So in the last post I said there were two unpleasant things I have to deal with the first being off hormones and the second I intentionally did not mention but will today.
Later today I get to do the big purge. See I will be lieing in bed for about five days and the doctors dont want me to have to go to the bathroom in that time frame so I get the pleasure of drinking this wonderful stuff that will clean me out COMPLETELY.
This will probably be my last post for perhaps six or seven days. I will simply be lieing in bed in my own world but I promise I will have a smile on my face that wont go away!!!!
Part 2.
I was watch television last nite and many of you know tv is not a thing I do often but in any case we have a few english channels here and one is HBO. To my huge surprise there was a true story on HBO about a teenager who WAS transgendered. Note I said was because some people decided to kill her because she was different or something like that. I ended up crying my ass of watching this because I had it soo easy in my transition and I forget how some have a terrible time. It is really sad that there are people in society that would kill a person because of this but I have to remind myself what has happend in past history with black and jews for a start.
I cant say I have had any notable resistance from society but needless to say I doubt it would matter because I really dont give a f*** what people think. Well I do but if they dont like be for something I have no control over then read the previous sentence.
Perhaps I can offer some advice for you the reader. First of all there are a lot of Transsexual people out there. Some are quite easy to spot and others you would never guess. The fact is that they are people like anyone else. They had a birth defect and they did whatever it takes to fix it. Some dont have surgery but regardless they are still the person they portray to the world. What makes you boy or girl is what is in your heart and mind!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Perhaps if you want to help people like me the best thing you could do is tell people you know about how ya got to know this girl on matchdoctor. You might even start by telling your friends you were skeptical at the beginning thinking she is a messed up DUDE. But I suspect that as time went by you realized that I am quite sane and very happy. The best I can hope for is that you the reader realized that in the end I am no different than any other girl!
Little side bar here. If you ever encounter an trans person the best advice I have for you is to just treat them as any other person. Dont say shit like life must be hard and all that because it does nothing. The only thing you can do for her or him that is positive is to treat that person like anyone else!!!! I repeat dont say anything about the gender shit!!! Normal person remember!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SEE you on the other side!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Hugs and kisses to the guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!
KATIE
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mystery2u888

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Jun 18 @ 1:34AM
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Yep, Katie..........I know that movie you are speaking of it is very sad........really really sad .. I agree.........people are people .........treat them all the same, get to know someone, take the time to do things and lend an ear or hand................I see no color, I see no size, shape or form......gender is not a problem...........just being supportive as any friend should be..........
Well............I will be thinking of you.......and I know you will be smiling......
Can't wait to hear from you next week........if you are up for it.....
Happy Birthday to a new Katie........
xoxo
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sciurusniger

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Jun 18 @ 9:25AM
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Good luck, Katie. We'll be holding good thoughts it all goes easily for you.
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EternalFlame

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Jun 18 @ 9:30AM
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When I lived in Michigan, one of my bosses was transgendered. She was an amazing woman and I always felt so bad for her when people would refer to her as 'him' or stare or make nasty comments.
See you in a week, lady!
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Tiramisu4u

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Jun 18 @ 9:35AM
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Gentle Hugs and warm wishes for your upcoming *Birthday, Katie!!!
Please rest and do what doc says...we who care about you will be here to celebrate when you are able....
Damn...I am so thrilled for you, sweetie....
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teacuppoms

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Jun 18 @ 11:09AM
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SOOO tomorrow is the big day i pray u will comeout just as u want im sure the Lord is looking after u will want to hear how everything went as soon as u possible can good luck
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Cynbaby

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Jun 18 @ 11:15AM
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Hope all goes well, please get your rest
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missliss78

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Jun 18 @ 11:30AM
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You might even start by telling your friends you were skeptical at the beginning thinking she is a messed up DUDE. Ya know, Katie...I NEVER thought of you in that way!
Continued best wishes for you
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fenderchick

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Jun 18 @ 1:34PM
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I for one can say you have changed my mind...
You are brave and strong and in full posession of your faculties...I wish you the best of luck and hope that everything turns out great for you Kate.
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redbronze

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Jun 19 @ 3:10AM
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By now you have gotten your surgery congrats, today I had girls day with my daughter... Thinking of you.... Hugs sister....
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misschoos

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Jun 19 @ 4:59AM
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I've never understood what sexuality has to do with anything unless the subject is being discussed.
I never understand people who raise reference to a person's sexuality at any other time.
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conbulger

