I'm so tired...my emotions exposed to the bone.
Bled dry of all feeling...turned inside out by guys that have nothing better to do then play their little games.
Is there any one real out here? Does any one really care that they can mutilate someone's heart by their actions? I guess not...it's just a game and a poorly played one at that.
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teddybearagain
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May 25 @ 9:22PM
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Scorp, I'm not sure what it is you're referencing here, but I hope your heart mends quickly.
Truth is men and women alike enjoy the head games, stalking out their next prey through words on the monitor like flies on honey. Sickening, ..
Sometimes your actions speak so LOUD I can hardly hear what you say
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burnslikethesun
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May 25 @ 9:36PM
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Here the secrete.
Its is all up for you to decide, then take the appropriate action.
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ANGRY_MUPPET
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May 25 @ 9:40PM
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there are many guys that are willing to "walk the walk".,.,but unfortunately for them and me..dont have the "gift of gab".,i came here looking for my car keys only.,and to just have fun meeting people.,very hard to trust anyone.,i have been here a long time now.,.,i know who is all BS and who is not.,mostly anyway  .,i have known you for a long time.,we have shared much.,.,be patient.,you are inteligent,pretty,honest and all the right stuff that a true gentleman would want in a mate.,you will know when the right one comes along.,someone just told me it is in the eyes that tells the truth of who they are.,.,that's a start anyway., .,
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ladybuy2008
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May 25 @ 9:45PM
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When you say enough, it's enough. Burns is correct - you get to decide. You do have a say in your life, so say what you want, say it loud and clear. If you want a good read, pick up "The Secret" and start attracting the things you want into your life. HUGS!
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dallas1995
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May 25 @ 9:52PM
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preparation meeting opportunity...awareness at its highest level...bar the doors...change your number...you cannot hide from love...take heart...I do 
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LaughTillYaPuke
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May 25 @ 10:06PM
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I hope your alright hun. I'm here if you need me.
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mag55
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May 25 @ 10:17PM
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Good men are out there, its just a matter of finding them.
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missliss78
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May 25 @ 10:26PM
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Is there any one real out here? 
That's an interesting question to ask yourself.
Life goes on.........
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TroutFishing
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May 25 @ 10:43PM
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Players! Everyone shouts as they point their finger at others.
Some will not even admit to themselves that they play with others.
sad.
very sad.
If you are attractive ... someone will try to use you.
Just one of the sad facts of life.
Be well. I wish you the best.
  
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bardnsage
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May 25 @ 10:48PM
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Playa's..When is enough...enough!
Depends,,,, normally enough is enough comes somewhere between,,,,,
"that was the best sex of my life" and "I've got to get up early for work". 
Not nice, but true,,,,,,
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DRACULA_VwV
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May 25 @ 11:17PM
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Is there any one real out here? Echoes through the vast universe of life. Is this all a game? I don't want to be a piece on this predetermined chess board of yours anymore god. And why is the white knight talking backwards? Has he been riding with the black knights too long? And the queen with all the riches, tempts the ponds like little bitches, And the king without a face, Disappears without a trace, His empty cold embrace, Kills the rose inside the vase, Without roots, It cannot live, Is this the love we're taught to give, I don't want to play this game, Because it always ends the same, Just another love lost nightmare, In a shattered picture frame.
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chatillion
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May 25 @ 11:18PM
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Scorp... I'm so sad to hear this from you.
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katydid438
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May 25 @ 11:49PM
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I know what you mean, sadly.Being a spare until the right one is caught is painful indeed and not forgiveable. It is a devastating blow to to your worth and self esteem.
Caring, intelligent and honourable people don't play games with the emotions of others.
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skylar4
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May 26 @ 12:25AM
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I'm sorry scorpio that this has happened & hurt you so badly.
and Drac...never thought I'd say this but that little poem was actually very good. One of the better things, I've seen you write 
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Jeffky49
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May 26 @ 12:32AM
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Scorp.......sorry to hear that you've been played. No, not everyone on here are players..........many are genuine in their search.........sometimes it takes time to know which ones they are. Don't give up.........you deserve better than that
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Super1000x
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May 26 @ 1:11AM
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Scorp..... There's really not enough information here for anyone with a whole lot of common sense to really form much of an opinion other than "She's hurting right now ." I do see a couple things however......
