Geez Louise....
Some folks get so anal. bashing men/women in general because they can't seem to find someone to "love".
The criteria they set to find a man/woman is such that no one qualifies 100%.
Income must be six figures, tall, dark, hamdsome, college educated/ blonde, blue-eyed, barbie doll ffigure.... yada yada yada.
It gets to be unrealistic.
It's so easy to judge someone by their looks, the car they drive, the house they live in. Is that what you look for? Is that what you need?
What ever happened to caring if you find someone that is honest, trustworthy, and respectful. (notice I said AND, not OR)
When I see these type of "requirements" it makes me curious. What is this person lacking in their own life that makes them think that their "requirements"
are what it takes to make them happy?
Poor as a child? ( I was poor), Daddy issues? ( my dad was the drunk from hell).
No friends in high school? (I was invisible) Look different?( me, bark at the moon ugly)
Fine. Set your standards so high that you're bound to be dissapointed.
You might find that "one", the sugar daddy, the barbie doll ... but you need to look inside that person to see what's real. And you also need to look inside yourself to see just how honest your are to yourself.
JMHO
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ragtopcookie
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Jul 13 @ 10:00AM
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Say what you will about her.....the blog she posted sure got people rialed....and showed a few of us guys whats still out there waiting to pounce.........cookie
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RomanticLibra106
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Jul 13 @ 10:05AM
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Women AND men can be gold diggers, hon. They are unevolved souls who can't look beyond the material. Material is very nice and sure beats poverty, but it isn't everything and to me is not on the top of my list. Gainfully employed and having a car are on my list but wealthy? While nice isn't ranked up there in the top 10.
Looks? Each person has their own idea of what is good looking so there is someone for everyone. I'm not looking for Ken or Brad Pitt because I'm no Nicole Kidman or Reese Witherspoon (wish I was but next life) so I am realistic. Attractive to ME is more important and my idea of attractive isn't Madison Avenue's apparently.
To me heart, soul and personality are a LOT more important than looks or $, but perfect for ME would be nice if I can find him and I know I will.
Keep looking and you will find Ms. Right but you also have to believe she is out there and she IS going to find you or it won't happen. Good luck to you.
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lazareth
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Jul 13 @ 10:06AM
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and after they pounce, they chew you up and spit you out 
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copier
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Jul 13 @ 10:19AM
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kudo to you
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CPUfan
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Jul 13 @ 10:43AM
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There's gold in them thar curls, Romantic Libra... I agree with just about everything you wrote - and what Laz wrote... now WHO should I vote for now? :O)
I gave you a kudo Laz but I hope you'll share it with RL... let's distribute the silverware a bit too 
Hmmm maybe I should be looking in economy class hehe... luvli tatoo too Laz.
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loreal
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Jul 13 @ 10:48AM
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Kudo!
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Loreli
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Jul 13 @ 11:20AM
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Exactly! 
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imlost2
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Jul 13 @ 11:37AM
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I agree Laz, the person doesn't have to be rich, just have a job that he goes to full time, doesn't have to have a new vehicle, but one that he keeps up and in good shape. Doesn't have to live in a great place, but one he keeps clean and isn't a slob. I want a person with good hygiene, brushes their teeth, knows how to be responsible and pay bills on time. I want a person that is passionate and compassionate, remembers holidays and doesn't think about themselves first all the time. These are the same qualities I have in myself and wouldn't ask them of someone else if I couldn't produce them myself. If you don't find someone that has the same moral values as yourself you will only be disappointed and probably fight anyways, so it's best to find someone that sees things the same way as you do if you want a lasting relationship. To expect more out of a mate, than you want to put into a relationship is just plain selfish and selfserving to me and the relationship won't work, I don't think, tc Lost
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MrPaul
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Jul 13 @ 3:07PM
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A super kudo for you. Well written and to the point  Some learn and find the joy in life  and others are so high and mighty and stuck on them selfs  that they spend there time  Have a great weekend 
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missliss78
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Jul 13 @ 3:44PM
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 Another great laz blog!~*~
There are lots of light weights out there.
I'll take a heavy weight any time!
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daisy315
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Jul 13 @ 4:04PM
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great Blog Sis... and it DOES apply to men and women.. they are looking more for a show piece or trophy than a true love.. they miss out on alot of wonderful possible love matches when they look for the superficial stuff ..
Kudos
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CurvyGaGal
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Jul 13 @ 9:29PM
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(please, accept this, since I can only give one kudo)
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Palomino
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Jul 18 @ 3:10AM
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Excellent blog! ~*~
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mystery2u888
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Aug 5 @ 7:39AM
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 Fabululiscious blog.................... words spoken sooooooo very loud and clear........... 
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