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Jun 20 @ 2:07PM
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My name is Constance, the Ex-Wife of Michael Jay Bulger a filipino chaser on the web, 63 years old, almost bald, bad dentures...just Google his name...or mikejb5293, mikee5293, mike5293. I'm writing to you because I'm a victim also.
Although my divorce to Michael wasn't final until last November 9, 2007, I have known for a long time about some of his girlfriends. Mail from them would come to the house and I would read them, trying to figure out what he was up too. Once I found out what he was doing, I moved out and we were separated. Then he lied his way back into my life for another year and a half, leaving a woman behind in Panama with dozens of unpaid bills until I said "NO MORE!" What could I do with an useless, lazy, IMPOTENT man????? I kicked him out and we divorced. So, I will try to explain the "real" truth about Michael.
As far as the Lincoln Car he talks about? I acquired a loan in my name for that car for him, but he had to make the payments. He kept the payments up until he left the US and then he told Chris that he could have the car. Chris had no idea that I owned that car and still do! Mike will never see that car again. He has no legal rights to it and I have made legal arrangements to keep his hands off the car.
He is a low down scoundrel who preys on women. He likes to control everything in his life including women. He is mean, disgusting, arrogant, lupus sle, a combover, really bad dentures, a lying bastard and is not going to change. He is a mentally, sick user and has practiced his act and lies for many years.
Carmen a Mexican left him for all the reasons above and many more. Michael was doing his internet dating thing even while he was married to Carmen. He controlled her life and all her money for 22 years while they were married, she had a few clothes only while he was spending tons of money meeting women abroad or paid dating sites!!!! She waited for her last son, Sean P.Bulger now 793 Twin Accorn Drive in Blacklick, (his obese wife is expecting, he has two lovers in Columbus) to turn 18yrs old and then she left him. He tried to sue her in court, but could never get a lot of money from her. He tried to make it out like it was all her fault. Carmen, who married him to get an american visa since she was broke in Mexico, run off with a black man called Howard T.Scott from Lewis Center, a nice and reliable man. Since Michael is so prejudges against blacks, he still tried to make her life a living hell by writing letters to her boss, the head of a bank and tried to get her fired.
Now about me and his family. His sons are nothing like he says. We have come together to bond as a family to make sure Michael's lies and scams are stopped.
We have notified the U.S. Immigration, FBI, Texas Rangers, my local Police Department (my youngest son is a policeman), Homeland Security, Border Patrol, Dept. of Defense, and anyone else that can be of legal assistance to us. He is no longer welcome in the United States or his hometown. If he tries to come home, each one of these authorities will be notified and he will be taken into custody for fraud and deceit. As far as I know, he has not given up his U.S. Citizenship.
So when his luck runs out in the Phillipines and he wants to run back here, he will be met with a lot of problems. Brigitte Lombardo from 8301 Romantic Sunset Street Las Vegas, wants some answers too. He has no family support here and never will again.
Now about me. When I married Michael in 2004, I had no idea he was the way he is. I tried to hold the marriage together, but he was just looking for another woman to take care of him. Michael was about to get fired from DFAS when he put in his retirement papers and he left the Federal Government as quickly as he could before they found out what he was doing.
All the complaints that I'm a bitch, he hated me, etc. He never had to stay with me if he didn't want to. He was always free to go whenever he wanted to, but, you see, he was always broke. Because of his quick retirement, he doesn't get that much of a pension. I have always taken care of myself, personally, and financially. I've always made and had my own money and he didn't like that, so he started telling lies to get my money, which never happened.
All the blogs on the panama and phillipine sites identify me as a withered, dried up old lady, but just for the record,I am a Fitness Tech and a well known women's fitness center and have always taken care of myself. Even though Michael didn't love me, he was so jealous of other men looking at me - and I was healthy and he was not. Yes, I'm sticking up for myself, because what has been said on the blogs is not true. In fact, it is the farthest from the truth. Those are the lies that he has told everyone, including you and your wife.
I hope this clears up a few things. I'm sorry you ever met Michael Jay Bulger and his sons are devastated that this is the man that calls himself their father. Mike II from 4210 combine place, brighton is hiding his two lovers from his wife, you know the reason. Like father...like son!!! They have disowned him and he continues to try to discredit their family and their lives as well as mine. When michael jay bulger get more money from one silly filipina, they will accept him again...runs in the family
he will never touch my money again!!!
I wish you the best May God be with you.Stay away from this man and you will be fine.,
connie Have a Blessed Day
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