You have had quite the ......year........
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EternalFlame
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May 6 @ 8:14AM
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They moved my dad last night to a hospital in the Bay Area. It's another hour each way now to visit him Today they will just monitor him, so he's told me to just stay home.
Tomorrow they biopsy. 
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Blondino
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May 6 @ 10:16AM
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EF sorry to hear about your father ....
Its hard to see a loved one so ill .... Strength to you
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unionman154
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May 6 @ 10:30AM
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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. amen. paul
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beckyiv42000
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May 6 @ 11:03AM
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More prayers EF and many more huggs
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cancun1999
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May 6 @ 11:05AM
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bandtmom
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May 6 @ 5:49PM
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, prayers, and warm thoughts to you.
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mystery2u888
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May 6 @ 6:44PM
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Ohhh sweetie I will be thinking of you and your family..........prayers .....for all of you ....... xoxo........
xoxo
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SunBabe
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May 6 @ 6:57PM
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More and  ...just because.
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luvmeplz406
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May 6 @ 7:54PM
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I will pray that your father is ok EF. I have been where you are and it hurts alot. I hope you will keep us posted .
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mystery2u888
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May 6 @ 11:35PM
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xoxo
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sciurusniger
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May 6 @ 11:41PM
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A shorter drive means more time to spend with him.
You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
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grumblebear
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May 9 @ 12:58PM
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wishing you and yours the best... I'll be praying too...
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kattsmeow
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May 9 @ 1:20PM
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I was one of those that read and then came back. I need to do that some times so I can think.
You know you have our prayers from S. California ok?
Keep us posted.
~*~
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