Yes today is the day folks… I find myself writing this because I am so appalled at people who profess to be “ Grown Ups” I try and keep my profile updated, and in the body of it the first few words are *** Very Much Taken*** and it goes on to say pretty much that I use this site for the chatroom. I am a former refugee from another site and came here to use it to keep in touch with people I have come to know and also have a little fun to break up the monotony that life tends to have. I am constantly getting emails from men who apparently say “ I like your profile would like to get to know you better” and when you write them back and tell them thank you for the email and inform them you are currently taken and good luck on their search they keep on and on, and then come back with Nasty Emails. Now I for one know Rejection is some times a bitter pill to swallow but come on, is it necessary to call people names, tell them your ugly, or dress like a hooker, oh and the favorite one is, Your To Old any way. First off I wasn’t all that when you first sent the email and seriously what do you get out of it, does it make you feel better about yourself? Do you look in the mirror and wonder if your behavior is another issue as to why you are single?
Personally it is not my fault you don’t want to take the time to read.
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buatbu
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Jun 25 @ 12:20PM
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Please you love it. Look at your name jus2sxy. Look at your pictures. Please, don't insult our intelligence.
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imlost2
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Jun 25 @ 12:24PM
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Hey Jus, good to see ya, I get that too, cuz I'm wanting to be friends first on here and not hand out my yahoo addy or any other addy first. There's alot of flakes on this site and I'd just prefer to get to know ppl here first. They get offended and don't even bother to read your profile and see what you have to say. Tells me they are kinda narrowminded. Most don't even have pictures their own selves but make a big deal about yours and their profile is usually boring with a dull life. I wouldn't worry about em. But glad you pointed it out in a blog, maybe people with think before commenting, you make a very good point here. 
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Jus2sxy1
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Jun 25 @ 12:26PM
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I dont have to insult your " intellegence" you can do a find job all on your own.
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DeeLaMarie
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Jun 25 @ 12:30PM
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You go girl!!!!!!!! I used to respond to all e-mails thinking that if they took the time to write I should take the time to respond. Not any longer. If their message begins with how much he adores me and knows that we are made for each other and blah, blah, blah, than always, always ends with a yahoo e-mail adrress, I just block them. Done deal. Its not that we're cruel guys, we just don't have the time for raising anymore kiddies. 
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PsychoMagnet
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Jun 25 @ 12:37PM
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Always good to see another villain on the site. Hang in there sister!
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marylou
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Jun 25 @ 1:03PM
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Dont take it to heart........there are many people who are like that on here..... Just tell them to take a hike.......... 
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classic57
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Jun 25 @ 1:09PM
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girl friend I know just what you mean!!!!
most the time the ones that bash you dont have the balls to show thier faces only thier asses.....
I figure they must have really sad lives to go around trying to make others feel as bad as they do .... how sad......
I know they"match docotor"have the power to perm block these nasty poeple
so why are they still here??????
there really are alot of good people here... and only a few that are nasty.....so again why are they able to keep coming back.....I recently had a woman that was 51 that felt the need to call me names along with the nasty man... I would think at some age people would grow up and stop all the name calling.... if you dont like what a person is wearing DONT LOOK! no one here is made to look at any one...and if you can say something nice then keep it to yourself
when I confrounted this woman she acted like she done nothing wrong and that I was a mental case .... all I asked was"I would like to meet you in person and you say that to my face."... seems to me if you can say it here you shouldnt have any problem saying it my face.....I would have been very happy to meet her face to face .... but lol she took it as a threat... I wasnt threating her in any way... just wanted to see if she could do the same thing in person as she does on line.... she cryed to MD
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vindybella
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Jun 25 @ 2:06PM
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Takes popcorn to corner and watches jussy go gettem!...hahahha..
oh hell jus..just invite them all to the wedding..we will toss them off of the top of Bodega Head! weeeeeeeeee...they can flyyyyyyyyyyyyy! 
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Cynbaby
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Jun 25 @ 2:12PM
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I second that one..people who always bash your blog/forum never provide a pic.
People can't handle rejection to begin with, 100x worst on the net
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ForumMod
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Jun 25 @ 3:11PM
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use the block button any time you are uncomfortable with an email. there's no need to get into an email exchange with anyone unless that's your choice.
