 Is it just me, or what the hell happened to the nice guys out here? There are some that CLAIM to be nice guys, but they seem to be pigs like the rest...or is it too much to ask to find a man that opens doors, or is over his last relationship, or let down that they do not want a serious relationship...what is that crap??  And what's this "Lets just be friends with benefits crap"?? Are all you men pigs??   Maybe the nice guys do not live in Texas??  What I am looking for in a partner?  
WANTED!!!  MUST BE WHITE MEN AND NEVER MARRIED EVER.NO CHILD OR CHILDREN AT ALL, EVEN GROWN CHILDREN TOO.  Families are important to me, and I can't wait to meet my special man so I can start a family.".Must be STDs free.   And have a college degree."I like the finer things in life to share with somebody," And he must be willing and looking to be a head of the house. I am looking for a patient, compassionate person that enjoys the small details of life like stimulating conversation, a good cup of coffee at sunrise, a long walk on the beach.... 
Also, someone that is adventurous and that will fill as comfortable in a suite at a symphony as well as hiking boots at a campsite.
I would like to meet a person who is trustworthy, caring, honest, adventurous,respectful, generous and etc.  
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willy3411
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Jul 12 @ 10:22AM
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No degree here, but everything else applies.
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legacy1
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Jul 12 @ 11:20AM
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I am a "light" colored hispanic...  In fact I know I am a nice guy!
Good luck on your search and yes...mosy guys can be well...pigs, dogs or what have you!
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matisse731
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Jul 12 @ 11:26AM
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Your title caught my attention. I read and then I had to look at your profile. Mainly to see how old you were. Your a beautiful young lady. I wish you luck. That is quite a list of requirements. 
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jamminjerry
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Jul 12 @ 11:42AM
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sadly we all seem to have our sights set way to high. in my case i am sure she would have to be exceptional for me to put 20 pounds on! good luck to ya. this part of the game ain't that much easier but there is a lot more hope here. anyway, i was unable to force myself to endure 2 more years of B S to get a B S! LOL we be jammin 
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edthepoet
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Jul 12 @ 12:05PM
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Ok, to be fair, I went and looked at your profile.
I will say you have eliminated 90% of the men with your no kids,never married, have a college degree,no std's, no facial hair and must be taller then you, not to mention a few other items,lol
Now, with that said, your entitled to what you desire, though you talk about liking the finer things in life, yet your making 25,000 a year, which is 10,000 below the avg.
One can only assume, your man will be picking up the slack and paying for the finer things.
I am not putting you down in anyway, just presenting the facts you provided.
I will give you bonus point s for being a lifetime volunteer, compassion is what separate us from being mere flesh.
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Kentuck
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Jul 12 @ 12:11PM
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Well we need to return to the shop and build a real model. In our first attempt we build models of the exact person:
1. White
2. Never married
3. no kids.
4. Like finer things in life.
So, do you have the above credintials? What do you call the finer things in life?
All men are pigs??? Are all women Gold diggers, possessive and dominant?
And what do you bring to the table???
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travelwoman
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Jul 12 @ 12:45PM
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So you're looking for an educated man...?
Are YOU educated enough? Did you not learn at school that people are not "things"... like in "a man that... this, and a man that... that..."
You should write : "a man who... this, and a man who... that..."
And if you permit yourself to call "most" men PIGS... don't be surprised if one of those "pigs" calls you a b..... or worse....
Politeness starts with oneself and what comes out of your mouth....
... and please don't hesitate to delete my comment.... I do not expect anything less...
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CurvyGaGal
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Jul 12 @ 12:47PM
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SpiritEnergy
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Jul 12 @ 12:55PM
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I would not look here for that. Not only that but at the ages you are looking for, you will find few with those qualities or lack of those things you do not want in a man. Then again, you more than likely alienated quite a few possibles with your generalized complaint about men. Go ahead, badmouth and slap em around a little more. I am SURE that will really attract them.
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Sherrybaby412
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Jul 12 @ 1:06PM
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I reread your profile 3 times. We are all entitled to wish for what we want. But to actually get it?
First off you are Hispanic but only want a white guy? I find that IMHO kinda odd. I am Cuban and cannot imagine saying only white guys need apply.
Secondly you are 5'10" and 200 pounds yet your qualifications stop at average weight on men. Sorry but I'm a big girl and honestly you cannot ask someone not to be overweight when you are.
Thirdly. Like someone else mentioned you say income is high on your list. You make 25k yet want someone who makes 50k minimum? That appears golddiggerish. I think I just invented a new word.
#4. I couldn't bring myself to say fourthly. No kids? If you were younger maybe. Chances are someone in their mid 30's+ has been married and divorced with at least one child.
None of this is meant to be hurtful. Just answering your question.