A) You are 42 and you know this has happened before and you've somehow made it through it and you will pick yourself up and go on again.
2) Apparently, even really hot women get their hearts wounded... (Notice I said wounded not broken).
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daisy315
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May 26 @ 3:19AM
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I guess they keep changing the rules of the game.. because I always lose too..
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odette555
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May 26 @ 8:27AM
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Being a spare until the right one is caught is painful indeed and not forgiveable. This is too often true... Im sorry you are hurting...
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pamdemonium
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May 26 @ 8:20PM
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(((((Hugs))))) I know. I really do. I'm sorry you're hurting. 
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MetryTechie
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May 27 @ 8:51PM
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Unfortunately, I can relate. I wish you the best.
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selectiveman
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May 28 @ 12:16AM
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Maybe it's your selection process that's flawed?
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scorpiogirl36
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May 31 @ 12:34AM
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Maybe it's your selection process that's flawed? Are you trying to say my "picker" is broken 
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unionman154
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May 31 @ 1:25AM
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Lucky is the man who wins your heart
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observed50
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May 31 @ 10:20AM
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Maybe our perception, and with it, our expectations, are the foundation of the problems of wounds and breaks to heart strings??
We can be played, because we so badly desire to be wanted, connected, to belong, and belong to. We look for a fit, a match, someone that fits a minimum of certain dimensions that make a relational life worth it. And if it starts to feel good, we start to invest time, effort and hope into wanting tomorrow to look like today. While looking at the other, we look through them to the horizon...
What if we were to relearn this process, and look at it not as something that MUST have continuity, MUST have tomorrow like today, but rather, lived in the reality that change, accident, random events and human frailty all contribute ever increasingly in a highly populated, highly connected world, to tomorrow looking different than today. That doesn't mean that tomorrow can't look like today, but it points instead to our knowing that the 'other', as a separate human being, will walk with us as long as they can...and then they won't. And funny thing is, the same holds true for ourselves.
We've been sooo trained to believe the other should take care of our hearts, to trust, to do all these things that take our eyes off seeing the world as it is...and looking and believing it will be as we want it. But it can't be as we want it...unless we want the world as it is. The gift of another's life, their spirit and voice, their story and song, are rare gifts. Wouldn't it make sense for us to learn to drink deeply of each other's gifts, and gift of them deeply, without measure, and fully prepared for tomorrow not looking like today?
Are the issues around playahs more about them, or more about ourselves, because we are so disconnected from the reality of frail human beings who simply have a hard time living up to who and what they say they want to do and be? Haven't we all wrestled with our own efforts to live up to something and fallen short of it?
I never ever thought I'd be divorced. Made no sense to me. Yet, it was I who left, and not because she was some awful person, or she did some awful thing. I left because I wanted to sprint, and she wanted to stroll. The life tension was suffocating me.
That's who we are...people who are different, people who can go this mile...but not the next. Aren't changes easier to wrestle with if when we look at each other, and acknowledging the frailty, we check in to see how things are? We don't fear one another then...we know one another. My desire is for the best for you...not the best for me at the cost of the best for you.
Scorp> pain is the mind's urging that you let go previous expectations and understandings so you can see and engage the universe more for what it is, instead of what you expected it should be...it is the shattering of the shell encasing your understanding (Gibran). Revel in it. Listen to it for what it is which is simply a deep request that the perceiver look again, without bias, and see the world for what is...not what it is desired to be...
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Loreli
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May 31 @ 10:37AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that.
Just keep telling yourself that he is NOT worthy of YOU.
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Guerrero
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Jun 20 @ 10:41PM
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To be the man... WOOOOO!!! You gotta beat the man!!
If all else fails, keep your head up.
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