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Hansumm
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Jun 25 @ 3:28PM
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just trying to be helpful....
If you are sincere in involvement with the guy you are dating, then I would suggest you might want to change your profile. I am not sure the picture of you on your bed in a teddy would be a big hit with your boyfriend. i know I would NOT want my girlfriend posting pics like that if I were serious dating. It sort of sends the wrong message. Just trying to offer helpful advice.
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Snappygoddess
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Jun 25 @ 3:49PM
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Please you love it. Look at your name jus2sxy. Look at your pictures. Please, don't insult our intelligence.
Not just women who according to you "ask for it" are fortunate enough to be sexy or beautiful.....I get those same sort of emails all the time...by men who NEVER read profiles... they obviously copy and paste to every woman on the site hoping they will just maybe get lucky! Most of them have nothing to do with looks. 
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Jus2sxy1
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Jun 25 @ 4:14PM
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Well
If you are sincere in involvement with the guy you are dating, then I would suggest you might want to change your profile. I am not sure the picture of you on your bed in a teddy would be a big hit with your boyfriend. i know I would NOT want my girlfriend posting pics like that if I were serious dating. It sort of sends the wrong message. Just trying to offer helpful advice
Change the profile? So are you saying woman should all dress as Nun's and maybe people really would take the time to read a profile first?
My other half loves the way I dress, but then again he is not the type to be insecure
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GoBlue424
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Jun 25 @ 4:29PM
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^5 Jusy
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Ginstl
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Jun 25 @ 4:41PM
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I think the kind of men you are describing need to run to the nearest life and get it, and quit thinking with the wrong head all the time. = Losers! 
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Super1000x
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Jun 25 @ 6:22PM
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I can definitely appreciate your problem and I really believe you when you complain about all these stupid men paying you so much attention.  Being a man myself I can tell you just how stupid we can be and how easily we're confused....... - So, in an effort to help you keep from being bothered by all these jerks and A -holes who find you sexy somehow, how about we try this........ Let's take off all the pictures of you with your boobies hanging out and post a pic of a flower or a tree or even a shot of you and the person you are in a relationship with. Even if you must post a shot of yourself I'm sure that you have pictures of you with the implants covered up. I'm thinking that this would greatly cut down on all the male attention that you so desperately um.... don't want.... 
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ragtopcookie
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Jun 26 @ 12:33PM
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Thought i had seen it all on here....but here it is again.....i think this is like the second or third blog about somebody getting so upset about all the male attention they are getting...and then defending their pictures they post....and then.....they have this or that right.......unbelieveable .....is all im saying.....cookie
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pegpeg
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Jun 26 @ 9:16PM
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Hey jussy, I get the same crap in emails too. As you know I too am in a relationship, all the info is there. I even thought that the bogus profile would scare them off, WRONG! When I get them i dont even bother opening them anymore. I only open emails from people i know because I already know what the others say. "i like your profile, you look sweet or nice or sexy" call me or write at blah blah blah ..Oh those legs! ugggggg..I am proud to look like i do after the lifelong physicall problems I have endured and am EXTREMELY proud to have the pics on here i do. i dont even bother anymore, let alone go into chat because its the same chyt everyday. (( And i do miss ya all  ) while i do agree with you that it gets VERY annoying that they dont read, you do get a few that actually do read, undersand that your in a relationship and ((cough cough)) are just looking for a freind. I used to let it get to me, but I dont any longer.
hugsssss pegpeg
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Jus2sxy1
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Jun 26 @ 11:14PM
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I find it amazing these comments that have been posted to this blog.
Men seem to think you are complaining about Pictures and the rude comments.
this blog is about when a woman says NO THANK YOU.. men assume they have the right to call you all kinds of nasty names....
Reading Comprehension 101 people....
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madamegeek
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Jun 27 @ 9:56AM
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In such heated situations, Shakespeare offers illumination:
"Methinks the lady doth pro-chest too much". 
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1cowboy1960
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Jun 27 @ 5:22PM
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Good one MadameGeek - you are right - she is proCHESTING.
What is this about.. that I was a mental case .... all I asked was"I would like to meet you in person and you say that to my face."..
We got some real winners on here. 
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