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UnicornLover1962
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Jul 13 @ 7:55AM
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hmmmmmm....after reading this blog, your profile and another blog. i think you have issues that need to be addressed BEFORE finding someone to settle down with.
and before you send me any nasty emails, please censor your cussing, because i will report you.
i have been above board in my profile, and dealings with others. and yes, i've found love right here on MD and we're into our seventh month of happiness. the reason? i didn't place barriers on people. i took them at face value and lo and behold! paul arrived.
as to your attitude about children, could it be that you were part of a family that had children from both sides and didn't like it? i don't know you, and in truth, after reading all about you, i don't want to.
i think you need to realize that you are not perfect and thus being will not find a perfect man. but with time and an attitude adjustment, you will find a "man". and that is by far so much better than anything else.
good luck and god bless
mel
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imlost2
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Jul 13 @ 8:35AM
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I don't understand why you ask something of someone that you can't provide the same of yourself, you are not white, nor with an associates degree does that mean college, that's only a technical school or something like that. So you are not in the big money yourself. Associate degree is only a two year course. You expect so much more from your mate than you have to offer yourself. I'd at least be equal, that's only fair. Most men by this age do have children, you want one that doesn't that's ok, but you might be loosing out on a good man, just a thought. I can understand why ppl are turned off by this message, seems like you are offering much less and are expecting Mr. Perfect while offering Much Less Perfect. Sorry, just as I see it. tc Lost
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sloriver
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Jul 13 @ 8:54AM
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Mr. Right is standing there waiting for Miss Wonderful. If you're not Miss Wonderful you'll never get his attention. From your blogs and your profile I'd guess you're less than Miss Wonderful. That's ok, guys don't have to have that. Most of us just want Miss Loving. The last thing we want is Miss Grasping. No offense, just a suggestion that you adjust your attitude.
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Loreli
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Jul 13 @ 9:12AM
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Wow-
out of the gate, my first reaction was.....how the heck will THAT get a good man?
It does work both ways.....why not ask for a GOOD man, and go from there? 
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LipGlossQueen9
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Jul 13 @ 9:18AM
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I feel like maybe you have to..."get real" a little. The age range you are looking for...those men most likely have been married or have kids. It's really not right to ask for a partner who makes a certain amount of money. After all, money doesn't really make a person who they are.
There is nothing wrong with being Hispanic and wanting a white man, so I don't get why people are kind of flipping out about that...if that's your physical preference then fine go for that, but the rest of it I think you need to re-think....
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copier
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Jul 13 @ 10:24AM
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Is this a joke?
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cookin_cookies
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Jul 13 @ 1:16PM
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Hows this blog workin out for ya? 
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PullMyFinger
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Jul 13 @ 1:57PM
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You'll notice those that have no criteria are the first to slam you into a wall. Your prerequisites for a partner are not unreasonable in my opinion, but for those that are unable to meet such requirements, they immediately assume you're insulting them.
I love how some on here are flabbergasted at your responses. They come on here, call you a gold-digger and expect you to graciously open your arms in acceptance. Yeah, excellent tactic on their part, insult you and then of course, scream injustice when you respond in kind. Listen, a lot of these "people" will scoop up the first breathing entity that comes their way, pronounce a never-ending love, then in 2 weeks, post a blog slamming the crap out of their former love....then of course, find another true love a week later...ad nauseam.
Welcome to the hypocrisy of MD.
They piss and moan when someone judges them on their actions or beliefs, but if it's done to them, the hellhounds are released.
Bloody amazing.
You may very well be a lunatic, but from the responses you have on your blog, you wouldn't be alone.
Good Luck
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poeticcougar
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Jul 13 @ 2:16PM
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Why not try www.sugardaddie.com ?
Those guys want someone who oesn't have children,never married, and don't care how much money you make because they want to foot the bill. The down side for you is they want Barbie OR someone who is willing to go under the knife to look like her. Plus these rich white guys want a "lady" not someone disguised as one who cusses like a sailor.
a guy who opens doors? I have to say, chivalry is mostly dead...a most guys I know would slam that doo rin your face if they realized a woman thought so little of them.
Good luck in your search...you need all the luck you can get with that attitude.
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john49887
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Jul 13 @ 4:45PM
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Unlike some women, at least you’re open and up front when you state that you expect a man to provide you with the finer things in life.
Personally, I wouldn’t come within 500 miles of you but I do respect and admire your honesty.
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tiggercat
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Jul 13 @ 6:36PM
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lmao, well this blog is a real hoot. theres a saying your wants aint goona hurt you and or in this case anybody else for that mattter.
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oct_cat
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Jul 13 @ 10:46PM
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I just want to apologize for having the man you are looking for . . . 6', in shape, no facial hair, hard working, waits on me hand & foot (gotta love those footrubs!!), never married, no children but loves children & being involved, etc.
I guess I just lucked out.
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Josuha
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Jul 14 @ 5:20PM
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I hate top rain on your parade sweetpea, but your in your thirties.
Unless you want to rob the cradle, most men out there have kids...
*shakes head and wonders where these requests come from*
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Ginstl
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Jul 15 @ 4:04PM
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I like how you dropped the educational requirement in the email you sent me
after a comment I made on your last copy of your profile in the blogs.
My comment: "I have wealth friends but they never finished high school."
Your email response to me: " If they look as good as you, bring it on, what are their phone numbers?"
I don't think my friends are going to be involved with you however.
But at least you're honest and know what you want.!
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Tunes4u
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Jul 15 @ 5:38PM
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I have no hair.
I do have facial hair.
Lots of it.
I dropped out of college.
I am a musician of sorts.
I have been married twice.
I have two kids of my own.
Raised a few others.
One of mine is grown.
The other is 15 and lives with me.
I love the finer things in life.
Like Bud. I don't share my Bud.
Unless I have two bottles.
I wear hiking boots to the symphony.
In your title, Degree, No Kids, Never Married
at the very least should be capitalized. I am not sure about the rest.
I can't be sure ....
I dropped out of college, remember?
I can fill a suite, and I can fill hiking boots at the campsite,
if they are the right size.
I do open doors. It is much easier that way.
I am white though. 'Cept when I get sunburn.
Will that do? 
A long walk on a beach sounds pretty good too....
See ya.
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