I Just Stopped posted 6/13/2008 10:36:50 PM | 7 kudos what's this?     report abuse

Injuneer

It was really no big deal. It took practically no effort at all and in fact that was the one part that was easy. I just stopped. I stopped trying to be what everyone expected me to be and what they wanted me to be. I stripped off all the plastic outerwear; the phony perpetual smile, the stylish suits, the $400 custom shoes. All of it, gone. And now, I am my old self again. When I smile, it’s the genuine article and while I don’t dress like s slob, I also don’t adorn myself like a Christmas tree. I’m just me.

Of course, there is always a sacrifice anytime we make major changes in our lives. I find that I’m no longer surrounded by others that are adorned in their plastic garb, attempting to convince the world around them that they are cool, hip, and a real trend setter. I no longer get those phone calls that contain so many phrases of “like” and “totally” and so many empty words. And best of all, the expectations that people have on me have dropped off significantly; so much in fact that what is reasonable effort for anything is seen as a serious accomplishment. Imagine, success without artificial effort. Just the real thing; genuine and sincere … and best of all, their appreciation is equally genuine.

There have been a few less than happy results. I also no longer find myself surrounded by so many plastic women, willing to do anything to get my attention, perform any outrageous act just to earn my approval. Now, there are very few men or women around … which is one thing that I miss.

For awhile I spent great amounts of time and energy searching for more like me. They are indeed out there, but are more and more difficult to find. Most keep well hidden and a few have taken the time to step out and teach me the art and benefit of staying hidden; watching the others race by in their perpetual rat race, trying every so hard to be what they are not, and convince others that they are.

Sooner or later you’ll arrive here … if you are lucky. I won’t promise you limitless entertainment, in fact it can get quite lonesome. But being able to finally feel the sun on your face and hear a song bird play an enchanting song that you have time to hear are quite priceless. I only wonder why I waited so long.

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