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Washington DC was an amazing place to grow up in. Talk about your culture! And so close to a lot of salt water too. The Chesapeake Bay was a place of great interest and delight. Crab-cakes being chief among these interests. There is nothing, and I mean nothing, like a good Maryland Chesapeake crab-cake and a cold beer, preferably something cheap, like Pabst or Carling Black Label. And Schlitz or ever how you spell that one. Anything like Bud or anything good just ruined the experience. Cheap beer has it's place in the culinary world, as long as it is cold as hell. Crab-cakes is one of those times. Ernie's Steak and Cheese was another time cheap beer was mandatory. Simply the best Philly Steak and Cheese in the world. 18 inches long, and packed to the hilt. And ice cold cheap beer. Damn.

Yeah....culture.

Museums, art galleries, shows of all sorts, huge movie theaters, sports, and the list just goes on and on. History and culture.

I miss it sometimes. The bustle of the city, and the busy people rushing around. Oddly, the huge display windows of the big department stores downtown during the Christmas season holds some of my happier memories in them. Those windows were alive with toys and moving dolls and presents and sparkle and glitter. Colorful lights and the music too! Happy and cheerful! Snow on the sidewalks sometimes. Holding my Mother's hand and trying to get her to wait just a moment longer.......so I could watch the train go around just one more time. These windows were signs to me...signs of the happy day to come..Christmas Day.....

I once took a ride up into the Wyoming High Country with a friend of mine about 10 years ago. He being an older gentleman who had lost his wife sometime ago, we would have breakfast in the same place most mornings. I think we may have been going there for reasons other than just the fact we were both hungry. There was an especially cute waitress there who was very nice. I think he has a crush on her. I know I did.

One day, over a cup of coffee, he asked if I would like to take a ride and see his ranch. Said it was pretty big, and that it might take the better part of the day. I told him I would love that. So after breakfast, and our mutual eyeful of our pretty server, we jumped into his jeep and headed out of town.

An hour later, and with each turnoff, the road got smaller and smaller, until we finally turned on to a dirt road, and started up a long beautiful grade, headed up into the high country of Wyoming. The high flat plains on one side, and the snow capped peaks on the other.

Ray never talked much. I asked him how much further would it be until we arrived at his ranch. He looked at me with a grin and said we had been on it for the last hour.

As we continued up the mountain, we drove through unbelievable vistas and overlooks of untouched Wyoming High Country. And he said to me, in a low voice..." Everything you see is on my ranch, as far as you can see."

I couldn't believe it. We drove for 2 more hours on this road. This man, who looked like he could barely afford breakfast every morning, owned all of this? I had heard he owned a big place, but this was past the point of comprehension.

We had Pronghorn running beside the jeep....Eagles flying overhead, and the biggest blue sky you ever saw. And we kept climbing. the road was getting steep now, and the air considerably cooler. And we were still on Ray's ranch.

We came to a summit. Ray called it Wildcat Pass. As the jeep made the crest, Ray stopped, and turned off the vehicle. We were looking down into the most beautiful valley I have ever seen. It was magical. Not huge, but spacious, sunny, ..... and silent. A small pure stream running through the grassy valley floor, and snowcapped peaks all around protecting this place from everything, including time... and it was then I saw them.....the evenly sized white stones....arranged in large circles.

I knew what this was instantly, and Ray confirmed it. Indians. Tepee circles. And campfire circles next to each larger circle. All brilliant white quartz. It looked like heaven. It really did. The absolute perfect location for harmony with everything that matters.

This was an old ghost town...a summer home for a long lost tribe, and had been for who knows how long. It was perfect and undisturbed, like everyone had just left for a little while. Ray started the jeep up, and we gently rolled up to the outskirts of "town."

" You are one of a very few people I have brought to this place. It is a sacred place to me. Be still and listen. I have been coming here since I was a child."

As I climbed out of the jeep, and looked down at the ground, I saw an arrowhead just laying there like it had fallen out of the jeep.

Ray said, " You can have a few....but don't disturb anything else."

In less than 5 minutes I had 3 or four perfectly preserved arrowheads in my hand....they were everywhere. And from the same source as the stones in the circles. Like long ago, someone was in a hurry, and had spilled a bunch of them, scattering them as he must of ran.

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Comments:
Tunes4u

Sep 13 @ 12:23PM  
Here I was standing, not in some museum in a big city, but a perfectly preserved moment in time. We wandered around for an hour or two, sitting here and there, listening, and watching the eagles circle overhead. I sat next to the small stream, clear and cool, and watched the fish swimming and feeding. I drifted back into a different world, long gone, yet right in front of me. I did not want to leave. I imagined the original occupants probably didn't want to leave either. I was over come with a huge feeling of loss....an overwhelming sense of tragedy. I had to fight to keep those unpleasant thoughts out of my mind. I wanted to try to live there when times were good. Not the day it all must have ended.

Christmas Day? Electric toy trains? Crab-cakes and cheap beer?

How does this all fit?

