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posted 6/29/2008 11:36:23 PM |
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  mopar1999

It seems as though once again, I have been stumped by the oposite sex.
Most ladies I have encountered, who where single, and looking to be in a relationship, have always told me, they wish they could find a nice guy. But do they really? Are they really looking for "Prince charming?" If there really is such a man in this day and age, would he be good enough? or would he be "too good?" I dont believe that woman are looking for a guy that is a "nice guy," because the nice guy always seems to be the one type of guy who really gets the emotional pulp beat out of him in a relationship. I have actually heard woman say, "he was too nice" or "he would always let me walk all over him." Huhhhh? What? Wait! What the hell does that mean? If you are looking for a "nice guy," and get one, why would you abuse that, and dump on him in the first place? If you dump on him, and he told you to go outside, and play a game of hide and go you know what yourself, I guess that would make him not such a nice guy, for standing up for himself. See ladies, men dont have that mentality. If a man was asked what it was he was looking for in a woman, or a relationship, for the most part, he would probably answer it honestly. Here it is from a man.
What is it I'm looking for in a relationship? I dont really know, but I do know what I'm NOT looking for. I'm not looking for a woman thats looking for a nice guy, if she just plans on abusing me, and dumping on me.

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Comments:
missliss78

Jun 29 @ 11:41PM  


Better luck next time, mopar!
mopar1999

Jun 29 @ 11:44PM  
Thanks, but its just an observation.
drunkmonkeysmom

Jun 30 @ 7:29AM  
A very good observation. As a woman, it makes me upset when another woman "dumps" on the nice guy. Please pardon the pun, but it's like the abused animal syndrome. If the nice guy gets dumped on and treated like crap too many times, they're not the nice guy anymore. In essence, they ruin it for those of us who treat men the right way, with honesty and mutual respect.
john49887

Jun 30 @ 11:14AM  
If the nice guy gets dumped on and treated like crap too many times, they're not the nice guy anymore.

Well.....maybe not as nice as he used to be.
RedHotCajunSpice

Jul 20 @ 10:04AM  
Hmmm not everyone that is looking for a nice guy will treat you that way. Don't let the actions of a few spoil it for the rest of us looking for a nice guy to share a relationship with. You deserve respect not abuse. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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