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Double Dare Challenge: Day Seven

posted 5/20/2008 11:08:00 PM |
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  EmmeS61

What I am looking for...

[Read to the end... this just may be about something other than you think.]

The first thing I look for is humor. Yes there is a time to be serious. But laugher is the best medicine. Not laughing at something, but in the good fun in which it was intended.

I am looking for intelligence. I want to be made to think. I want my thoughts challenged with differing ideas. I want to express my opinion and hear others. I don't want limits on opinions, they grow and they change.

Do not make spot judgements. Look at the whole picture and not just the parts of it. The pieces make up the whole, they do not define on their own, but work in unison.

I am looking for sensitivity. Take my thoughts and feelings into consideration. Understand them for what they are and that they are important to me.

I want compassion. Compassion for me and my fellow man. Understand what is being said and try to empathize with differing feelings. You don't have to agree with them, just realize that feelings differ and take that into account.

I need sensitivity. Listen to what others have to say and see the feeling with which it is expressed.

Offer acceptance. There are faults everywhere. Those faults do not make or break a person. They are part of the total package and need to be seen, worked on and developed into something positive.

Give me courtesy and consideration. Expressing thoughts and opinions is sometimes a difficult thing. Take some time and look into them. Look into the reasoning behind them and try to understand the differences in us all.

A relationship is about enjoying each other. About taking all things into account. Accepting the good along with the bad. About learning and growing with and from each other.

And that is what I am looking for in a dating and friendship website. And that is what I am looking for in the people who choose to use it. A community that takes all of these things into consideration and gives the same back in turn.

[: ) -- Have A Nice Day

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Comments:
unionman154

May 20 @ 11:12PM  
You melted my heart with this post.

What a classy Lady.
SallyF

May 20 @ 11:46PM  
Emme...you are a good role model for all on your list!
Redwicket

May 20 @ 11:51PM  
You know...I was going to just not say anything and let things slide, but then I went to
another site and got thinking and Had to come back to comment.

I Am Truely Surprised at some people on here...and mind you some of them are people
that I Really like. But, don't you people Think that there has been Enough going
on in the Blogs to last a Lifetime...Just because You adjust to change quickly does Not
mean Everyone does...And, if you Would pull your noses out for a Minute, It Doesn't Make
You Better Than someone who might need to process change in an environment that they
have become accustomed to a Bit Differently.

I do believe that we all have a right to what we think, But Could we at least Learn a little bit
of something from what Has been going on the last few months and Be Kinder To Each Other?
Now, I've got that off my chest...I do hope that I don't lose friends for speaking my mind, but
if I do, at least I Stood Up For What I Know Is Right!

I made this comment on another blog...But, I think that You said what I Really was feeling.
I also Greatly Enjoyed a comment you made on another blog and thought that you did a Great job
explaining it all there too...Thank You Emme, I find that you Are Impressive

It's nice that Someone Else comes here for the same reasons I do. I don't want to leave MD
But it seems that the picking just goes on with Different Faces on it.

Kudos Sister





Tiramisu4u

May 21 @ 12:16AM  
Emme..I think you have expressed in 1 blog what I have been trying to say for a long time...ty, dear one!!!

Please continue on...for reasons of my own..I prob wont be in as much...
..But will peek in occasionally to when something trips my trigger...

Be safe and well...and hugs to you!
cartay25

May 21 @ 12:58AM  
Excellent Emme More people need to live by those thoughts.
GenuineHarleyGirl

May 21 @ 5:39AM  
Wonderful Emme..these should be the guidelines we all follow...if only..MD would be so much better for it..Thanks!!! ..
teddybearagain

May 21 @ 6:01AM  
Applause Applause Applause


Excellent !
hawkeye1954

May 21 @ 6:56AM  
I want compassion. Compassion for me and my fellow man. Understand what is being said and try to empathize with differing feelings. You don't have to agree with them, just realize that feelings differ and take that into account.

very nice blog,the best i've read in a long time
LaughTillYaPuke

May 21 @ 7:27AM  
Finally. I meet my soul mate. And of course....it's a woman.



fenderchick

May 21 @ 8:38AM  
Nice
georgew

May 23 @ 10:11AM  
What an excellent and well expressed blog sweetheart.
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