I will never forget that place. I won't forget Ray either. We never had breakfast together again either. In fact, that was the last time I saw him. I do know he was real though. And I know he really did own that ranch. Because I know the Mayor of that town we had breakfast in every morning. And he told me all about Ray, when he noticed Ray and I were friends.

Nope...won't forget old Ray....He is long dead now. I haven't forgotten one damn minute of that day. Thanks Ray.

But I have forgotten how to find Wildcat Pass .....I wonder sometimes if I didn't do that on purpose. I kinda wish I hadn't...but going back doesn't seem right.

Not without my Guide. The Gatekeeper. The Caretaker. The Watchman.

Washington DC was an amazing place to grow up.

Wyoming is an amazing place to grow out.



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oceanlover734

Sep 13 @ 12:34PM  
Not sure why but this blog brought tears.......... Maybe it is something I can't explain but I do know you took us the reader to a very special place in this blog. Thank you ~*~
luvshorses644

Sep 13 @ 1:06PM  
Tunes...

As usual your blog I felt .. not only read, I felt it. It is something that I feel each time I take my ole tired self down by the stream and listen... I hear the sounds of the loons and the herons...

I find fossils in the rocks around here each time I pick one up outta the field to toss in my pick so that Katie the Kubota doesn't get injured while she is doing her chores with me riding in the seat steering.

This is something I hoped the people around me would understand, but...

And you had me from the first line...crab cakes and ice cold beer (so cold it makes your teeth ping with the first sip)...

~*~
poeticcougar

Sep 13 @ 1:12PM  
Oceanlover had it right...this blog welled up my eyes. It was like "I" was there with Ray. You are indeed a magical writer, Tunes
jentoblues101

Sep 13 @ 1:31PM  
Wildcat Pass sounds marvelous but I will always miss bushels of crabs eaten outside on newspaper-covered picnic tables and buckets of steamers.

Arrowheads don't taste very good...
VaPeppermintPatti

Sep 13 @ 2:37PM  
ACK! TUNES! What a sacrilege! It is a Natty Bo Bock with the crabcakes! Now are you talkin' about crabcakes on saltines or on a fresh, toasted sub roll with lots of lettuce, tartar sauce, and tomatoes? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?

Remember, my friend, that this here is a real dyed in the wool (Only Miss Clairol knows for sure!!!) gal that grew up on the Chesapeake and even placed 2nd at the 1991 Maryland Seafood Festival's annual cream of crab soup cook-off! I know my crabcakes and how to pick 'em right without mangling the poor beasties! Secret is the sharp, sharp paring knife.
misschief

Sep 13 @ 3:42PM  
~*~


Oceans.

I hate the city, as much as I love it's vibrancy, I like to visit, knowing that
I won't be there for too long.
SallyF

Sep 13 @ 4:11PM  
Beautiful story....thank you, Tunes. I, too, was 'there'.
dallas1995

Sep 13 @ 4:19PM  
yep...natty bo is the best with Maryland steamed crabs for my palate... still enjoying the land of pleasant living and all it's pleasures
ColdinWisconsin

Sep 13 @ 4:50PM  
I commented on this amazing piece of work "in that other place" but I will do so here as well.

You have a gift for taking me along with you. A scenic tour and quiet moments all rolled into one. I needed this today. Thank you. And as always...well worth tuning in for.
silksox

Sep 13 @ 7:10PM  
Thanks Tunageman

Always gentle on my mind...your blogs

K
one_dimple

Sep 13 @ 7:38PM  
Beautiful story....beautifully written, and felt.
wolfmist

Sep 13 @ 9:01PM  
I came to Maryland's eastern shore from PA's frozen polar north. I lived on the borders of DC for four years and when I finally moved out here it was a wonderful home coming...

After 12 years here I finally went home this summer. Before I saw family, checked into a hotel, did anything else I went to my beloved Lake Erie and walked straight in...

Thank goodness I have never forgotten where home is... even if I can't stand the cold temperatures. Lake Erie forgave me for forsaking her for the Chesapeake bay... and when I came home, the bay forgave me for loving my lake more than any place on earth... it's just a shame I can't tolerate the weather from Oct. till June!
kywonder

Sep 14 @ 9:38AM  
Very well written. I was instantly taken back in time to a place where time stood still and I could smell and see the landscape. I paused and took time to smell.
Thanks.
needa

Sep 14 @ 10:15AM  
~*~ Mr. Tunes,

I was there on the journey with you and Ray, I felt Ray's respect for the land and the circle. What an amazing experience, to know such a man.
imlost2

Sep 14 @ 1:17PM  
Great Blog Tunes. Even tho I felt Wyoming too darned cold to live there, when I lived in Wyoming we went to a few old towns, some no longer lived in but beautiful still. You can imagine cowboys of long ago and townsfolk busy with their lives if you use your imagination while wandering thru the ruins. I had several Indian friends that took us to the most beautiful places ever with waterfalls and landscape they usually never took white folks too, totally amazing. So I know where you are coming from. I still go to visit my relatives from time to time, Wyoming has many places left untouched, still left beauty of the old west. take care Lost
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