Sorry for talkin bout a tender subject material, but I felt like I had to speaj.
Most fellers donna understand rape. They think "Well shoot, women have sex alla the time, it ain't that big a deal"
They recognizate that it is offensive, but them it is ona par with spittin on somebody, er given somebody a poke in the eye. It ain't, and I am gonna try ta explain why.
First off, sex ain't the same fer a man as a woman. A woman is in love she has sex, she has sex she falls in love. A whole bunch a ignorant men just think "hey this feels good" and gots no more regard for the woman than what a bather got fer a jucuzzi. To them it's just a vehicle ta pleasure yerself with.
Rape ain't bout the rape. It ain't about the physical part. It's bout the mentality part.
Fer example. A great illustrational was in the move "Crimes a Passion" with Kathleen Turner. She played a hooker. One time she come home and an assailant out a the shadows, wrestled her onto the couch, tore away her panies and started raping her. She was terrified and struggled. Then she got a peak at her attacker. It was just a regular customer who liked ta play rape. She rolls her eyes, breathes a sigh a relief and lets him finish.
Here's what is important about that scene!!! Physically, it was the very same. He was still in her the very same way, just that for her, metally it was different.
Rape is a mentality assualt more than a physical one. It is turnin what is spossed ta be a loving thing into a mean hateful thing. Having forced sex with a woman, then hittin her in the mouth when you are done messes her fer a long time ta come.
Most women get raped never recover in full. They is skeered ta to the laudry mat er the movie theatre. They relive the horrible incidental fer years ta come.
A rapist is a shameful pig that outter be castrated when he is caught.
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jentoblues101
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Jul 4 @ 10:18AM
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Will you marry me?
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dixiepixie
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Jul 4 @ 10:23AM
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 .. For now that's all I can say. Just ..
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lazareth
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Jul 4 @ 10:29AM
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until you have been assaulted.... at any age... you can not understand what it does to you mentally
Been there
Thanks Jaybird
kudos
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meanjolene
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Jul 4 @ 10:30AM
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You are right on the money. Rape is not a crime having anything to do with passion. It's about power and control.
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fenderchick
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Jul 4 @ 10:55AM
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I'm with you 100% on the castration part 
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EternalFlame
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Jul 4 @ 10:55AM
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 ...for getting it
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LaughTillYaPuke
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Jul 4 @ 12:23PM
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I gave you a kudo earlier. And I do read your coments on women every day in the forums. It does my heart good to see a man who not only loves women, but understands his role as a protector.
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kattsmeow
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Jul 4 @ 1:21PM
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~*~ 
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Elbereth529
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Jul 4 @ 1:32PM
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Thank you for understanding. 
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MrPaul
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Jul 4 @ 2:42PM
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Cut it off and hangem high 
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Knitengale99
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Jul 4 @ 3:50PM
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What remarkable insight.
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KnittinKitten
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Jul 4 @ 10:14PM
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Jaybird...I agree with LaughTil....I'm so happy to read the words of a man who really understands what it's all about...I appreciate your caring enough about women enough to not only realize, but to express it so well, for all others to see.
Thanks,
KK 
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sweetxy
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Jul 6 @ 11:46AM
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I have a question
What really causing The rape!
Anyway I like to give you a kudo for understanding women about love and sex
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