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posted 9/23/2008 4:31:31 PM |
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  misschief

No Time For Goodbye


It’s my brother’s going away party tonight, he’s leaving the UK this weekend to start a new life in Spain with his wife.

I went to lunch with his wife last weekend, we said our ‘goodbyes,’ my brother couldn’t make it as usual.

I love my brother, but he’s never had any time for any of his family. I’ve seen him quite often over the years because I’ve visited him a lot, but not once has he come to visit me and the children.

He regretted not spending enough time with my dad, but only when it was too late.

He did the same with all our grandparents and always promised to make amends, but never did.

I’ve listened to his sob stories a few times too often and last night was the final straw when he called my mother and left her in tears.

I don’t think he will be visiting mum before he leaves either and I doubt he will even bother to call me.

I’m not going to the party, I’m tired of playing the ‘trophy sister.’ I do wonder if I’ll ever get to hear his last sob story, but I know exactly what it will say, and so for me, there’s no time for goodbye.


Thank you for reading my blog.


Here is something else. I wrote it last week, just waiting for someone, something, a melody from someone in particular.

I hope you like it.

>>> A Carrier Bag & A Bottle Of Wine <<<



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Comments:
leprichaun_magic

Sep 23 @ 4:43PM  
.oh .like that ."drink wine .till you feel Sublime "...smiles
and yes
my brother left for NewZealand [a few thousand miles further than yours!!]
ceecee1952

Sep 23 @ 4:53PM  
go to the damn party...
misschief

Sep 23 @ 5:01PM  
go to the damn party.

I did consider that in not going, my behaviour would have
been as bad as his, but it isn't. I have to opt out of this one.





kywonder

Sep 23 @ 5:08PM  
oh misschiefs, I do feel your pain. I hope you do see your brother and that things will be different.

Beautifully written.
oct_cat

Sep 23 @ 5:27PM  
If a person has no time for family . . . will that person eventually have no time for a spouse??
Borty

Sep 23 @ 6:27PM  
I wrote this for your brother.

When everything is stripped away.
And lustre is gone from the day.
Our families love will get us through.
And make us whole,happy and true.

Hope he doesn't realize too late, that all we really have in life is family and friends.
Tunes4u

Sep 23 @ 7:00PM  
Love this miss....

I have never really liked most poetry until recently.

I still don't like most poetry, because it is not poetry, is it?

But I like yours.


As for your brother.............well....it's his loss.....
xxx
fenderchick

Sep 23 @ 7:10PM  
You are so brilliant...
matisse731

Sep 23 @ 10:49PM  
You made my heart hurt ~*~
TroutFishing

Sep 24 @ 12:56AM  
ah the dysfunctional family - I have one of those -
and I used to have to put up with 2 sisters who did
nice drama queen things to spread their misery around.

Being elsewhere is so much healthier for all of us.


CHARLIgurl1

Sep 24 @ 2:09PM  
My youngest daughter is like this.. always letting her family down.. especially my Mum.. one day she wont have a Nan any more.. and then we'll have the too late tears.
tentfire

Sep 25 @ 8:16PM  
My understanding,comforting thoughts are with you. I hope they are strong enough that you can 'feel' the comfort from them as they warmly hug you.
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