Let me start this off by saying this is my first attempt at a blog here. I am trying to adhere to the rules.
I have had a profile on MD just over 2 years now. In that time I have gotten my fair share of email from scammers, spammers , people who have not taken the time to READ my profile, etc. I have also gone out with a few people from here.
I have also had the chance to peruse profiles of people I thought too fat, too skinny, too ugly, too... just not my type. I bypassed their profiles. They none the wiser. Being the ADULT that I am, I did not feel it necessary to critique them and explain why I was not attracted to them or why of the thousands of profiles on here, why I did not contact them.
Yesterday I was informed that I should take any offer that I got. When I asked what exactly that was supposed to mean, he sent me a repeat email of the same ilk. Why would someone be so vile, mean and just plain hurtful to a complete stranger? To reach out with the express purpose of being hurtful?
So Ken from NC ( not his screenname so do not get on to me for this) , if you do not like what you see, move along. There's nothing to see here.
There are so many people out there that suffer from low self esteem and depression. What if that unsolicited email caused someone to take their own life? Could you live with yourself?
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cowboy2x4
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Jul 10 @ 5:42AM
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Judging people by the first impression can be a terrible injustice to yourself! tp777
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silksox
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Jul 10 @ 9:55AM
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 Hey Sherry...
For every sorta guy who thinks you don't trip his trigger...there are 10 that DO...I'd say that a man who tells YOU to settle..Has a case of self-confidence in Reverse. He's been doing a LOT of settling...hehehe And just like any negative attribute in one's character... meanness is just one of them.
My advice and you didn't ask for it..but I'm that kinda girl: Change your perspective to believe that there ARE 10-1 men that DO think you are the cream on their jello. And shed these other few... like a snake sheds skin.
Note: This cruel little scenario happens to me about every other time I firmly reject a fella..All of the sudden instead of a being a goddess, I become the third gunman on the grassy knoll..
Blessings upon you!
Sox 
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KnittinKitten
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Jul 10 @ 10:01AM
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Welcome to Blogland......Sherry, I'm afraid many of us go through that with the online dating process. I have found that it's not worth my effort to ask, "Why" anymore. I just accept that it IS! Doesn't mean I like it, but, after I report and block, there's really not much I can do, so I direct my attentions elsewhere.
Don't let it get you down....there are no physical and mental exams before being accepted on a singles dating site. I'm afraid we're on our own. You will adjust, enough so that you will not allow this kind of stuff to upset you...annoy you, maybe, but not upset you.
I will be on vacation for 3 weeks, but when I return, I hope I see a number of Blogs coming from you and I look forward to reading them. Chin up!
Fondly.
Knittin Kitten
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misschoos
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Jul 10 @ 1:24PM
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TroutFishing
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Jul 10 @ 6:43PM
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ugh, cream on jello?
   
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nosary
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Sep 13 @ 11:33AM
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In a world where selfishness is increasingly seen as responsibility for ones own happiness, not many would care if such emails can cause someone to kill themselves
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