My Black & White World
I had no idea that my world was black and white, not really, until someone pointed it out to me one day.
Being black and white doesn’t mean that there’s no fun, it doesn’t mean that there is no colour in it, neither does it mean that I can’t be creative because I am a creative person.
Being black and white means that I take things literally, as they are said, in a black and in white, which can be extremely funny sometimes, though it does have other implications, it makes me appear to be cold and uncaring at times.
My father was very black and white too, it took me years to learn that.
People thought that he was cold, unfriendly, abrupt, but it just doesn’t work that way, not in a black and white world, not for us anyway.
I love my black and white world, with the psychedelic colours, where things are less black and white than other people, who are not black and white, can even begin to imagine.
So that’s a little insight into my black and white world.
Where is this blog going?
It has absolutely nothing to do with my black and white world really.
It has something to do with me…there are a lot of single parents on this site and everywhere in the world…I am one of those.
What’s different for me though and for a lot of others, is the fact that there is no other parent anymore and some days…I think…and it’s probably one of the only things that brings tears to my eyes these days…I wish he was here…so much…for sharing things…there will never be anyone to take that place… that place is gone…it was taken…can never be filled…just something I think about sometimes...
Thank you for reading my blog 
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Tunes4u
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Jun 4 @ 4:19PM
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jerzygrl328
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Jun 4 @ 4:32PM
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I know exactly what you mean, it's one thing in my life I would change if I could......
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mystery2u888
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Jun 4 @ 4:40PM
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little mischief aka misschoos......I know exactly what your talking about........as I know many can relate to this............... somewhere he is looking down at you and smiling.........as bright as can be.....a shining star ..........he is watching 
XOXOO
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beckyiv42000
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Jun 4 @ 4:45PM
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Black and white is wonderful.. no confusion... it makes life simple ... less stress trying figure out the grayness  and then the COLOURS can be EVER so much more beautiful when they appear
being the ONLY parent around is hard.. there is NO ONE to take up the slack and also NO ONE to share the joys  <(*v*)>
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LaughTillYaPuke
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Jun 4 @ 5:05PM
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I am one of the blessed, my daughter has a good daddy. And it is such a loss to you and yours to not have that!
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EternalFlame
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Jun 4 @ 5:25PM
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ttomtarr
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Jun 4 @ 5:43PM
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Your Dad is not gone, just moved.
Listen to your own words to hear him speak. Watch yourself guide your children, and you will hear his ideas again. Look around and you will find a lot of black and white people, descendents of the same.
I bet I could even tell you some of his favorite sayings.
His spirit still move, but it lives now behind different faces, ones that he changed by his thoughts.
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TroutFishing
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Jun 4 @ 6:36PM
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No one can take the place of anyone we lose.
We are all different.
We can appreciate that we knew them, we can celebrate
their life on occasion, and we can move on and have other
relationships with our friends and relatives.
Always think in positive terms. It is productive and aids
our outlook in life.
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BionicCouple
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Jun 4 @ 6:37PM
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baldy855
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Jun 4 @ 7:33PM
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me too
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oceanlover734
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Jun 4 @ 8:23PM
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fenderchick
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Jun 4 @ 9:12PM
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I know he has passed on but he is still there in spirit I'm sure...I never knew my father and my daughter will never know her father except in passing, it's a shame sometimes...Enough fathers don't realize they play as big of a role as mothers.
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prettyprncess560
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Jun 5 @ 9:55AM
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wandaful123
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Jun 5 @ 10:37AM
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I too love black and white... it really is that simple ya know?
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bardnsage
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Jun 5 @ 10:47PM
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When someone is feeling introspective about the loss of a spouse or parent, I never know what to say. One minute they are awash in the sorrow, and the next they are flying while reliving a memory, only to splash back down in the sorrow pool. I think this is the natural course of things.... so...
"Be Well. May you find the place you are searching for,,,,"
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