Maybe it's the submissive in me. Maybe I have some kind of repressed memories from childhood. I have no idea why, but I love the sickest characters in movies.
Don't get me wrong...I love the sweetiepies too...Jude in Across the Universe...oh I would marry that character on the spot if he were a real person. However, I would kick him to the curb in a second for Alexander Delarge from A Clockwork Orange.
Alex Delarge
Hannibal Lecter
Roy Batty (Rutger Hauer's character in Blade Runner)
E. Edward Grey (James Spader in Secretary)
These characters drive me nuts. Oh my God. The scene in Silence of the Lambs where Hannibal hands Clarice back her case file and strokes her finger with his...Edward Grey bending Lee over his desk when she makes a typo...even Alex raping a woman while singing "Singing in the Rain"...all massive turnons.
Don't get me wrong...I don't like the violent aspects of Alex, Hannibal, or Roy (although I don't consider Edward Grey violent as much as a sadist, which are very different things to me, so his "violent" tendencies don't bother me), but their absolutely insane passionate dominance...yum.
I don't think I'll ever understand why...and I don't think I would ever be interested in a real person that was insane like the first 3 on my list (again, Grey doesn't really fit with them, so I think I would totally go for that in real life), but in movies...forget the nice guys.
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observed50
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Jun 8 @ 5:44PM
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Might I suggest the following...to want to be dominated, and turned on it by it, while recognizing this submissive side...is that something 'wrong' or just different that what other's might wish you to feel and think?
Is it even a problem, if you aren't in horrible pain from it, life threatened, or the fillet that Hector is serving for dinner tonight? If you find the right guy to bend you over the dining room table because you made runny mash potatoes, hike up yer skirt and discipline you...if you love it...what's a little little corporal punishment amongst consenting adults? Shoot...if he did it with guests, and you were totally embarrassed but could hardly breathe because you were so turned on...if it was what you wanted...how would 'wrong' apply?
But if you find yourself chasing Hector or whoever around, and constantly finding yourself experiencing unwanted pain when all you were looking for is love...then maybe one could argue that what you feel is problematic...but still not wrong. What would it mean to label what one feels and thinks as wrong? It makes no sense. But...it might easily lead us to do things not effective for acquiring or achieving what one wants in life.
I always loved bending my dates over the dining room table, but my dad was always smacking me upside the head for getting her hair in the food, so I quit doin it. I didn't mind the hair in the food...so to speak...it was the ringing in my ears that made it hard to hear the music at dinner after his smacking! 
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edthepoet
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Jun 8 @ 6:57PM
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There is nothing wrong with you, many people have thoughts such as yours.
It's only when they go from thoughts to reality will they cause you havoc.
My guess is simple, your nature is to be a submissive, which again isn't unusual.
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Angel1964
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Jun 8 @ 7:42PM
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It’s the bad boy thing…just to an extreme.
There is something about the cool guy… however we fantasize that they would treat us different.. They don’t. That he will be good to us…. Again they don’t!
There’s a story, a woman finds an injured rattle snake. She takes him in and heals his wounds and cares for him, shows him love and affection… She thinks he cares for her too.. Then when he is all better, he wants to go… When she tries to make him stay he bites her… She said, how can you do this, I’ve cared for you, took care of your wounds and nursed you back to health. I showed you affection.. Why would you do this to me? The snake said, I thank you for all you’ve done… You were very sweet and kind, but you did know I was a snake after all… and with that he left.
Moral to the story is. You can’t change anyone. No matter how good you are or what you do.. They are who they are and only they can change themselves and only if they really want to….
Just remember to keep it your fantasy and not make it your reality.. 
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hereshannon
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Jun 8 @ 8:15PM
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I think we all go through a phase in our younger lives where we seem to be more attracted to the radical than the status quo. I know I certainly did. I think my friends and I went to see Dawn Of The Dead (a movie with absolutely no redeaming values) about seven times! It's nothing to worry about, just enjoy your younger years, believe me they go by fast. 
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Ginstl
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Jun 9 @ 11:13AM
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There is nothing wrong with you. You are just fantasizing about natural, base, instinctual emotions in regard to sex as it would be in the natural world if we as humans were not civilized.
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nnyrocksmysocks
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Jun 9 @ 9:59PM
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It’s the bad boy thing…just to an extreme.
There is something about the cool guy… however we fantasize that they would treat us different.. They don’t. That he will be good to us…. Again they don’t!
Actually that isn't at all. I haven't the slightest "bad boy" complex...lol...I've had two Masters in the past and play was always play, and real life was real life. In play, they were dominant and I was submissive, but in real life they were nothing but kind, gentle, completely respectful men. I don't want someone who will treat me like crap...just someone who will dominate me sometimes.
Moral to the story is. You can’t change anyone. No matter how good you are or what you do.. They are who they are and only they can change themselves and only if they really want to….
Just remember to keep it your fantasy and not make it your reality.. I don't want to change anyone. I don't date "bad boys" and I never will. There is a difference between dominant men and assholes. And I have been in relationships already with men like E. Edward Grey, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that. To each their own...right?
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