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posted 9/26/2008 11:45:59 PM |
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  travelwoman

I am getting very tired of all the people trying to control me and my life.


There are all kinds of companies who try to control my money and the things I should be able to buy (even with shrinking income...)

There are the insurance companies who try to control me with fear.

There is the system who produces laws and taxes by the truckload, all meant to control me one way or another.

There are the churches who want to control my mind, and my purse, too...

There are dad and mom who throw a fit when they find out that I don't live exactly the way they think I should.

There are a bunch of well-meaning friends who start every other sentence with "you should..." or "why don't you..."

There have been men in my life who had an unique way of controlling: they would run off for an hour, an afternoon, a day or a couple of days.... knowing that I would sit around and wait for them to call or show back up. They very effectively controlled me....

And there is my boss, who would like to control every breath I take within the company's walls, AND.... lately tries to control even what I do in my PRIVATE life. I just wish the job market was better....


I'm soooooo darn tired of being controlled.

I just want to be out of control.... of others' control....

I wish I could hit the road again and.... good luck for finding me if I don't want to be found...


I better go ponder the last part of this blog... maybe... just maybe....

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Comments:
MrPaul

Sep 26 @ 11:50PM  
hey if you hit the road please come get me and lets goooooooooooooooooooooo
Josuha

Sep 26 @ 11:57PM  
There is the concept called 'control point'.

For example, if you go to a church, the pastor will guide you as to what to believe.

The media for example, what 'politically correct' opinion you should have, etc.

The secret is to disregard the 'control point' mentally.
Get out of the boat so to speak.

You have to make you own path by your own way.
Otherwise, you just another 'follower'.

Most people put themsleves in the cage without knowing it. (Another secret of how your controlled.)

We were born to be wild..not in a cage.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJS8j9YYB9w



wolfmist

Sep 27 @ 12:01AM  
Hey, you can travel and homeschool. Biggest problem is income but if you did it for five years, you can probably do it again :) I was kind of a rolling stone before kids, never stayed in one place more than 2 years. Now I've been in the same area for 20 years... kinda scary! LOL Mind you, I've lived in 5 towns and am moving to my sixth this week but in the 50 mile radius. 6 more years till all the kids are grown and I'll be able to shake off the moss and roll again, perhaps.
travelwoman

Sep 27 @ 12:08AM  

Josuha...

We were born to be wild..not in a cage.

I know.... and I want to be wild and free again... but how...
How would I do that when I need to care for my lovely child? I need to have a place to live for him, a school to go to, enough food, toys.... allow him to grow roots...
For all this I need to submit to the ridiculous and unreasonable requirements at work...
It really starts getting to me...
And with the messed up economy, I can't even switch to another job... There are none....
But in my MIND, I WON'T submit....
and one day, it'll be payback day... and I'll walk out the door, and will dust my shoes off when doing so....


Wolfmist...
When I did it for 5 years, I had money.... Ex-hubby took care of the money part... that's why he's X


Mr.Paul...
No way! You'll try to tell me which direction to go...
.
SunBabe

Sep 27 @ 12:09AM  
You still have that decent utility trailer?

I'm right there on the map if you decide to head south.
travelwoman

Sep 27 @ 12:13AM  
Sunbabe...

I wish...

And if ever I manage to pull the plug, I'd stop by your place first, promised...
.
jayej

Sep 27 @ 2:51AM  
Take a deep breath Travel, they don't control you, they just control the circumstances around you.

I have read enough of your blogs and comments to know you have an inner strength.


J
ghost42950

Sep 27 @ 7:16AM  
I have a list of names and plotted payback ideas personalized for each one.
lol Just formulating the idea helps me vent and keep my smiles.

Some range from Blowing them a kiss and just walking away or putting a Micro switch wired to a battery to shock their buns every time they sit down or letting they "steal" my Exlax brownies.
leprichaun_magic

Sep 27 @ 8:09AM  
..we all want to be Free Spirits .. ..and we can to a certain extent ...just takes ...some time ..learning to step back,,,now and again.:)
smell the roses"...
MUDSHARK

Sep 27 @ 9:32AM  
Oh, that kind of controller. I thought it might have been an attack on me or my counterparts in the corporate world.
roscoe1955

Sep 27 @ 7:28PM  
no matter what in life there is control so lay back and take control,control who works sleeps.lives or dies,who has money who doesn't see so you are controlled even though you think you are not
jamminjerry

Sep 27 @ 8:08PM  
sunbabe and mr paul have made a point. should you be forced to move (lose your job etc) let us know so that we can help you hop skip and jump to wherever you want to land for a while! there is food and shelter here for a bit and i will try to figure out how to get ya a tank of gas! i have a few true friends that will help if i ask. we be jammin
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